We all know what kind of girl a guy finds attractive, but what kind of girl do the girls think is sexually desirable? Names and pictures and reasons why girls! No Angelina Jolie's... >:(

As in, what do you find the perfect example of femininity? What do you think men should desire, rather than what they do.

Angelina is too butch for me.

Every man loves his mother..so thats my answer.

He doesnt sexually desire her..but eventually attracted to the qualities forund in his mother  ....   . ( wether he knows it or not)

The Oedipus complex? I can honestly say that the first girl I was attracted to did kind of look like my mum, and thinking about it it is kind of scary.

However, I have never had a girlfriend remotely similar in appearance or mannerisms to my mum.

Explain!

Im not sure..but I notice my son thinks most girls who are cute etc look a bit like me and his sister.

So thats all I can say for now.

oceanz wrote on Sep 15^th, 2008 at 3:26pm:

Every man loves his mother..so thats my answer. He doesnt sexually desire her..but eventually attracted to the qualities forund in his mother  ....   . ( wether he knows it or not)

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Did you know your Father?

Neferti wrote on Sep 15^th, 2008 at 6:23pm:

oceanz wrote on Sep 15th, 2008 at 3:26pm: Every man loves his mother..so thats my answer. He doesnt sexually desire her..but eventually attracted to the qualities forund in his mother  ....   . ( wether he knows it or not) doesn't found whether Did you know your Father?

Im not sure what you mean by that nerfiti...of course I knew my father as we all did..I know your not trying to be unkind.

A son does not sexually desire his mother..one would not think so anyway..but nonetheless there are sons who admire many qualities in their mothers and tend to subconciously (or not),seek those qualities in a life partner.

Im not sure what this has to do with my father.

oceanz wrote on Sep 15^th, 2008 at 8:32pm:

Im not sure what you mean by that nerfiti...of course I knew my father as we all did..I know your not trying to be unkind. A son does not sexually desire his mother..one would not think so anyway..but nonetheless there are sons who admire many qualities in their mothers and tend to subconciously (or not),seek those qualities in a life partner. Im not sure what this has to do with my father.

What I meant was that usually boys look at the qualities of their mother when looking for a wife and girls look at the qualities of their father when choosing a husband.   :)  If you loved your Dad, you'll know what I mean.

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What I meant was that usually boys look at the qualities of their mother when looking for a wife and girls look at the qualities of their father when choosing a husband.     If you loved your Dad, you'll know what I mean.

True neferti especially if you had a great father.  Perhaps that's why some women expect too much from men.  They can't find a male to meet their expectations.

As far as sons and girlfriends - my son has always had a succession of relationships and so he should.  He's only young and has got plenty of time to think about settling down.  He's always attracted to females who have no resemblance to me physically, but when he ends a relationship it's always the same tired old story - "she started sounding too much like you mum".  

As far as what do women find attractive in other women - I've always liked individuality, strength and confidence - although I'm not sure males always find that so appealing.  A nice face and body helps of course, but most women can be attractive if they believe they are attractive.  This is where too many females fall down.  They are so concerned with an outward clonish appearance, they become shallow and insecure and concentrate too much on their defects and don't develop their natural qualities and abilities.

Attractiveness comes from within and those who have the ability to display this - whether they're female or male - are considered the most desirable.

I think easels thread is not going the way he planned. ;)

I think the womens idea of sexy from my veiwpoint is any woman at any age..who loves her feminity and has confidence to be who she is..from any age 15- 100...

These women exude confidence and charm..men love it.

Confidence and life experience is sexy.



Nef my dad...yes I loved him..but never would have sought him as a life partner... he had deep problems which manifested in violence and alcohol..

What do you think about this girl?

She isn't strictly feminine, nor strictly masculine. She has girly features with boyish charm.

Does she have appeal to both sexes?

Yes she's attractive in an ethereal way.  I think it's the mouth as well.  Women with a slight overbite seem to fall into the sexy category.  I wonder why!  :)

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Well can you tell us of Easel's plan for this thread - especially as you appear to be the expert on this subject.  What does he mean exactly? Can others offer their humble opinion?

