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Message started by oceans_blue on May 31st, 2007 at 12:14pm

Title: Forum Relationships
Post by oceans_blue on May 31st, 2007 at 12:14pm
What do we think of friends and relationships we make online...

I personally admire some pple in here and am loathe to upset or hurt anyone feelings- If I do I try to apolagise immediately.


BUT there are some ppl who come onto a forum and think 'what the he-ll, its only a forum full of weirdos, Ill just have a bit of fun with them' This usually means flaming certain pple and saying hurtful things to elicit a response..which ensues in a flaming war.

I dont buy into this theory.

Behind a keyboard is a real person..and the things said to pple online we WOULD NEVER say to theyre faces. This is a cyber world and a lot of pple can be bigger and braver and meaner because anonmyity gives them protection.

..People are people..


No mean comments on this thread please..







Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceans_blue on May 31st, 2007 at 12:16pm
Respect is very important :-?

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by sprintcyclist on May 31st, 2007 at 12:31pm
A flaming war happens only if they get a response.

All the best oceans

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceans_blue on May 31st, 2007 at 12:56pm

IQSRLOW wrote on May 31st, 2007 at 12:36pm:
Respect is very important

Respect is earned, not given freely or lightly... and it is a two way street.

You will notice that I have no problem interacting reasonably with any other poster


I have not set this thread up to begin a flame war IQ..I am trying to diffuse a situation..Its good you feel its worth patricipating in however.

This thread exists so that anyone who is upset with flaming since your arrival can express a veiw or opinion, because it effects them too.

I  too interact quite well on the whole with other posters..for that matter.I would open my PM so that you can message me but you used it to abuse me when you 1st got here..I will unblock you later..and then you may pm me if you wish.OK?


Thank you Sprint.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNat on Jun 1st, 2007 at 5:35pm
Oceans loves me. :D

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceans_blue on Jun 1st, 2007 at 7:21pm
Hi Aussie..

Whats not to love Aussie? Your a nice guy. ;)  :)

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNat on Jun 2nd, 2007 at 2:40am
Thank you. :-[ Im just being playful for the record. :)

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceans_blue on Jun 2nd, 2007 at 11:10am

Ausnat wrote on Jun 2nd, 2007 at 2:40am:
Thank you. :-[ Im just being playful for the record. :)



I know..me too. :)


Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by mantra on Jun 4th, 2007 at 9:17am
Oceans - you are supported by most of the posters here - including myself.  Unfortunately everytime a nasty, foul mouthed poster comes onto a forum to attack, it lowers the whole standard.

You are the better person, so don't let coarse, crude insults get to you.  Hopefully the moderator of this forum will pick up on it shortly.


Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceans_blue on Jun 4th, 2007 at 11:02am

mantra wrote on Jun 4th, 2007 at 9:17am:
Oceans - you are supported by most of the posters here - including myself.  Unfortunately everytime a nasty, foul mouthed poster comes onto a forum to attack, it lowers the whole standard.

You are the better person, so don't let coarse, crude insults get to you.  Hopefully the moderator of this forum will pick up on it shortly.



Thank you mantra for your support..Cant say I havent begged and pleaded with him thuough.. :-?

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by IQSRLOW on Jun 4th, 2007 at 11:22am
Cant say I havent begged and pleaded with him thuough..

::) ::) ::)

You've done nothing, including not apologising, which would completely end all the bickering. Anything else you have well and truly deserved- it's a good thing I have held back

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNat on Jun 4th, 2007 at 11:26am
Just do it oceans. sometimes one must swallow their pride, its a means to an end.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by freediver on Jun 4th, 2007 at 11:30am
IQ she did not deserve the insults that you have thrown at her and other members.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by IQSRLOW on Jun 4th, 2007 at 11:37am
Uhh, yes she did. Other members have only copped a spray because they chose to get involved and insult me- I can't help if if my insults are a little more imaginative than theirs  :D

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by freediver on Jun 4th, 2007 at 11:39am
Yes you can. You don't have much of a choice anyway.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNat on Jun 4th, 2007 at 11:40am

IQSRLOW wrote on Jun 4th, 2007 at 11:37am:
Uhh, yes she did. Other members have only copped a spray because they chose to get involved and insult me- I can't help if if my insults are a little more imaginative than theirs  :D


On that, i never insulted you- you insulted me. YOU owe me an apology. you were the aggressor.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNat on Jun 4th, 2007 at 11:59am

IQSRLOW wrote on Jun 4th, 2007 at 11:51am:
You started the 'Attention Freediver' thread after I spoke quite civilly to you over PM's.

