Ladies, please explain to me the phenomenon of the bending of the leg when the girl is on top kissing the guy, clothes on, and why it occurs.

Also, why is it taboo if a guy inadvertently does it?

ohh good question easel..

I think its mainly because it would be more comfortable than keeping legs/knee straight..for me anyway.

Of course it is up to the individual woman involved ..

If eventually the kiss leads to "making love"..(mantra?)..then it might take on a slightly different meaning...

If a guy does it ..taboo.? not sure that it is..I guess it might come down to where he puts that knee and if the woman concerned is ok with it.

I like it, it's one of those quintessential feminine actions.

For a bloke, it'ld be really off

:o.  

mantra wrote on Oct 11^th, 2008 at 11:41am:

:o.

Yes the knee  thing mantra..have you heard of it    ;)

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Yes the knee  thing mantra..have you heard of it

This is going to sound very regressive - but I thought "bending the leg" referred only to the male "member".   :-[

But seriously - I have no idea what Easel's getting at half the time.  This thread needs to be in his "fringe" forum.

Lay face down.

Bend one leg so your foot is in the air, and swing it around a little.

That is the bending of the leg.

Oh - I did not read the first posting correctly.
In my mind I saw a man and woman both standing, face to face.
She reaching up for a kiss and on one leg, the other leg bent at the knee up behind her.

Sprintcyclist wrote on Oct 11^th, 2008 at 10:26am:

For a bloke, it'ld be really off

oceanz wrote on Oct 11^th, 2008 at 10:03am:

If a guy does it ..taboo.? not sure that it is..I guess it might come down to where he puts that knee and if the woman concerned is ok with it.

If you are with a girl, you are the guy and on top, say your left leg is laying over her legs, your right arm is L shaped with your forearm on the bed over her body, your right hand is on her face, you start kissing her and then your leg goes in the air, she WILL laugh at you and ask what you are doing with your leg in the air.

mantra wrote on Oct 11^th, 2008 at 4:10pm:

Quote: Yes the knee  thing mantra..have you heard of it     This is going to sound very regressive - but I thought "bending the leg" referred only to the male "member".   :-[ But seriously - I have no idea what Easel's getting at half the time.  This thread needs to be in his "fringe" forum.

mmm I was a bit confused too mantra..so I went with the literal def of leg...

seems easel was winding us all up..if not this def belongs in fringe...


not funny easel.

easel - completely true.
She'ld probably KNOW you were a closet holden driver

I wasn't winding anyone up. I meant leg, as in the thing your foot is on. Stop picking on me.

You can move it to relationships if you want, but this definitely needs girly input.

Would it be different if they were like grasshoppers?

easel wrote on Oct 11^th, 2008 at 5:03pm:

Sprintcyclist wrote on Oct 11th, 2008 at 10:26am: For a bloke, it'ld be really off oceanz wrote on Oct 11th, 2008 at 10:03am: If a guy does it ..taboo.? not sure that it is..I guess it might come down to where he puts that knee and if the woman concerned is ok with it. If you are with a girl, you are the guy and on top, say your left leg is laying over her legs, your right arm is L shaped with your forearm on the bed over her body, your right hand is on her face, you start kissing her and then your leg goes in the air, she WILL laugh at you and ask what you are doing with your leg in the air.

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but this definitely needs girly input.

easel I dont know about "girly" input...I need more male input as its not something I can get my head around..the picture is not clear, of what a man is doing waving his leg in the air whilst kissing his girl friend.

Why do i get the feeling I just asked a totally pointless question????    :o :-/

Can we widen the discussion to include artificial legs?

It's an involuntary reaction.

I am going to youtube a video of this phenomena up.

I can't find one.

You know what I mean. The leg goes up, might go down, then back up, the foot straightens, etc etc.

easel wrote on Oct 11^th, 2008 at 9:35pm:

I can't find one. You know what I mean. The leg goes up, might go down, then back up, the foot straightens, etc etc.

omg easel..

Its still a mystery to me.

Sounds like the throes of death or something , is that something you do on top of a woman? :)

Id love to know what you typed into google to try to get that up..

I'm drawing it in MS Paint.

I drew it and can't upload it cause I suck at internet, so I got a bright idea and googled kissing one leg.

http://bp2.blogger.com/_SOCBmJ7cF7w/SBFbELAr8PI/AAAAAAAAAEI/rwRZ0aZ2eJ8/s400/couplesTherapy.jpg

That thing when laying down.

That picture looks like it was copied from one of the early self defence manuals.

tallowood wrote on Oct 12^th, 2008 at 8:47am:

That picture looks like it was copied from one of the early self defence manuals.

Now I see..as its involuntary as you say..Im not sure if Ive ever done that. Im sure guys dont. It is a very "girly" thing to do.

tallowood wrote on Oct 12^th, 2008 at 8:47am:

That picture looks like it was copied from one of the early self defence manuals.

yes i see tallo...a good swift one to the ghoulies for old times sake.

I do it and I'm not girly.

easel wrote on Oct 12^th, 2008 at 8:57pm:

I do it and I'm not girly.

Ok..well I've just never seen a guy do this so .. so pardon me easel.