If its humble mantra  I guess thats ok.  lol..  ::) Geeeezzz lighten up.

Why are u being so mean?



I dont really have much opinion about the physical attributes of women..I like men.

So you've never looked at a girl and thought she was pretty? Never looked at a girl and been envious of your perception that she would receive a large amount of male attention?

You don't have to experience sexual attraction to recognise it.

Same with beauty I guess.

I thought women were supposed to be in to aesthetic pleasures?

Of course not...

Dont males feel jealousy toward each other?

are you envious of Brad Pitt easel..?

What is wrong about her Easel - is that she has ugly hands - they don't match the rest of her.  She looks as though she spent too much time pulling her knuckles when she was at school.

I'm straight - but I still admire beauty in a woman - all sorts of things - the way they walk, talk, presentation - whether they smile - expressions on their faces etc. and I do the same with males, perhaps less critically though - but some of us females can be judgemental at times on our gender.

No, I'm better looking than Brad Pitt.

Also, his wife is Angelina Jolie, and he has claimed to be "hung like a hampster".

Can't say I am at all jealous of Mr. Pitt!

mantra wrote on Sep 16^th, 2008 at 11:20am:

What is wrong about her Easel - is that she has ugly hands - they don't match the rest of her.  She looks as though she spent too much time pulling her knuckles when she was at school. I'm straight - but I still admire beauty in a woman - all sorts of things - the way they walk, talk, presentation - whether they smile - expressions on their faces etc. and I do the same with males, perhaps less critically though - but some of us females can be judgemental at times on our gender.

She's so petite and angelic looking though. However, these are photo shoot photos. Some of her more candid photos are far less desirable.

Luckily I don't have a hand fetish!

easel wrote on Sep 16^th, 2008 at 11:24am:

mantra wrote on Sep 16th, 2008 at 11:20am: What is wrong about her Easel - is that she has ugly hands - they don't match the rest of her.  She looks as though she spent too much time pulling her knuckles when she was at school. I'm straight - but I still admire beauty in a woman - all sorts of things - the way they walk, talk, presentation - whether they smile - expressions on their faces etc. and I do the same with males, perhaps less critically though - but some of us females can be judgemental at times on our gender. She's so petite and angelic looking though. However, these are photo shoot photos. Some of her more candid photos are far less desirable. Luckily I don't have a hand fetish!

Missy Higgins (aka your pic) is rather attractive..(like her music)..

She does have big knuckles now that I look...poor ting..

Which women have you found to be striking in the past?

easel wrote on Sep 16^th, 2008 at 11:56am:

Which women have you found to be striking in the past?

People in my life..ordinary pple..not movie stars.

what about you easel?
mmmm ;)

I've found a lot of women striking, from the girl in the sandwich shop to the girl on TV.

Can't really expect anyone to put photos of their friends and family up here though...... or randomly take a photo of a stranger.

Isn't missy gay? is that why you used her easel? to see if women found gay women attracta?
I dont usually find gay women attracta, but I expect they dont want me too.
I am interested in the theory that kids might choose partners like their parents, I think my sister did just that, but I think my wife and any other women I've been with are nothing like my mum, I could think of nothing worse.

easel wrote on Sep 16^th, 2008 at 11:21am:

No, I'm better looking than Brad Pitt. Also, his wife is Angelina Jolie, and he has claimed to be "hung like a hampster". Can't say I am at all jealous of Mr. Pitt!

Ha ha ha , I havn't heard that expresion before easel, are hampsters "well hung"?

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Isn't missy gay? is that why you used her easel? to see if women found gay women attracta?

I didn't even know it was Missy Higgins initially or that she was gay.  She wasn't THAT attractive (I was being polite).  I remember Bob Brown saying on Rove that she was one women he would go straight for.  Hmmm - she does have a butch look come to think of it.  It must be those knuckles.

I kind of wondered too atheist exactly what easel was getting at..I kind of came to the conclusion you did..thats why I said i wasnt interested "that way" in other women..