Did you want me to buy you flowers?


Ive seen this all before. There is nothing worse than people fighting over non political issues, especially when it comes down to low petty name calling.
I wrote that thread because i wanted peace and an end to all that crap.
I have very little tolerance for all that has occoured.
Whats more, i dont hate you. so relax.

Nah thanks, im not one for flowers.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceans_blue on Jun 4th, 2007 at 12:52pm
Sorry IQ..


that was for other posters and peace in the forum...

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by danny on Jun 4th, 2007 at 1:20pm
Hi everyone,

My name is danny. Good to meet you all.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceans_blue on Jun 4th, 2007 at 1:22pm
Hi danny...


welcome, hope you enjoy your stay here- :)

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by sprintcyclist on Jun 4th, 2007 at 1:41pm
Hi Danny,

Good to have you here.  Have fun

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by danny on Jun 4th, 2007 at 2:14pm

IQSRLOW wrote on Jun 4th, 2007 at 1:49pm:
Welcome Danny.

I hope you enjoy your stay.



who are you..?


Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNat on Jun 4th, 2007 at 2:29pm

IQSRLOW wrote on Jun 4th, 2007 at 2:22pm:
I am the resident forum God


With 90 posts ;D

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by danny on Jun 4th, 2007 at 2:34pm

Ausnat wrote on Jun 4th, 2007 at 2:29pm:

IQSRLOW wrote on Jun 4th, 2007 at 2:22pm:
I am the resident forum God


With 90 posts ;D


How ya doin' AusNat?

Nice to meet you mate !

So if you wanna be a god around  here you just post your ars e off?

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNat on Jun 4th, 2007 at 2:57pm

danny wrote on Jun 4th, 2007 at 2:34pm:

Ausnat wrote on Jun 4th, 2007 at 2:29pm:

IQSRLOW wrote on Jun 4th, 2007 at 2:22pm:
I am the resident forum God


With 90 posts ;D


How ya doin' AusNat?

Nice to meet you mate !

So if you wanna be a god around  here you just post your ars e off?


Pretty much.

Nice to meet you too.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceans_blue on Jun 5th, 2007 at 11:53am
Hi all..


Just a note to let you know I am deleting my membership., I think for reasons that would not be lost on some of you..

Love to all those who have been kind and supported me thru difficult times lately.

If my being here has been difficult to tolerate I aploagise..I know I have been targetted and should have left a while back to restore peace..I would like to think that nasty people dont prosper but Im not so sure now.

Thanks Sprint, Mantra- (your the best ),and of course Aus Nat.



Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNat on Jun 5th, 2007 at 12:41pm

wrote on Jun 5th, 2007 at 11:53am:
Hi all..


Just a note to let you know I am deleting my membership., I think for reasons that would not be lost on some of you..

Love to all those who have been kind and supported me thru difficult times lately.

If my being here has been difficult to tolerate I aploagise..I know I have been targetted and should have left a while back to restore peace..I would like to think that nasty people dont prosper but Im not so sure now.

Thanks Sprint, Mantra- (your the best ),and of course Aus Nat.



Im sorry to see you go. we will all miss you. :'(

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by sprintcyclist on Jun 5th, 2007 at 1:41pm
That's a pity oceans.  All the best and hope to catuch up with you in the future in virtual land.

  :'(    :-*

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by danny on Jun 5th, 2007 at 11:00pm
never knew you oceans.

all the best ay?

