I've always 'played' with girls my own age or a little older; though truth be told I was once married to one a decade younger. A mistake that proved the rule.

I've always found that women about my own age I have more in common with, (including experience), which to my mind makes them sexier. Now I'm matured I look back on young women and find them beautiful and pretty, but not sexy. I look on them and appreciate them, as I do flowers, clouds and starry nights. But I look on older women as HOT, or not.

I feel well adjusted, but the portrayal of women/men in our society seems to say I'm weird.

What do you think/feel? Am I freak or are men being sold a short?

I think that you should just accept that you're f-ckin' depraved.

Life_goes_on wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 3:21pm:

I think that you should just accept that you're f-ckin' depraved.

Tsk tsk, must do better and I'm loathe to accept that yet.  ;)

I remember a friend confessing that when he was 28 he was had an affair with a very lovely lady in her 50's.

The scars of the images that confession brought far exceeded those I received from throwing myself out of his Falcon when it was travelling at about 70kph along Botany Rd, Mascot in my attempt to escape his tales of sheer depravity.

Life_goes_on wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 3:21pm:

I think that you should just accept that you're f-ckin' depraved.

At this age, I wouldn't be interested in someone's grandmother. I think I'm with Grey. The same age is most suitable. The younger the woman, the less developed she looks. Schoolgirls are too fragile. Female university students are slightly tougher, but still look soft and weak. Recent graduates are ok. Women with 5-10 years or more in the workforce are ripe. Someone in their 30s would suit me -- and not too skinny, please.

There are people made of such generousity and compassion that physical attributes are indeed skin deep. I've tried to be those people but I am not. But I think that today, more than ever before there are many stunningly 'fit' women over 60, and an equal number of pathetically 'unfit' ones in their teens.

But this is not really my drift. I think that equality is perhaps the most important factor for satisfying sex. Which is after all the most meaningful way of expressing, 'I like you so much I don't mind at all being this close'. A gap of two decades either way is a stretch too far imo.

'Wendy' is 61 (at the time)

http://www.gaiahealthblog.com/wordpress1/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/WENDY-IDA-0952ch3.jpg

Grey wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 4:01pm:

I think that equality is perhaps the most important factor for satisfying sex.

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I've never found younger men attractive and haven't dated anyone closer than 10 years to my own age since I was about 18 - primarily for the reasons you suggest, Grey.

Grey wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 3:18pm:

I've always 'played' with girls my own age or a little older; though truth be told I was once married to one a decade younger. A mistake that proved the rule. I've always found that women about my own age I have more in common with, (including experience), which to my mind makes them sexier. Now I'm matured I look back on young women and find them beautiful and pretty, but not sexy. I look on them and appreciate them, as I do flowers, clouds and starry nights. But I look on older women as HOT, or not. I feel well adjusted, but the portrayal of women/men in our society seems to say I'm weird. What do you think/feel? Am I freak or are men being sold a short?

women are nicer from 40 onwards

Annie Anthrax wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 7:33pm:

I've never found younger men attractive and haven't dated anyone closer than 10 years to my own age since I was about 18 - primarily for the reasons you suggest, Grey.

So you're saying you don't feel a man is your equal unless they're ten years older Annie?

Hmmm well that puts a hole in my theory dunnit :-) Well I think you'd be better off just looking harder.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C21-l0idoeo

South Park did an episode about people like you.

I recently hooked up with a woman 27 years younger than me.

The sex was amazing, however, we had absolutely nothing to talk about the next morning.

I usually prefer women about 5 - 10 years younger than me.

I've had women older than me, but can't say that I felt comfortable with them.

...older women can pick up the lies quicker

Grey wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 8:06pm:

Annie Anthrax wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 7:33pm: I've never found younger men attractive and haven't dated anyone closer than 10 years to my own age since I was about 18 - primarily for the reasons you suggest, Grey. So you're saying you don't feel a man is your equal unless they're ten years older Annie?

Not at all :) Were you suggesting that younger women were somehow unequal? It is less about equality than about compatibility and taste, wouldn't you agree? My partner (for want of a better word because I dislike that one) is 12 years older than me and suits me just fine. Truth be told and contrary to what I said earlier, if he was 12 years younger than me I would still think he was amazing, so perhaps it is less about physical age than where we are at within ourselves and finding something that connects to that within someone else.

Every 20 something male should shag a 40 something female.

Best nights ever ;)

Dsmithy70 wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 8:52pm:

Every 20 something male should shag a 40 something female. Best nights ever ;)

I'd second that .......

I live in a residential complex with about 25 single mums living here .... most of them are drop dead gorgeous, they are past all the petty games and they call a spade a spade ... sometimes I think it's a pity I'm married, such wasted opportunities .... If only I had moved here when I was single.  The men on the Gold Coast are idiots.

freediver wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 8:19pm:

South Park did an episode about people like you.

I want to know what episode that was. :D

Dsmithy70 wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 8:52pm:

Every 20 something male should shag a 40 something female. Best nights ever ;)

sound advice

meet Karen, not quite 40, but a youngish 39
http://scrapetv.com/News/News%20Pages/Business/images-5/fat-woman.jpg

whilst you're waiting for Karen to turn 40, you could spend a few nights with Lisa. who is 42

http://beachhutting.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/very-fat-woman-eating.jpg

...although I am told some young 20 something guys enjoy the punishment

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-LAZrNYrxy1g/TeT0VU65z1I/AAAAAAAAAag/4IzDsWwCOuM/s640/funny+skinny+man+fat+woman+photos+7.jpg

Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 9:14pm:

whilst you're waiting for Karen to turn 40, you could spend a few nights with Lisa. who is 42 http://beachhutting.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/very-fat-woman-eating.jpg

White cotton panties get me every time.

Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 9:14pm:

whilst you're waiting for Karen to turn 40, you could spend a few nights with Lisa. who is 42 http://beachhutting.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/very-fat-woman-eating.jpg

i THINK i HAVE, DÓh!!!

  :'( :'(

BatteriesNotIncluded wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 9:42pm:

Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:14pm: whilst you're waiting for Karen to turn 40, you could spend a few nights with Lisa. who is 42 http://beachhutting.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/very-fat-woman-eating.jpg i THINK i HAVE, DÓh!!!   :'( :'(

lucky guy, I tend to stay away from women who exceed the 165kg benchmark.

Sharon here, is not only under the benchmark weight but is also under 40

do you want her number?

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nMsN3Kk6DF0/ToM9apSCjEI/AAAAAAAAACQ/14wB5DIkH6U/s1600/fat-girl-shaun.jpg

John Smith wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 8:57pm:

I live in a residential complex with about 25 single mums living here .... most of them are drop dead gorgeous, they are past all the petty games and they call a spade a spade ... sometimes I think it's a pity I'm married, such wasted opportunities .... If only I had moved here when I was single.  The men on the Gold Coast are idiots.

And there are probably more than 25 guys who regularly pole them.  ;D

Bobby. wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 9:50pm:

John Smith wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 8:57pm: I live in a residential complex with about 25 single mums living here .... most of them are drop dead gorgeous, they are past all the petty games and they call a spade a spade ... sometimes I think it's a pity I'm married, such wasted opportunities .... If only I had moved here when I was single.  The men on the Gold Coast are idiots. And there are probably more than 25 guys who regularly pole them.  ;D

no at all ... most of them are too busy working and raising their kids ..... Sure, a couple may have short term boyfriends, who usually run away after a week or two of putting up with the kids, but I'd say that 3/4 of them I've never seen with a guy ... and I've been here a few years now . You'd be surprised.

It's tough being a single mum on the Gold Coast ... to many young tramps to tempt the older guys.

Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 9:47pm:

BatteriesNotIncluded wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:42pm: Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:14pm: whilst you're waiting for Karen to turn 40, you could spend a few nights with Lisa. who is 42 http://beachhutting.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/very-fat-woman-eating.jpg i THINK i HAVE, DÓh!!!   :'( :'( lucky guy, I tend to stay away from women who exceed the 165kg benchmark. Sharon here, is not only under the benchmark weight but is also under 40 do you want her number? http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nMsN3Kk6DF0/ToM9apSCjEI/AAAAAAAAACQ/14wB5DIkH6U/s1600/fat-girl-shaun.jpg

What's that on the side table?!?

Soren wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 11:05pm:

Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:47pm: BatteriesNotIncluded wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:42pm: Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:14pm: whilst you're waiting for Karen to turn 40, you could spend a few nights with Lisa. who is 42 http://beachhutting.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/very-fat-woman-eating.jpg i THINK i HAVE, DÓh!!!   :'( :'( lucky guy, I tend to stay away from women who exceed the 165kg benchmark. Sharon here, is not only under the benchmark weight but is also under 40 do you want her number? http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nMsN3Kk6DF0/ToM9apSCjEI/AAAAAAAAACQ/14wB5DIkH6U/s1600/fat-girl-shaun.jpg What's that on the side table?!?

...glad you brought that up

When I first walked into the room, I thought it was a 1960s lamp shade

Sharon told me its an ACW (Anal Conditioning Wand) - non-lubricated

Now for heavens sake show some maturity. Can't we have an intelligent conversation aboput sex without you all getting giggly and smutty?

;) :D ;D ;) :D ;D ;) :D ;D ::)

Grey wrote on Apr 28^th, 2013 at 12:35am:

Now for heavens sake show some maturity. Can't we have an intelligent conversation aboput sex without you all getting giggly and smutty? ;) :D ;D ;) :D ;D ;) :D ;D ::)

Being naughty, misbehaving and breaking rules is fun. :D

No more scolding teachers. We can do whatever we like. Yay! :D

John Smith wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 8:53pm:

Dsmithy70 wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 8:52pm: Every 20 something male should shag a 40 something female. Best nights ever ;) I'd second that .......

I'll 3rd that.

Got taught a lot by 2 older women when i was younger. :)



Women are like dog sh!t.

The older they get, the easier they are to pick up.

;D

There's a reason they're easy. 

John Smith wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 10:25pm:

Bobby. wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:50pm: John Smith wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 8:57pm: I live in a residential complex with about 25 single mums living here .... most of them are drop dead gorgeous, they are past all the petty games and they call a spade a spade ... sometimes I think it's a pity I'm married, such wasted opportunities .... If only I had moved here when I was single.  The men on the Gold Coast are idiots. And there are probably more than 25 guys who regularly pole them.  ;D no at all ... most of them are too busy working and raising their kids ..... Sure, a couple may have short term boyfriends, who usually run away after a week or two of putting up with the kids, but I'd say that 3/4 of them I've never seen with a guy ... and I've been here a few years now . You'd be surprised. It's tough being a single mum on the Gold Coast ... to many young tramps to tempt the older guys.

Sounds like you've really made a success there John.
A housing estate full of single mums???

Andrei.Hicks wrote on Apr 28^th, 2013 at 11:24am:

John Smith wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 10:25pm: Bobby. wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:50pm: John Smith wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 8:57pm: I live in a residential complex with about 25 single mums living here .... most of them are drop dead gorgeous, they are past all the petty games and they call a spade a spade ... sometimes I think it's a pity I'm married, such wasted opportunities .... If only I had moved here when I was single.  The men on the Gold Coast are idiots. And there are probably more than 25 guys who regularly pole them.  ;D no at all ... most of them are too busy working and raising their kids ..... Sure, a couple may have short term boyfriends, who usually run away after a week or two of putting up with the kids, but I'd say that 3/4 of them I've never seen with a guy ... and I've been here a few years now . You'd be surprised. It's tough being a single mum on the Gold Coast ... to many young tramps to tempt the older guys. Sounds like you've really made a success there John. A housing estate full of single mums???

