The only people fortunate enough to be able to look out for their children always are those whose children pass away before them.
And that's not what you would call fortunate is it.

what are you saying boges that sounds sad....

your title for instance who WANTS it all.... ::)

I know I dont I have plenty more than enough

if you outlive a child you would in time turn that around to be thankful for what you had....

to have loved and lost as the saying goes... :)