Why are you leaving here?

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by DonaldTrump on Jun 6th, 2007 at 1:20am

wrote on Jun 5th, 2007 at 11:53am:
Hi all..


Just a note to let you know I am deleting my membership., I think for reasons that would not be lost on some of you..

Love to all those who have been kind and supported me thru difficult times lately.

If my being here has been difficult to tolerate I aploagise..I know I have been targetted and should have left a while back to restore peace..I would like to think that nasty people dont prosper but Im not so sure now.

Thanks Sprint, Mantra- (your the best ),and of course Aus Nat.



What the heck?? What the hell has been happening since I've been gone?  :o

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by sprintcyclist on Jun 6th, 2007 at 9:03am
Hi Donald,
Yes, oceans felt she could not get on with someone here so she left.

Is a pity and she did not have to go at all.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by danny on Jun 6th, 2007 at 1:00pm
Someone told me why Oceans Left.

What goes round comes around ..


Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by freediver on Jun 6th, 2007 at 1:02pm
What goes round comes around ..

So she's coming back?

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by danny on Jun 6th, 2007 at 1:10pm
I dont know

I hope so.



Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceansblue on Jun 6th, 2007 at 7:04pm
I see Ive been missed?

Thats sweet.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNatSo on Jun 6th, 2007 at 7:08pm
Is that really you? :'(

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceansblue on Jun 6th, 2007 at 7:12pm
yes..

it is ...hello. ..dont cry.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNatSo on Jun 6th, 2007 at 7:14pm
EXCELLENT :)

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceansblue on Jun 6th, 2007 at 7:15pm
you make me happy ausnat.. :)

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by DonaldTrump on Jun 6th, 2007 at 7:48pm
Is that really you Oceans?

If it is... you had me worried there for a second...  :o

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceansblue on Jun 6th, 2007 at 8:02pm
It is me Donald..and Im sorry I forgot to menttion your name when I left..inexcusable..

You arent around here much anymore which is bit sad. :-/

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceansblue on Jun 6th, 2007 at 8:20pm
that one was recorded for posterity IQ..management has a copy..please no flaming on my thread please

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by DonaldTrump on Jun 6th, 2007 at 8:26pm

oceanz wrote on Jun 6th, 2007 at 8:02pm:
It is me Donald..and Im sorry I forgot to menttion your name when I left..inexcusable..

You arent around here much anymore which is bit sad. :-/


Give me a chance... I've got exams right now... pretty hard to post and study at the same time.  ;)

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceansblue on Jun 6th, 2007 at 8:36pm

ex-member DonaldTrump wrote on Jun 6th, 2007 at 8:26pm:

oceanz wrote on Jun 6th, 2007 at 8:02pm:
It is me Donald..and Im sorry I forgot to menttion your name when I left..inexcusable..

You arent around here much anymore which is bit sad. :-/


Give me a chance... I've got exams right now... pretty hard to post and study at the same time.  ;)



me too Donald..but hey I do understand.its tough :-?

Mine is on Friday, exam that is..open book...Im lucky.

Are you full time and what are you studying ?

Im only partime this yr..Im doing Social Work.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by DonaldTrump on Jun 6th, 2007 at 9:07pm
Yeah I'm full-time... doing arts subjects... don't wanna discuss specific subjects in an open forum though.

Had no idea you were a Uni student.  ;) Who says you don't learn something new everyday?  :P

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceansblue on Jun 6th, 2007 at 9:12pm

ex-member DonaldTrump wrote on Jun 6th, 2007 at 9:07pm:
Yeah I'm full-time... doing arts subjects... don't wanna discuss specific subjects in an open forum though.

Had no idea you were a Uni student.  ;) Who says you don't learn something new everyday?  :P


thats fine, no specifics  required.

Good luck with your exams..hope you do well.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by DonaldTrump on Jun 6th, 2007 at 9:30pm
Good luck to you too.  ;)

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by mantra on Jun 6th, 2007 at 10:31pm
I'm being a bit wary here - I thought you might have been someone else.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by oceansblue on Jun 6th, 2007 at 11:03pm
No mantra..