Being "involved" with another female - yuk. I dont know how women do it.

I guess same as men dont understand homosexuality in their own sex.

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Isn't missy gay? is that why you used her easel? to see if women found gay women attracta? I dont usually find gay women attracta, but I expect they dont want me too. I am interested in the theory that kids might choose partners like their parents, I think my sister did just that, but I think my wife and any other women I've been with are nothing like my mum, I could think of nothing worse.

Apparantly she is bisexual!


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Ha ha ha , I havn't heard that expresion before easel, are hampsters "well hung"?

I am assuming not!


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I didn't even know it was Missy Higgins initially or that she was gay.  She wasn't THAT attractive (I was being polite).  I remember Bob Brown saying on Rove that she was one women he would go straight for.  Hmmm - she does have a butch look come to think of it.  It must be those knuckles.

I still think she is beautiful. My girl friends say she looks like a boy, and so do some of my guy friends. Some say she is really pretty though...


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I kind of wondered too atheist exactly what easel was getting at..I kind of came to the conclusion you did..thats why I said i wasnt interested "that way" in other women.. Being "involved" with another female - yuk. I dont know how women do it. I guess same as men dont understand homosexuality in their own sex.

I used her as an example because she has feminine and masculine features, and androgyny can be quite appealing, or so I thought.

oceanz wrote on Sep 18^th, 2008 at 10:27am:

I kind of wondered too atheist exactly what easel was getting at..I kind of came to the conclusion you did..thats why I said i wasnt interested "that way" in other women.. Being "involved" with another female - yuk. I dont know how women do it. I guess same as men dont understand homosexuality in their own sex.

I have nothing against gays,  even though I think some men are good looking, I have no intrest in them useing my butt as a parking station.

It's good you can say that.

Too many people equate admiration of beauty as sexual attraction.

easel wrote on Sep 18^th, 2008 at 10:49am:

wrote on Sep 18th, 2008 at 10:02am: Isn't missy gay? is that why you used her easel? to see if women found gay women attracta? I dont usually find gay women attracta, but I expect they dont want me too. I am interested in the theory that kids might choose partners like their parents, I think my sister did just that, but I think my wife and any other women I've been with are nothing like my mum, I could think of nothing worse. Apparantly she is bisexual! Quote: Ha ha ha , I havn't heard that expresion before easel, are hampsters "well hung"? I am assuming not! [quote]I didn't even know it was Missy Higgins initially or that she was gay.  She wasn't THAT attractive (I was being polite).  I remember Bob Brown saying on Rove that she was one women he would go straight for.  Hmmm - she does have a butch look come to think of it.  It must be those knuckles.

I still think she is beautiful. My girl friends say she looks like a boy, and so do some of my guy friends. Some say she is really pretty though...


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I kind of wondered too atheist exactly what easel was getting at..I kind of came to the conclusion you did..thats why I said i wasnt interested "that way" in other women.. Being "involved" with another female - yuk. I dont know how women do it. I guess same as men dont understand homosexuality in their own sex.

I used her as an example because she has feminine and masculine features, and androgyny can be quite appealing, or so I thought.




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I'm a sucker for a pretty face, and I think she has a pretty face, and I sure wouldnt crawl over her to get to Ellen Degeneris (spelling?)or KD Lang.

It's strange isn't it?

A lot of lesbians look like ugly men, and a lot of poofs look like pretty girls, at first glance.

easel wrote on Sep 18^th, 2008 at 11:16am:

It's strange isn't it? A lot of lesbians look like ugly men, and a lot of poofs look like pretty girls, at first glance.

Yes, it seems most dykes like to make themselves as ugly as they can whilst many gay dudes take huge pride in their presentation, must be in the genes.

I heard it wasn't in the genes, it was in the brain.

As in, exposure to certain hormones in the womb alter the brain of the fetus after sex has already been determined, or something.