It's actually a gated community (common on the Gold Coast) Andrei, and yes , there are a few single mums ... do you have something against single mums?
(before you go on some rant about sponging of the taxpayers blah blah blah  ... they all work, most of them long hours ... they wouldn't be able to afford to live here if they were what you are alluding too, dopey)

Andrei.Hicks wrote on Apr 28^th, 2013 at 11:24am:

Sounds like you've really made a success there John. A housing estate full of single mums???

Sounds good to me.

bugger that - they all know where you live.

... wrote on Apr 28^th, 2013 at 5:32pm:

bugger that - they all know where you live.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFpy1KcGLNU

... wrote on Apr 28^th, 2013 at 5:32pm:

bugger that - they all know where you live.

Even that is only a secondary consideration ... the worst problem is that the wife lives here too.

John Smith wrote on Apr 28^th, 2013 at 5:39pm:

Even that is only a secondary consideration ... the worst problem is that the wife lives here too.

Well, here's a question.

Who does your wife think are more problematic and/or threatening, married women or single mothers? Is one more likely to be "naughty" than the other, or is there no difference? :D

Mnemonic wrote on Apr 28^th, 2013 at 7:36pm:

John Smith wrote on Apr 28th, 2013 at 5:39pm: Even that is only a secondary consideration ... the worst problem is that the wife lives here too. Well, here's a question. Who does your wife think are more problematic and/or threatening, married women or single mothers? Is one more likely to be "naughty" than the other, or is there no difference? :D

Mate, no good asking my wife ... I had to inform her that her supervisor was doing the CEO of her former workplace ...so friggen obvious that i could tell despite having never met them, and she just thought she was extra nice ....  (it was confirmed later )

To answer your question, of course one is more likey to be 'naughty'... a single mum having sex is doing nothing naughty ... they're allowed to, the only one doing anything naughty would be the married ones.

Grey wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 3:18pm:

I've always 'played' with girls my own age or a little older; though truth be told I was once married to one a decade younger. A mistake that proved the rule. I've always found that women about my own age I have more in common with, (including experience), which to my mind makes them sexier. Now I'm matured I look back on young women and find them beautiful and pretty, but not sexy. I look on them and appreciate them, as I do flowers, clouds and starry nights. But I look on older women as HOT, or not. I feel well adjusted, but the portrayal of women/men in our society seems to say I'm weird. What do you think/feel? Am I freak or are men being sold a short?

What makes them sexier to you is probably the simple fact that they're far less likely to be in a position to do a runner.

40 something or even 50 something women generally don't do anything much for me sexually or otherwise. If I were to find something intriguing to myself, it would be from a generation after or 1 1/2 generations before.

Personally, I reckon my own (western) generation has stuffed things up completely. They have no recognition of themselves whatsoever IMO. They would throw away their role in life to satisfy a magazine article.

Hopefully, the broadband information generation isn't so gullible, and I see signs of that happening.

Grey, I think that you are part of the gullible generation (even at 89  ;D) who denies personal recognition in favor of a magazine advertisement.

I don't read magazines <sniffs> I only do real books and real women. :)

Grey wrote on Apr 29^th, 2013 at 2:29am:

I don't read magazines <sniffs> I only do real books and real women. :)

That was an analogy. You do swallow the crap the advertisers feed you.
Those real women read lots of magazines and you pander to them and sell out just the same.

A man bereft of testosterone is of no real interest to women anyway. There ain't no greater capitalist on the face of the earth.

Amadd wrote on Apr 29^th, 2013 at 2:34am:

Grey wrote on Apr 29th, 2013 at 2:29am: I don't read magazines <sniffs> I only do real books and real women. :) That was an analogy. You do swallow the crap the advertisers feed you. Those real women read lots of magazines and you pander to them and sell out just the same. A man bereft of testosterone is of no real interest to women anyway. There ain't no greater capitalist on the face of the earth.

Oh you poor pathetic tool, you buy sex and think money shows you have testosterone.

I've never bought sex in any way and I know who is better off.

Sex is a saleable commodity, generally for women, the self is not.

It's nothing to do with buying sex. Your 89 yrs of wisdom should see that folly.

Buying money is generally called investing. It's what you are investing yourself in that will prove to be the real deal.

grey,

ive found women in their 40's and 50's are simply much much better and more passionate and relaxed about sex and relationships.

some have a rough patch through the menopausal years.

i think its a huge mistake to look upon younger women as more sensual and more attractive. 
i dont like women who are soft and marshmallowy but an older women who is still physically fit and is an adult, in every sense of the word, is definitely my choice  . and i'm extremely happy with that choice.

i love my old banged up hilux with heaps of dents and scaratches and "character"  and i luv my currnt missus the same way. all people are attrtacted to strength and no 20 yr old bimbo has it

i find young women quite unattractive.  this is interesting, as when you are slightly stand offish to attractive young women , they will often come onto you more aggressively.  this is the paradoxical nature of relationships , i suppose.  but a trophy wife that looks good on your arm.  geez, i'd rather cut that arm off. ;) ;)

John Smith wrote on Apr 27^th, 2013 at 10:25pm:

Bobby. wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:50pm: John Smith wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 8:57pm: I live in a residential complex with about 25 single mums living here .... most of them are drop dead gorgeous, they are past all the petty games and they call a spade a spade ... sometimes I think it's a pity I'm married, such wasted opportunities .... If only I had moved here when I was single.  The men on the Gold Coast are idiots. And there are probably more than 25 guys who regularly pole them.  ;D no at all ... most of them are too busy working and raising their kids ..... Sure, a couple may have short term boyfriends, who usually run away after a week or two of putting up with the kids, but I'd say that 3/4 of them I've never seen with a guy ... and I've been here a few years now . You'd be surprised. It's tough being a single mum on the Gold Coast ... to many young tramps to tempt the older guys.