It s me...I just answered a question for AN so that should tell you..

When you said my thread could be under threat..It put a flame under me. :-?

Sorry I didnt inform you earlier.. :(


Now any life problem I can help you with? :)




Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusNat on Jun 6th, 2007 at 11:04pm
I CONFIRM IT.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by mantra on Jun 7th, 2007 at 6:38am
That's good news.   :)  

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by Aussie on Dec 6th, 2023 at 5:12pm

wrote on Jun 5th, 2007 at 11:53am:
Hi all..


Just a note to let you know I am deleting my membership., I think for reasons that would not be lost on some of you..

Love to all those who have been kind and supported me thru difficult times lately.

If my being here has been difficult to tolerate I aploagise..I know I have been targetted and should have left a while back to restore peace..I would like to think that nasty people dont prosper but Im not so sure now.

Thanks Sprint, Mantra- (your the best ),and of course Aus Nat.


...and here you go.  Way back when this MRB was created, Agnes (she then called herself Oceans) was Mod and.....^^^^^^^....read.

Completely unstable.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by Ja-Sindarin on Dec 6th, 2023 at 7:40pm
Good find. Well done.

She has the 'habit' of making an Italian 'Soccer' Dive at any opportunity, especially to gain sympathy and support from Male Members here, against other Male Members that she fails to 'coerce' with her 'flirtations'.

I knew something was up with her 'suddenly' being noice to me in a very 'personal' way.
I played along, but stayed 'cautious'...
...then she tried to coerce Setanta just last week with 'flirtation' and Set pinged her straight away and out of his way.  ;D

So be careful. She is known to easily 'pussy-whip' VIC and FD to get what she wants with her 'swan dive' victimhood of being oppressed, bullied and more.

Personally, I just don't think she has what it takes to 'deal with anyone' here really. I think she has had many 'issues' over the years in her personal life. I don't despise her in any way, like I would that evil Mothra. But I find it really hard to feel 'impressed' with her actions.

Hell, when I did my one and only 'sock' that was Vulcan to find out why the 'fighting here at Ozpol' between the two PA Forums.
Reading posts by Agnes & Bobby complaining about the 'invasion' here of the Monksters from their PA Forum.
I soon found that it was Agnes and Bobby actually going to that Forum and antagonising them into reacting and forcing them to come here and fight, etc.
A case of claiming Victimhood, while perpetrating the Crime.  ::)

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusGeoff on Dec 7th, 2023 at 7:10am


Wow... is this a record necro-post?   16 years?     Seriously.    :D



Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by Aussie on Dec 7th, 2023 at 7:38am

AusGeoff wrote on Dec 7th, 2023 at 7:10am:
Wow... is this a record necro-post?   16 years?     Seriously.    :D



...and in those 16 years, nothing has changed.  You watch.  You got sucked in.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by Bobby. on Dec 7th, 2023 at 7:43am

Stop shooting blanks Aussie -

everyone is waiting for the goodies.   :)

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by Sophia on Dec 7th, 2023 at 8:10am

AusGeoff wrote on Dec 7th, 2023 at 7:10am:
Wow... is this a record necro-post?   16 years?     Seriously.    :D


Oh my goodness. I know they say by their habits ye shall know them… but 16 years ago…
I think of myself for instance…16 years ago I felt I was a different person to now.
We go through life…living and learning from our mistakes…. and we move on.
To hold something against someone for what they did 15, 20 years ago or so, is a bit like holding a grudge. How can we expect anyone to improve, or prove themselves if we do that?
It also depends on who or the types that around you at the time.
Some people bring out the worst in us, some alleviate the low vibes and uplift.
We react accordingly. There’s always room for improvement.
One thing a retired school teacher friend told me they taught school kids…GOMO.
Get over it and move on.
If it’s good enough for school kids, it’s good enough for adults too.