:-?

Here he does it
http://www.fighttimes.com/magazine/images/Image/200504/1202closecombat05.jpg

and that's how ww2 was won in Fig.126
http://www.the-exiles.org/essay/fairbairn_49.jpg

Haha Tallowood.

Easel - what's going on here?  Your original post said a girl on top of a bloke - not standing together kissing as Sprintcyclist suggested?



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I do it and I'm not girly. Ok..well I've just never seen a guy do this so .. so pardon me easel.

Well I have Oceanz - but only with another bloke and they weren't in combat!   :-/

Turn your head on the side so the couple is lying down. That is how it is.

I have actually done some combatives which is that stuff in the picture tallowood posted. I learnt some from a guy who used to be a super soldier (nothing like the stuff you find in books) and some from a guy who used to be a copper soldier (exactly what you see in the books).

mantra wrote on Oct 12^th, 2008 at 10:54pm:

Haha Tallowood. Easel - what's going on here?  Your original post said a girl on top of a bloke - not standing together kissing as Sprintcyclist suggested? Quote: I do it and I'm not girly. Ok..well I've just never seen a guy do this so .. so pardon me easel. Well I have Oceanz - but only with another bloke and they weren't in combat!   :-/

;D ;D ;D *sidesplitting * mantra...

This strange phenomena is actually an anicient defense mechanism to protect the woman from being taken advantage of from behind whilst she is in an aroused state. (stiletto's come in handy here too).
Girly-bum men may also do the same thing  ;D

The bum is not a sexual organ in the sense it is not exactly a pleasurable place to get reamed nor does it experience arousal, it is just a hole, like a mouth. Therefore I cannot understand why men would be doing this to protect themselves when aroused, as male arousal is penile?

Anyway, I can and do get more women than you can and do. In the romantic way not the best friends way.

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Anyway, I can and do get more women than you can and do. In the romantic way not the best friends way.

:o Wow Really?
That's not too flattering to the intellect of women.


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The bum is not a sexual organ in the sense it is not exactly a pleasurable place to get reamed nor does it experience arousal, it is just a hole, like a mouth.

Well I don't really want to get into a discussion about nerve endings and Greeks etc.
My theory was of course, a joke, (but you never know, there might be something in it) and I was actually talking about a woman being taken advantage of in right-hole, and not the wrong-hole. If there is some physical reason why you haven't found this possible, then all I can say is God didn't create all of us equal.



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Therefore I cannot understand why men would be doing this to protect themselves when aroused, as male arousal is penile?

I can't understand either...why do you do it?

Anyway, I'll file that one away: easel - button push = girlie-bum.

Easel - you are only being teased.  You keep this board going with your "diverse" questions.   :)

easel = male.


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This strange phenomena is actually an anicient defense mechanism to protect the woman from being taken advantage of from behind whilst she is in an aroused state. (stiletto's come in handy here too). Girly-bum men may also do the same thing

I know what you were implying there.


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and I was actually talking about a woman being taken advantage of in right-hole, and not the wrong-hole.

Sure you were.

mantra wrote on Oct 13^th, 2008 at 4:03pm:

Easel - you are only being teased.  You keep this board going with your "diverse" questions.   :)

I know, but like any girl I love the attention.

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I know, but like any girl I love the attention.

Hahaha.  I knew that.  ;)

mantra wrote on Oct 13^th, 2008 at 5:40pm:

Quote: I know, but like any girl I love the attention. Hahaha.  I knew that.  ;)

I dont and im still confused...yes i am ::)

In 2 posts above yours? In one he's a male in the next a female and further back male again...very confusing.

Easel, he likes to keep us guessing..

You should see me in a dress with no makeup OR a wig, and I have short hair.  :o

I'm pretty hot.

Or maybe I'm playing with you.

easel wrote on Oct 13^th, 2008 at 8:36pm:

You should see me in a dress with no makeup OR a wig, and I have short hair.  :o I'm pretty hot. Or maybe I'm playing with you.

of that im sure

You're sure I've never worn a dress in public?

easel wrote on Oct 13^th, 2008 at 9:01pm:

You're sure I've never worn a dress in public?

at this point easel I think anything is possible...dress or not I still think you have testicles rather than ovaries.    [smiley=undecided.gif]

I take it you people have never seen easel doing his "Marilyn Monroe over the air grate" impersonation ?

I'm as confused as anyone

there seem to have been a few descriptions of leg up

1. bloke lying down, girl on top with her legs bent so she's straddling him- and yeah guys don't do this

2. girl lying down, bloke on top and she hooks her leg over his hips

3. bloke lying down, girl lying on top - one leg straight, the other bent.

my explanation

1. so obvious

2. ok also obvious- lol not going to go into it

3. wth kind of women are you making out with

maybe they're preparing to knee you in the balls in case you try anything shifty

the image I keep getting is of teenage girls chatting on the phone, lying on their stomachs with both legs bent up in the same way- stereotypical image I know but damned if I haven't done it myself

If a guy bends the leg - the chick knows he's a Bi-sexual.

I reckon Sophia and Lisa bend the knee.
But I think Mothra's boyfriend bends the knee.  :D