That's what you think buddy.
They would have guys turning up late at night when the kids are asleep.

aquascoot wrote on Apr 29^th, 2013 at 7:14am:

grey, ive found women in their 40's and 50's are simply much much better and more passionate and relaxed about sex and relationships. some have a rough patch through the menopausal years. i think its a huge mistake to look upon younger women as more sensual and more attractive.  i dont like women who are soft and marshmallowy but an older women who is still physically fit and is an adult, in every sense of the word, is definitely my choice  . and i'm extremely happy with that choice. i love my old banged up hilux with heaps of dents and scaratches and "character"  and i luv my currnt missus the same way. all people are attrtacted to strength and no 20 yr old bimbo has it i find young women quite unattractive.  this is interesting, as when you are slightly stand offish to attractive young women , they will often come onto you more aggressively.  this is the paradoxical nature of relationships , i suppose.  but a trophy wife that looks good on your arm.  geez, i'd rather cut that arm off. ;) ;)

Hilux are forever brother  ;D

Drawing analogies between cars and women? O M F G  ::)

;D

Amadd wrote on Apr 29^th, 2013 at 10:42am:

Drawing analogies between cars and women? O M F G  ::) ;D

a good reliable car that never gives you any trouble is one i would NEVER get rid of.If something is reliable , trustworthy, has been with me through thick and thin, i couldnt care if it is the most beaten up ugliest piece of crap on the block.  i'm proud to get inside it.

and a woman who has shown reliablility, never let me down, been through a lot of miles.  i'm proud to get inside that too brother. ;) ;)

f*ck those sleek sexy sports models,  play up, cost a fortune to run and ever other bastard wants to have  a play with it ;)

aquascoot wrote on Apr 29^th, 2013 at 1:32pm:

Amadd wrote on Apr 29th, 2013 at 10:42am: Drawing analogies between cars and women? O M F G  ::) ;D a good reliable car that never gives you any trouble is one i would NEVER get rid of.If something is reliable , trustworthy, has been with me through thick and thin, i couldnt care if it is the most beaten up ugliest piece of crap on the block.  i'm proud to get inside it. and a woman who has shown reliablility, never let me down, been through a lot of miles.  i'm proud to get inside that too brother. ;) ;) f*ck those sleek sexy sports models,  play up, cost a fortune to run and every other bastard wants to have  a play with it ;)

Yes - the prettier the girl the more trouble they are.
It's because woman put price tickets on themselves.

Cheer up - there are plenty of ugly ones for you to choose from.  ;D

aquascoot wrote on Apr 29^th, 2013 at 1:32pm:

a good reliable car that never gives you any trouble is one i would NEVER get rid of.If something is reliable , trustworthy, has been with me through thick and thin, i couldnt care if it is the most beaten up ugliest piece of crap on the block.  i'm proud to get inside it. and a woman who has shown reliablility, never let me down, been through a lot of miles.  i'm proud to get inside that too brother. ;) ;) f*ck those sleek sexy sports models,  play up, cost a fortune to run and ever other bastard wants to have  a play with it ;)

But ................. a woman is a person. A car isn't. The car can't love you back. You can't have sex with it or kiss it passionately on the lips. It will never die of a heart attack and need a defibrillator to bring it back. It can never have a stroke and forget your birthday.

You didn't marry a car did you? :D

Bobby. wrote on Apr 29^th, 2013 at 3:07pm:

Yes - the prettier the girl the more trouble they are. It's because woman put price tickets on themselves. Cheer up - there are plenty of ugly ones for you to choose from.  ;D

The good ones are the ones with beauty other people can't see. They're sexy to you but no-one else. They're the ones who make you look harder at them. :D

Mnemonic wrote on Apr 29^th, 2013 at 3:12pm:

aquascoot wrote on Apr 29th, 2013 at 1:32pm: a good reliable car that never gives you any trouble is one i would NEVER get rid of.If something is reliable , trustworthy, has been with me through thick and thin, i couldnt care if it is the most beaten up ugliest piece of crap on the block.  i'm proud to get inside it. and a woman who has shown reliablility, never let me down, been through a lot of miles.  i'm proud to get inside that too brother. ;) ;) f*ck those sleek sexy sports models,  play up, cost a fortune to run and ever other bastard wants to have  a play with it ;) But ................. a woman is a person. A car isn't. The car can't love you back. You can't have sex with it or kiss it passionately on the lips. It will never die of a heart attack and need a defibrillator to bring it back. It can never have a stroke and forget your birthday. You didn't marry a car did you? :D

i'm just saying they are the attributes i look for in a long term partner, friend or piece of machinery.

no fuss, no smacking drama queens, down to earth, honest and reliable.

looks really are of pretty secondary consideration.  a girl next door type with a great attitude is infinitely preferable to a princess.
2 things impressed me about my current partner and made me fall for her immediately

1  she fell off a horse and got a black eye and blood nose and jumped straight back on
2 she slept in a t shirt that was about 15 years old and had more holes than a colander.

you see a chick in expensive shoes who takes 60 minutes to get the make up on to go out, i say put on your expensive shoes (nike's) and smacking run for your life ;) ;)

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you see a chick in expensive shoes who takes 60 minutes to get the make up on to go out, i say put on your expensive shoes (nike's) and smacking run for your life

I like the analogy with cars more and more.  ;D ;D ;D

I can see a few points where the analogy fits, however, there are a few biggies that cause it to fall flat on it's face.