Maybe that is why certain lesbians desire themselves to have masculine traits and certain gay men desire feminine traits? It can be argued that some gays/lesbians fit the gender stereotype of the opposite gender, and have done so since children and before they were aware of their sexuality.

I don't know.

My comment was not in regards to upkeep of appearance though, I meant some lesbians have masculine facial features and some men have feminine facial features. Everyone knows a butch girl and a pretty boy, where it is just their natural appearance.

What about this one?

http://www.sexygirlsdepot.com/wp-content/assets/2008/02/delta-goodrem-bikini5.jpg
http://www.sexygirlsdepot.com/wp-content/assets/2008/02/delta-goodrem-bikini8.jpg

http://www.sexygirlsdepot.com/delta-goodrem-in-sexy-bikini/

More there. Aussie girls all the way!

Yes she's pretty in a young, commercial sort of way.  I think Nigella Lawson is very sensual and beautiful - from a woman's point of view.

http://i278.photobucket.com/albums/kk114/Mantra_2008/nigella400_narrowweb__300x4302.jpg http://i278.photobucket.com/albums/kk114/Mantra_2008/NigellaLawson_468x623-1.jpg

Here are 3 males I think are very attractive.  Tobias Moretti, Nathanial Parker & Jeff Bridges.

http://i278.photobucket.com/albums/kk114/Mantra_2008/InspectorRex.jpg http://i278.photobucket.com/albums/kk114/Mantra_2008/NathanialParker.jpg http://i278.photobucket.com/albums/kk114/Mantra_2008/1172179_10-1.jpg

Would males find these men attractive?

Nigella is a good looking girl, but she is overtly sexual and I find that unattractive. Great rack though!

I can't say I'd consider any of those blokes attractive and would be puzzled as to why a woman would consider them so.

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Nigella is a good looking girl, but she is overtly sexual and I find that unattractive

There's Nigella - fully dressed and not even her cleavage showing - and you think she is overtly sexual Easel.  Yet the young blonde girl is stripping off to her undies in a public park while the guy stares at her crotch and that's NOT overtly sexual.  Perhaps it's the expressive and slightly suggestive way Nigella talks and moves which makes you believe she is blatantly sexual.


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I can't say I'd consider any of those blokes attractive and would be puzzled as to why a woman would consider them so.

As far as the three males go - their appeal lies in their eyes, mouth and demeanour.  They are tough, confident and charismatic - yet modest.  They show no conscious sign of being vain or ego driven - and that's their appeal.

mantra wrote on Sep 22^nd, 2008 at 4:49pm:

There's Nigella - fully dressed and not even her cleavage showing - and you think she is overtly sexual Easel.  Yet the young blonde girl is stripping off to her undies in a public park while the guy stares at her crotch and that's NOT overtly sexual.  Perhaps it's the expressive and slightly suggestive way Nigella talks and moves which makes you believe she is blatantly sexual.

When I've seen her shows, the way she acts, if I was at a pub or a club and a girl presented me with that kind of body language, I would assume she was interested in me physically. Delta isn't presenting herself sexually, she is just showing a bit of skin.


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As far as the three males go - their appeal lies in their eyes, mouth and demeanour.  They are tough, confident and charismatic - yet modest.  They show no conscious sign of being vain or ego driven - and that's their appeal.

Yeah fair enough, I just don't see it. They seem too 'rugged', except the first one, he just seems like a lovo.

Ha ha.

I "love" Peter Lucas who played the nasty man , Von Glower, in the FTM Adventure Game "Gabriel Knight" .  I also "love" Daniel Day Lewis.

Like Mantra says, it has something to do with the "eyes" (and I rather like men with HAIR as well  ;)

Peter Lucas
http://i296.photobucket.com/albums/mm194/neferti_photos/PeterLucas.jpg


http://i296.photobucket.com/albums/mm194/neferti_photos/Peter_Lucas_plu630_zone_2325928.jpg

Daniel Day-Lewis

http://i296.photobucket.com/albums/mm194/neferti_photos/daniel-day-lewis01.jpg

http://i296.photobucket.com/albums/mm194/neferti_photos/daniel_day_lewis.jpg

I don't mind longish hair either neferti - probably a throwback to the 70's where most males had long hair.  