It’s Xmas time… let’s be pleasant …even for a few weeks.
Life is a struggle as it is… good times are always short lived…

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by Aussie on Dec 7th, 2023 at 8:44am

Sophia wrote on Dec 7th, 2023 at 8:10am:

AusGeoff wrote on Dec 7th, 2023 at 7:10am:
Wow... is this a record necro-post?   16 years?     Seriously.    :D


Oh my goodness. I know they say by their habits ye shall know them… but 16 years ago…
I think of myself for instance…16 years ago I felt I was a different person to now.
We go through life…living and learning from our mistakes…. and we move on.
To hold something against someone for what they did 15, 20 years ago or so, is a bit like holding a grudge. How can we expect anyone to improve, or prove themselves if we do that?
It also depends on who or the types that around you at the time.
Some people bring out the worst in us, some alleviate the low vibes and uplift.
We react accordingly. There’s always room for improvement.
One thing a retired school teacher friend told me they taught school kids…GOMO.
Get over it and move on.
If it’s good enough for school kids, it’s good enough for adults too.

It’s Xmas time… let’s be pleasant …even for a few weeks.
Life is a struggle as it is… good times are always short lived…


Indeed.  The point is Sophia,....despite those 16 years, Agnes has learned nothing.  I could keep trawling through the old posts and I will find the innumerable examples of just how consistent Agnes is in her walk outs and late edits to sprays.  Do you want me to do that, or will you accept that the leopard Agnes has not and will not change its spots.

And.......I have nothing to hold a "grudge" with Agnes about, nothing.

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusGeoff on Dec 8th, 2023 at 3:08am

Aussie wrote on Dec 7th, 2023 at 8:44am:
... Indeed.  The point is Sophia,... despite those 16 years, Agnes has learned nothing.  I could keep trawling through the old posts and I will find the innumerable examples of just how consistent Agnes is in her walk outs and late edits to sprays.  Do you want me to do that, or will you accept that the leopard Agnes has not and will not change its spots.

And.......I have nothing to hold a "grudge" with Agnes about, nothing.

So you've resurrected this ancient thread just to tell us
that you still think Agnes is "completely unstable"?

Well mate, that's certainly well worth knowing, and I'm
sure we can all breathe more easily now.

   Thank you kindly.      ;)



Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by Ja-Sindarin on Dec 8th, 2023 at 3:47am
Thanks Aussie.
Necromancy is a science and skill.
It's 'Memory'.
Don't worry about the others, they suffer from dementia, for lack of.
It's very entertaining catching up with Topics long past.
It gives insight indeed if there has been any 'change'?
Of where Members went right, or where they went wrong.

Don't worry about them.
Necromancy sorts the 'old & stale' members out.  ;)

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by Aussie on Dec 8th, 2023 at 7:13am

AusGeoff wrote on Dec 8th, 2023 at 3:08am:

Aussie wrote on Dec 7th, 2023 at 8:44am:
... Indeed.  The point is Sophia,... despite those 16 years, Agnes has learned nothing.  I could keep trawling through the old posts and I will find the innumerable examples of just how consistent Agnes is in her walk outs and late edits to sprays.  Do you want me to do that, or will you accept that the leopard Agnes has not and will not change its spots.

And.......I have nothing to hold a "grudge" with Agnes about, nothing.

So you've resurrected this ancient thread just to tell us
that you still think Agnes is "completely unstable"?

Well mate, that's certainly well worth knowing, and I'm
sure we can all breathe more easily now.

   Thank you kindly.      ;)


Yes it is worth knowing, and it is a pity you were not better informed before you voted in The Tavern election.

You were duped.

Voting for a candidate you know SFA about is dumb, don't you think Geoff?

Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by AusGeoff on Dec 9th, 2023 at 2:48am



Hmmm...

Obviously struck a raw nerve there LOL.


Title: Re: Forum Relationships
Post by Aussie on Dec 9th, 2023 at 7:30am

AusGeoff wrote on Dec 9th, 2023 at 2:48am:
Hmmm...

Obviously struck a raw nerve there LOL.


I believe I did, Geoff.

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