Ok, I understand that it's not so serious, but comparing a living breathing human to a piece of machinery doesn't fair well for the progress of women.

It may be true that the battered Hilux doesn't have a choice of driver and neither does the Ferrari, ...if you fallaciously consider yourself to be the driver in the analogy that is.

I'm certainly pro-choice. The driving force behind natural choice is far more interesting to me than bs analogies which subconciously assume some semblence of control which doesn't actually exist.

Amadd wrote on Apr 29^th, 2013 at 10:03pm:

I can see a few points where the analogy fits, however, there are a few biggies that cause it to fall flat on it's face. Ok, I understand that it's not so serious, but comparing a living breathing human to a piece of machinery doesn't fair well for the progress of women. It may be true that the battered Hilux doesn't have a choice of driver and neither does the Ferrari, ...if you fallaciously consider yourself to be the driver in the analogy that is. I'm certainly pro-choice. The driving force behind natural choice is far more interesting to me than bs analogies which subconciously assume some semblence of control which doesn't actually exist.

a good point amaad,  still think with your brain and not with your dick.  marry a female who is the equivalent of your best mate. 

I thought this thread was about what is sexy, not what you want to marry.

... wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 8:33am:

I thought this thread was about what is sexy, not what you want to marry.

bah,  sexy is crap. who wants to look at a beautiful meal when youre hungry and then be told you cant have any ;) ;)

and the best "meals" you'll ever have. the "food" that will satisfy your appetite is always in a long term relationship with someone you care deeply about.

seriously, one night stands and casual sex is for losers ;) ;)

and theres nothing more sexy than a sensual older women who is generous and relaxed in bed.
a chickky babe with great looks usually doesnt want to get her hair messed up or hr make up smeared.
give me a wild carefree tom boy who digs the nails into your back really hard .

young chicky babes dont do that, they might break a nail ;)

aquascoot wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 9:04am:

... wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 8:33am: I thought this thread was about what is sexy, not what you want to marry. bah,  sexy is crap. who wants to look at a beautiful meal when youre hungry and then be told you cant have any ;) ;) and the best "meals" you'll ever have. the "food" that will satisfy your appetite is always in a long term relationship with someone you care deeply about. seriously, one night stands and casual sex is for losers ;) ;) and theres nothing more sexy than a sensual older women who is generous and relaxed in bed. a chickky babe with great looks usually doesnt want to get her hair messed up or hr make up smeared. give me a wild carefree tom boy who digs the nails into your back really hard . young chicky babes dont do that, they might break a nail ;)

Nooooo-

give some hot, bimbo, busty, blonde, barbi doll, bouncing babe, any day.  ;D

Bobby. wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 10:17am:

aquascoot wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 9:04am: ... wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 8:33am: I thought this thread was about what is sexy, not what you want to marry. bah,  sexy is crap. who wants to look at a beautiful meal when youre hungry and then be told you cant have any ;) ;) and the best "meals" you'll ever have. the "food" that will satisfy your appetite is always in a long term relationship with someone you care deeply about. seriously, one night stands and casual sex is for losers ;) ;) and theres nothing more sexy than a sensual older women who is generous and relaxed in bed. a chickky babe with great looks usually doesnt want to get her hair messed up or hr make up smeared. give me a wild carefree tom boy who digs the nails into your back really hard . young chicky babes dont do that, they might break a nail ;) Nooooo- give some hot, bimbo, busty, blonde, barbi doll, bouncing babe, any day.  ;D

...especially with a nice dessert

http://www.mytopten.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/pink-lingerie-sexy.jpg

http://imworld.aufeminin.com/dossiers/D20120202/sexy-desserts-145135_L.jpg

Don't get carried away with your Chimp desires.  :)

Bobby. wrote on Apr 29^th, 2013 at 8:17am:

John Smith wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 10:25pm: Bobby. wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:50pm: John Smith wrote on Apr 27th, 2013 at 8:57pm: I live in a residential complex with about 25 single mums living here .... most of them are drop dead gorgeous, they are past all the petty games and they call a spade a spade ... sometimes I think it's a pity I'm married, such wasted opportunities .... If only I had moved here when I was single.  The men on the Gold Coast are idiots. And there are probably more than 25 guys who regularly pole them.  ;D no at all ... most of them are too busy working and raising their kids ..... Sure, a couple may have short term boyfriends, who usually run away after a week or two of putting up with the kids, but I'd say that 3/4 of them I've never seen with a guy ... and I've been here a few years now . You'd be surprised. It's tough being a single mum on the Gold Coast ... to many young tramps to tempt the older guys. That's what you think buddy. They would have guys turning up late at night when the kids are asleep.

Is that how you see nail???

let me guess, you saw that reading your tarot cards right? As if you'd have a clue.

Yes Chimp,

she'd be alright:

http://www.mytopten.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/pink-lingerie-sexy.jpg

Bobby. wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 1:20pm:

Don't get carried away with your Chimp desires.  :)

what do you mean?

http://www.planetdan.net/pics/misc/sexymonkey.jpg

Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 1:29pm:

Bobby. wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 1:20pm: Don't get carried away with your Chimp desires.  :) what do you mean? http://www.planetdan.net/pics/misc/sexymonkey.jpg

Might look ok to u.  LOL

Bobby. wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 1:31pm:

Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 1:29pm: Bobby. wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 1:20pm: Don't get carried away with your Chimp desires.  :) what do you mean? http://www.planetdan.net/pics/misc/sexymonkey.jpg Might look ok to u.  LOL

...are you making a move on my sister?

No I prefer her:

http://www.mytopten.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/pink-lingerie-sexy.jpg

Bobby. wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 1:50pm:

No I prefer her: http://www.mytopten.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/pink-lingerie-sexy.jpg

not enough hair for my personal liking.