And Easel - what do you mean "too rugged"?  

They are ugly! Are you having a lend or what? What's with the sunken cheeks? They look like speed freaks.

Rugged maybe was not the right word, they aren't rugged at all. Just old.

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They are ugly! Are you having a lend or what? What's with the sunken cheeks? They look like speed freaks. Rugged maybe was not the right word, they aren't rugged at all. Just old.

Hahaha - I thought that was what you meant.  Sadly we all age - we just can't help ourselves.  But Bridges & Parker wouldn't have been any older than 45-50 in those photos.  I'd hardly call that old.   ::)

Although I might have viewed them differently 20 years ago.  Oh to be youthful again.  What's that saying - beauty is wasted on the young.

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beauty is wasted on the young.

I have always held a personal theory, that everyone is attractive, at least at some stage of their life, ugly baby, good looking youth, plain in younger years, but age nicely, for example.


I think, if you are lucky, you will have your 'attractive' stage, when you are young, when it is far more important to you.

Personally, I think the inimitable Grace Kelly, had a real beauty, which included the indefinable element of "niceness", in a similiar vein to another great beauty, Audrey Hepburn.

I had a girlfriend who looked very like Audrey Hepburn when I was younger, who I broke up with in favour of my wife to be, I remember my friends saying I was insane to dump a "10", but the beauty of the person within is far more important than just external appearance, and I can safely say in hindsight, that it was the best decision of my life.
I am a very lucky guy.

What about this guy? Yes, it's male. Allegedly.

http://www.teenidols4you.com/blink/Actors/bill_kaulitz/bill_kaulitz_1178474792.jpg
http://i231.photobucket.com/albums/ee130/GothGCfan/Tokio%20Hotel/BillKaulitz.jpg
http://www.spirit-of-metal.com/membre_groupe/photo/Bill_Kaulitz-12544_263d.jpg
http://i36.photobucket.com/albums/e23/sk8tergurl16/BillKaulitz2.gif

He/she/it is revolting easel.  Ugly no matter what it is.

For a gorgeous transgenderist you can't go past Tim Curry from the old Rocky Horror Show movie.  

http://i278.photobucket.com/albums/kk114/Mantra_2008/franknfurter-1.jpg

You should try Photobucket for reducing your pictures - they also load quickly on site.

http://photobucket.com/


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Personally, I think the inimitable Grace Kelly, had a real beauty, which included the indefinable element of "niceness", in a similiar vein to another great beauty, Audrey Hepburn.

Yes they are the epitome of feminity and beauty Mozzaok - sadly there aren't too many to match them today.

That's not a trannie, it's a German musician. I think he is trying to get in touch with his feminine side?

That Grace Kelly is/was a beautiful woman.

oceanz wrote on Sep 16^th, 2008 at 11:14am:

Of course not... Dont males feel jealousy toward each other? are you envious of Brad Pitt easel..? i have never envied any man only admired them. brad pitt is awesome wish he was my mate sometimes.

http://blogs.legacyrecordings.com/podcasts/images/ultimategospel.jpg

http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee77/stayawayjoe/842b576b.jpg

forget Brad pitt, Day Lewis etc..

There was only one - Elvis!

The rest pale into insignificance    :P

mozzaok wrote on Sep 23^rd, 2008 at 11:22am:

Quote: beauty is wasted on the young. I have always held a personal theory, that everyone is attractive, at least at some stage of their life, ugly baby, good looking youth, plain in younger years, but age nicely, for example. I think, if you are lucky, you will have your 'attractive' stage, when you are young, when it is far more important to you. Personally, I think the inimitable Grace Kelly, had a real beauty, which included the indefinable element of "niceness", in a similiar vein to another great beauty, Audrey Hepburn. I had a girlfriend who looked very like Audrey Hepburn when I was younger, who I broke up with in favour of my wife to be, I remember my friends saying I was insane to dump a "10", but the beauty of the person within is far more important than just external appearance, and I can safely say in hindsight, that it was the best decision of my life. I am a very lucky guy.