But if I can couple her deficiencies with some nice rich dessert, I suppose I could fit her into my time table - probably early Spring 2016

I hate using cutlery and plates

http://www.cookingdebauchery.com/cooking_debauchery/images/limecroll.jpg

Dear Chimp,
you've gotta remember - some women get very lonely:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73mx10GmFsU

After a disastrous breakup of my long term marriage. I felt that was it.

However I found a lovely woman 5 years younger than me but of a certain age. Some people look after themselves better than  others as they age. This lady is one of those ethereal type of women.

There is a saying that if you are beautiful of the inside, that is reflected in other ways.

When we make love it like being a youth in my 20's again. With experience you come to realise that sex is nothing without love, when the two are combined it takes you to the stars.

I am a pretty fit and tough older bloke which is just as well, it has come in handy at the most unexpected time of my life.

Its funny how love can grow again when you think that part of your life is gone forever.

red baron wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 4:48pm:

After a disastrous breakup of my long term marriage. I felt that was it. However I found a lovely woman 5 years younger than me but of a certain age. Some people look after themselves better than  others as they age. This lady is one of those ethereal type of women. There is a saying that if you are beautiful of the inside, that is reflected in other ways. When we make love it like being a youth in my 20's again. With experience you come to realise that sex is nothing without love, when the two are combined it takes you to the stars. I am a pretty fit and tough older bloke which is just as well, it has come in handy at the most unexpected time of my life. Its funny how love can grow again when you think that part of your life is gone forever.

http://www.tobeframed.ca/img/s1/v5/p335728208-3.jpg

I remember THIS, from the late Dave Allen, MANY years ago ...


From 13-18 a girl is like AFRICA... virgin territory, unexplored.
From 18-30 a woman is like ASIA... hot and exotic.
From 30-45 a woman is like AMERICA... fully explored and rich with her resources.
From 45-55 a woman is like EUROPE... some historical places but a few interesting things to see.
From 55+ a woman is like AUSTRALIA... you know what's down under but who wants to go there

http://makeshiftalpha.files.wordpress.com/2012/11/sexualvalue.gif

How old are you guys?  I'm 32.  ;)

Take a look at yourself Paulson, you haven't got any sexual value no matter how old or what sex.

... wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 7:26pm:

http://makeshiftalpha.files.wordpress.com/2012/11/sexualvalue.gif How old are you guys?  I'm 32.  ;)

....these result are obviously independent of the size of the bank account or any other device


http://www.information-facts.com/wp-content/uploads/blonde-sleeping6.jpg

http://sugardaddydating.files.wordpress.com/2010/09/older-man-younger-woman.jpg

lets not forget good old Woody

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2008/12/18/article-1097065-02B949A4000005DC-788_468x286.jpg

.......oh and

http://thoughtsondating.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/older-man-younger-woman.jpg

must be the wrinkles or the cellulite content

http://relationshipplaybook.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/oldManYoungWoman.jpg

Anthony Quinn may have had his last child at the ripe age of 83 (one of 13 children - at least they say)

http://geo-jo.com/anthony_and_family.jpg

hey guys ..  its nothing new that old bastards have young and gorgeous females....

..they have wised-up early  ::)

no seriously...   :)  couples can be odd,  but I find myself in agreement with Grey.

As for Roberta and Amadd and Batfink and their ilk .... at least they have stopped claiming to be female gender.  ::)

ooops  ... seems Roberta still claims female gender. 

The slug... 

Emma wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 11:21pm:

hey guys ..  its nothing new that old bastards have young and gorgeous females.... ..they have wised-up early  ::)

but what do these old bastards have in common?

why don't you tell me Chimp ?

Emma wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 11:53pm:

why don't you tell me Chimp ?

no

Quote:

but what do these old bastards have in common?

Self delusion and pathos.

Grey wrote on May 1^st, 2013 at 1:05am:

Quote: but what do these old bastards have in common? Self delusion and pathos.

I know old bus drivers who are self delusional and value pathos

Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 11:32pm:

Emma wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 11:21pm: hey guys ..  its nothing new that old bastards have young and gorgeous females.... ..they have wised-up early  ::) but what do these old bastards have in common?

Wealth and/or fame. I'm sure after a few years love or at least a strong sense of like comes about. The other option is those chicks took their daddy issues to their logical conclusion.

no see youre just wrong.

avoid gold diggers
avoid princesses
avoid drama queens.

old guys with young bimbo's have not listened to the scoots advice
and old guys like this will therefore pay the price  (not this rhymes).

seriously this is the sort of chick you want for a wild and satisfying sex life. someone who is more connected with mud wrestling than diamond wearing

---

The old blokes and young women both get what they want. He gets sex, she gets money. It's win/win.

Grey wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 9:43pm:

Take a look at yourself Paulson, you haven't got any sexual value no matter how old or what sex.

Bitter much?

;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 30^th, 2013 at 11:32pm:

Emma wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 11:21pm: hey guys ..  its nothing new that old bastards have young and gorgeous females.... ..they have wised-up early  ::) but what do these old bastards have in common?

They have options. 

But when you're a 100 year old loser, and haven't felt the desire of a beautiful young woman for....well, ever, it's easier on the psyche to claim "oh nar I don't even find young women sexy - give me fat, saggy wrinkly post-menopausal bitches any day".

I LOL at the rationalizations going on in this thread.  Carry on.

Postmodern Trendoid III wrote on May 1^st, 2013 at 7:27am:

The old blokes and young women both get what they want. He gets sex, she gets money. It's win/win.

Just because ALL women are 'equipped' to be prostitutes, does NOT mean that all women are prostitutes.

But there do seem to be many exceptions.               :P

... wrote on May 1^st, 2013 at 8:27am:

Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 11:32pm: Emma wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 11:21pm: hey guys ..  its nothing new that old bastards have young and gorgeous females.... ..they have wised-up early  ::) but what do these old bastards have in common? They have options.  But when you're a 100 year old loser, and haven't felt the desire of a beautiful young woman for....well, ever, it's easier on the psyche to claim "oh nar I don't even find young women sexy - give me fat, saggy wrinkly post-menopausal bitches any day". I LOL at the rationalizations going on in this thread.  Carry on.

lols,  robbie, try this experiment
get on an internet dating site and get a few of the fatties over.  i think you'll be "blown' away literally by just how good some of these women are at love making.

its not a rationalisation.  its actually a scientific fact.

they are a much under utilised asset   :D :D

aquascoot wrote on May 1^st, 2013 at 9:25am:

... wrote on May 1st, 2013 at 8:27am: Chimp_Logic wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 11:32pm: Emma wrote on Apr 30th, 2013 at 11:21pm: hey guys ..  its nothing new that old bastards have young and gorgeous females.... ..they have wised-up early  ::) but what do these old bastards have in common? They have options.  But when you're a 100 year old loser, and haven't felt the desire of a beautiful young woman for....well, ever, it's easier on the psyche to claim "oh nar I don't even find young women sexy - give me fat, saggy wrinkly post-menopausal bitches any day". I LOL at the rationalizations going on in this thread.  Carry on. lols,  robbie, try this experiment get on an internet dating site and get a few of the fatties over.  i think you'll be "blown' away literally by just how good some of these women are at love making. its not a rationalisation.  its actually a scientific fact. they are a much under utilised asset   :D :D

no doubt about that Universal fact

Quote:

its not a rationalisation.  its actually a scientific fact.

What, specifically is the "fact" and where's your proof? 

Quote:

But when you're a 100 year old loser, and haven't felt the desire of a beautiful young woman for....well, ever, it's easier on the psyche to claim "oh nar I don't even find young women sexy - give me fat, saggy wrinkly post-menopausal bitches any day".

When you're a thirty year old waste of space with the IQ of a retarded ant and the closest to sensuality you get is the ability to foam up like a camel in rut, the chance of having a relationship with a mature, beautiful and fit woman is limited.

Therefore it's easy to see that the prospect of a 'relationship' with a confused and over curvaceous 16 year old sporting a clown face covering severe achne and in dire need of daddying would look attractive.

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yQmQ1ZvYAok/TS403xA0CYI/AAAAAAAACBg/J6eHpRNsElw/s1600/cute_quantum_formula.jpg

Yes Grey  ..  :)  Roberta IS  all you say... and  basically... wasted space. 

Grubby wee creepy freaky is our Roberta.
A grime,..  in all senses of the word. YUK. :P

Emma wrote on May 1^st, 2013 at 10:12pm:

Yes Grey  ..  :)  Roberta IS  all you say... and  basically... wasted space.  Grubby wee creepy freaky is our Roberta. A grime,..  in all senses of the word. YUK. :P

..and you don't like people of this ilk because?

,.....  because..??
:o :o

do you mean to say that you like Roberta's nasty posts...??

Emma wrote on May 2^nd, 2013 at 12:25am:

,.....  because..?? :o :o do you mean to say that you like Roberta's nasty posts...??

Are there some in the SWB forum?
I haven't seen anything particularly nasty...not more than you or I anyway. Maybe it's just that the truth hurts sometimes.

When it comes to providing reason, I rarely see any from you.

well if you can't recognise it's negativity,  I'm not surprised at YOUR views.

It is a nasty bit of work...  just not as facile with language as yourself.

Emma wrote on May 2^nd, 2013 at 12:59am:

well if you can't recognise it's negativity,  I'm not surprised at YOUR views. It is a nasty bit of work...  just not as facile with language as yourself.

It would be nice if you were able point out reason instead of arbitrarily pointing the bone.

Quote:

pointing the bone.

You sure know how to hit a girls weak spot Amadd. Disliking Paulson isn't about reasons, it's about saving time.

Grey wrote on May 2^nd, 2013 at 1:43am:

Quote: pointing the bone. You sure know how to hit a girls weak spot Amadd. Disliking Paulson isn't about reasons, it's about saving time.

Hitler said something similar about the Jews didn't he?

Ah yes...nothing has to do with reason when you lack argument.  ;D

yeah  it's a waste of time and energy ...why would I bother ?  Amadd??  ..
YOU BROUGHT UP HITLER...!!! 
::) ::) ::)
shame eh? ;D

... wrote on May 1^st, 2013 at 7:22pm:

Quote: its not a rationalisation.  its actually a scientific fact. What, specifically is the "fact" and where's your proof?

overweight women have higher levels of estrogen,  much higher in fact as about 1/2 the bodies estrogen is produced by the fat cells (why skinny women have a much worse menopause )
higher estrogen levels produce much better clitoral and labial blood flows and a healthier cervical and vaginal mucus. hence the natural flora produce a healthier vagina, less odour, less fungal overgrowth etc.
this also produces easier orgasms, more likelihood to be multi orgasmic.

finally, estrogen produces better muscle tone and progesterone (the often dominant hormone in skinny  women)
tends to be the hormone of PMT, mood swings and loose vaginal musculature.

so slightly fatter women tend to be better toned in the vagina and more jolly (like santa claus)

personally i have always liked tom boys as they are , by nature , adventurous. and possibly the higher levels of testosterone may also make them higher in libido.

just re , people who say they dont like super model types being in denial.

i reject that.

some people just prefer a simpler , more wholesome experience.

sure , ive driven  co workers merc's.
i prefer my hilux.

i've been to conferences at the marriott.  i prefer camping on the beach.

ive been fed that fattened goose liver muck (foo de gras or whatever its called )  i prefer a nice lamb roast.