How true Mozz.

But Elvis was still beautiful. In inside and out..thats why he is still idolised 30 yrs after his death.

It was Elvis's voice that had everyone swooning.  There was a lot of controversy as to whether he had some African in him - and listening to his voice and looking at old pictures - it is highly likely.  He wasn't a happy person regardless of the worship bestowed on him.  

Now here's a happy person - absolutely breathtaking when he was younger and apparently listed as one of the ten most beautiful men in the world - so sad that beauty doesn't last - although a hair transplant and makeup does wonders.

Brendon Fraser
http://i278.photobucket.com/albums/kk114/Mantra_2008/Brendon-1-1.jpg

Before and after shots....
http://i278.photobucket.com/albums/kk114/Mantra_2008/brenden-fraser000x0500x422.jpg

mantra wrote on Sep 28^th, 2008 at 1:22pm:

It was Elvis's voice that had everyone swooning.  There was a lot of controversy as to whether he had some African in him - and listening to his voice and looking at old pictures - it is highly likely

He was part American Indian...not African.

Elvis not only had a good voice but was a very good looking man.

His real beauty was expressed thru  human kindness.i

salma hayek

she's awesome

as for blokes...the guy on the tim tam ad. the genie. I want to have his babies.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3tK0MulHDI&feature=related

everytime she walks away from the bedroom I yell at the screen "YOU STUPID STUPID GIRL. GO BACK. WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU."

The girl in that ad is so beautiful and cheeky, at least the character the plays is...

meh- she's too conservative

I see the appeal a bit though

oceanz wrote on Sep 28^th, 2008 at 9:03am:

http://blogs.legacyrecordings.com/podcasts/images/ultimategospel.jpg http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee77/stayawayjoe/842b576b.jpg forget Brad pitt, Day Lewis etc.. There was only one - Elvis! The rest pale into insignificance    :P

Is it true that Elvis painted his hair Raven-black
because he was naturally boring Brunette-brown?

He was actually mid blonde- still stunning. But more stunninger when he went pitch black!!! ;) ;) ;)2

He was too weeny & Mommy-boy to be a typical tall blonde American, Agnes. Did you find him hot as a brunette or when he added the black shoe-polish to his head??  ;D

Do you women find Ruby Rose attractive?

     https://i.postimg.cc/yd7bMJm2/Screenshot-2023-12-20-at-23-18-15-two-young-caucasian-hugging-females-with-lgbt-pride-flag-outdoors.png

     Looks pretty good to me.      ;)

oceanz wrote on Sep 28^th, 2008 at 2:50pm:

mantra wrote on Sep 28th, 2008 at 1:22pm: It was Elvis's voice that had everyone swooning.  There was a lot of controversy as to whether he had some African in him - and listening to his voice and looking at old pictures - it is highly likely He was part American Indian...not African. Elvis not only had a good voice but was a very good looking man. His real beauty was expressed thru  human kindness.

"Presley's ancestry was primarily a Western European mix: On his mother's side, he was Scots-Irish, with some French Norman; one of Gladys's great-great-grandmothers was Cherokee. His father's forebears were of Scottish or German origin."

"Elvis' great-great-great-grandmother, Morning White Dove (1800-1835), was a full-blooded Cherokee Indian. She married William Mansell, a settler in western Tennessee, in 1818. William's father, Richard Mansell, had been a soldier in the Revolutionary War. Mansell is a French name--its literal translation is the man from Le Mans. The Mansells migrated from Norman France to Scotland, and then later to Ireland. In the 18th century the family came to the American Colonies. The appellation 'white' in Morning Dove's name refers to her status as a friendly Indian. Early American settlers called peaceable Indians 'white', while 'red' was the designation for warring Indians or those who sided with the British in the Revolutionary War. It was common for male settlers in the West to marry 'white' Indians as there was a scarcity of females on the American frontier."