i'm not in denial about these things.

ive had a few partners who were close to super models and a few who were very plain jane.

i look back on the plain janes with a smile on my face.  a couple of the really good lookers were simply very poor quality human beings (superior attitude, thought their sh#t diodnt stink)  when one encounters someone of this attitude,   RUN ;) ;)

Grey wrote on May 1^st, 2013 at 9:08pm:

Quote: But when you're a 100 year old loser, and haven't felt the desire of a beautiful young woman for....well, ever, it's easier on the psyche to claim "oh nar I don't even find young women sexy - give me fat, saggy wrinkly post-menopausal bitches any day". When you're a thirty year old waste of space with the IQ of a retarded ant and the closest to sensuality you get is the ability to foam up like a camel in rut, the chance of having a relationship with a mature, beautiful and fit woman is limited. Therefore it's easy to see that the prospect of a 'relationship' with a confused and over curvaceous 16 year old sporting a clown face covering severe achne and in dire need of daddying would look attractive.

See?  You're getting confused again - I'm 32, and again, this isn't about "having a relationship" it's about fking.  Remember what that is?

How does it look when the shoe is on the other foot? Is Fred Nile very wealthy?  ::)


Quote:

FRED Nile doesn't drink but he's high on something these days. He will be the first to admit new love has put the spring in his step. At 78, the Christian Democratic Party leader and morals crusader has just announced his engagement to teacher Silvana Nero, 55, a single mother of three from Sydney's northern beaches. "My daughter says I'm besotted. It's true. I am. We feel like 18-year-olds," he said. http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/second-coming-of-love-for-fred-nile/story-e6freuy9-1226634965297

http://resources3.news.com.au/images/2013/05/03/1226634/967047-fred-nile.jpg

70+ years old and still puffing out of bottle and saying "but Master"

http://www.searchamelia.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/sexy_senior_barbara_eden.jpg

Helen Mirren 68

http://fitbie.msn.com/sites/default/files/HelenMirren_080211_SS_1.jpg

Grey wrote on May 4^th, 2013 at 12:51pm:

Helen Mirren 68 http://fitbie.msn.com/sites/default/files/HelenMirren_080211_SS_1.jpg

some things don't change much with lovely Helen

http://media.mademan.com/chickipedia/uploaded_photos/9/96/Helen_Mirren-young-babe-stunning-smoking-hot-eyes_thumb_585x795.jpg

some of us wear quite well.

Of course it helps to have good bone structure.

aquascoot wrote on May 1^st, 2013 at 5:31am:

no see youre just wrong. avoid gold diggers avoid princesses avoid drama queens. old guys with young bimbo's have not listened to the scoots advice and old guys like this will therefore pay the price  (not this rhymes). seriously this is the sort of chick you want for a wild and satisfying sex life. someone who is more connected with mud wrestling than diamond wearing

Keep control of the money.
Don't you see the common denominator?

Chimp_Logic wrote on May 4^th, 2013 at 9:31pm:

some things don't change much with lovely Helen

If that's Helen, then the younger version of her looks better than the older version. :D

Mnemonic wrote on May 5^th, 2013 at 1:55pm:

Chimp_Logic wrote on May 4th, 2013 at 9:31pm: some things don't change much with lovely Helen If that's Helen, then the younger version of her looks better than the older version. :D

You just don't have your mind right - not better, different. Think tree, young tree old tree, is one more beautiful than the other?

You don't have your mind right. Trees don't bugger each other.  Perhaps more importantly, we don't bugger trees.  It's a different kind of beauty.

... wrote on May 5^th, 2013 at 3:13pm:

You don't have your mind right. Trees don't bugger each other.  Perhaps more importantly, we don't bugger trees.  It's a different kind of beauty.

Slow of course, but you're getting there.

Amadd wrote on May 2^nd, 2013 at 1:34am:

Emma wrote on May 2nd, 2013 at 12:59am: well if you can't recognise it's negativity,  I'm not surprised at YOUR views. It is a nasty bit of work...  just not as facile with language as yourself. It would be nice if you were able point out reason instead of arbitrarily pointing the bone.

Here we see exhibited the classic type of misunderstanding that results in these threads. Miss Understanding, the single mother of alienation between the sexes.

Women don't point the bone, they point the finger.

Usually, 20yo women don't bang 60yo men for love. And vice-versa.

Mistresses are usually paid, as are masters. And what of the recent 'cougar' revelations? Not relevant?

The actual sex is not the issue, it's the motivation, and surrender, to indulge that's behind the decision. That is the issue.

And that's true of both sexes.

Really, why should such relationships be seen as exploitative or abhorrent? We have examples from popular religions where such liaisons are deemed acceptable in modern society, do we not?

I recall a recent newspaper article by a female journalist whose mother/father (late 80's), in dotage/dementia, was confined to a nursing home. Subsequently found in an undressed state with another patient, similarly afflicted, in a compromising situation. Her question was, "Do I do something about it, or let them enjoy their time together?"

Good question.

Quote:

Women don't point the bone, they point the finger.

Some have bony fingers.

Amadd wrote on May 7^th, 2013 at 8:53pm:

Some have bony fingers.

Too true! And some possess nails that have never been hammered.

One example of youngsters hooking up with older women in film is Finch and Steven Stifler's mother in the American Pie franchise. :D

I don't think young men hooking up with older women is unusual.  A young man of say, 20 hasn't yet reached his peak, while a woman of say, 45 reached hers long ago and is on the decline.  Regardless of their past, their current sexual value is about equal.

I’ve had 2 older chicks I used to root when a young fella – they go off.

Fat chicks don’t know when their next one will be – so they go off.

Current partner is same age – and she goes off.

Hmmmmmmmmmmm – must be me. 8-)