[This Thread was commenced in Chat and moved to Relationships by Big Vic on the evening of Tuesday the 23rd August, 2013.  Mod.]



and where do I start lol .  :D

Agnes wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 7:02pm:

and where do I start lol .  :D

And there's your first mistake.

Where, indeed, do we start?  :)

I don't see one.

Simple organisms with two wires, one black the other white.

Good food, good sex and a good poo keeps them happy enough.

No complications, no grey areas or mutli-coloured wires to worry about and where they fit.

Simple minds that are easily entertained, still retain the childhood boy in their characters.

Nope no problem with men....... :)

Well, this Thread was already there Agnes.

Link.

there is enough of this topic to share between threads that I think I can make a meal out of this ha ha..

Lionel Edriess wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 7:08pm:

Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D And there's your first mistake. Where, indeed, do we start?  :)

   see :)

Caution swearing but it can all be summed up in 50 seconds

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hpYQsckWno

Brilliant

Ajax wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 7:11pm:

I don't see one. Simple organisms with two wires, one black the other white. Good food, good sex and a good poo keeps them happy enough. No complications, no grey areas or mutli-coloured wires to worry about and where they fit. Simple minds that are easily entertained, still retain the childhood boy in their characters. Nope no problem with men....... :)

  I kind of get that and there seems to be a level of self awareness about this Ajax lol

Agnes wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 7:30pm:

Lionel Edriess wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:08pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D And there's your first mistake. Where, indeed, do we start?  :)    see :)

Right there, see? There's a keeper!  8-)

Agnes wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 7:02pm:

and where do I start lol .  :D

Agnes - hahahah.
Could be a long thread ..........

Its time wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 7:40pm:

Caution swearing but it can all be summed up in 50 seconds https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hpYQsckWno Brilliant

;D

That's as good as FD's here http://www.ozpolitic.com/forum/YaBB.pl?num=1471759662/4#4

Lionel Edriess wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 8:16pm:

Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:30pm: Lionel Edriess wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:08pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D And there's your first mistake. Where, indeed, do we start?  :)    see :) Right there, see? There's a keeper!  8-)

Indeed... 8-)

Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 8:16pm:

Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D Agnes - hahahah. Could be a long thread ..........

  Don't get me started about that one Sprint- how long is long enough ? lol

Agnes wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 9:08pm:

Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 8:16pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D Agnes - hahahah. Could be a long thread ..........   Don't get me started about that one Sprint- how long is long enough ? lol

Go on, tell us!

Setanta wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 9:26pm:

Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 9:08pm: Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 8:16pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D Agnes - hahahah. Could be a long thread ..........   Don't get me started about that one Sprint- how long is long enough ? lol Go on, tell us!

  I have read recentley "20 cm" apparently? or so they say over yonder  ;)

Agnes wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 10:15pm:

Setanta wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 9:26pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 9:08pm: Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 8:16pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D Agnes - hahahah. Could be a long thread ..........   Don't get me started about that one Sprint- how long is long enough ? lol Go on, tell us!   I have read recentley "20 cm" apparently? or so they say over yonder  ;)

Sorry for editing your post, that modify where quote used to be takes a second victim.

Emma doesn't mind a sawn off either! http://www.ozpolitic.com/forum/YaBB.pl?num=1469183754/22#22
You girls! ::)
;D

Agnes wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 10:15pm:

Setanta wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 9:26pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 9:08pm: Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 8:16pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D Agnes - hahahah. Could be a long thread ..........   Don't get me started about that one Sprint- how long is long enough ? lol Go on, tell us!   I have read recentley "20 cm" apparently? or so they say over yonder  ;)

From the ground or circumference  :o

Setanta wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 9:05pm:

Its time wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:40pm: Caution swearing but it can all be summed up in 50 seconds https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hpYQsckWno Brilliant ;D That's as good as FD's here http://www.ozpolitic.com/forum/YaBB.pl?num=1471759662/4#4

;D ;D

All this time

Its time wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 10:32pm:

Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 10:15pm: Setanta wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 9:26pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 9:08pm: Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 8:16pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D Agnes - hahahah. Could be a long thread ..........   Don't get me started about that one Sprint- how long is long enough ? lol Go on, tell us!   I have read recentley "20 cm" apparently? or so they say over yonder  ;) From the ground or circumference  :o

Before this grows legs- this is not my thought about penis size- this comes from over "yonder" I am kind of middle of the road with this issue- 20cms to me is huge and is it even humanly possible- I don't know?  :o

Ever heard the saying "eyes too big for the belly"?

Setanta wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 9:26pm:

Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 9:08pm: Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 8:16pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D Agnes - hahahah. Could be a long thread ..........   Don't get me started about that one Sprint- how long is long enough ? lol Go on, tell us!

About six inches is fine. :)

Emma wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 10:53pm:

Setanta wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 9:26pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 9:08pm: Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 8:16pm: Agnes wrote on Aug 21st, 2016 at 7:02pm: and where do I start lol .  :D Agnes - hahahah. Could be a long thread ..........   Don't get me started about that one Sprint- how long is long enough ? lol Go on, tell us! About six inches is fine. :)

How about 3 twice as often?

Hmmm  ...  nope.
6in x 1 = +. <6 is ok too.  3 x 2 = -     O=>o
:) ;)

Emma wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 11:22pm:

Hmmm  ...  nope. 6in x 1 = +. <6 is ok too.  3 x 2 = -     O=>o :) ;)

:o OK. No wonder men are confuse.

That is funny, poor bunnies.

Emma wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 11:42pm:

That is funny, poor bunnies.

Funny?! Sadist! ;D

Not usually...  :)   

But you know sometimes..........

Emma wrote on Aug 21^st, 2016 at 11:51pm:

Not usually...  :)    But you know sometimes..........

That's why we let you clean up after us. Get you so tired you don't care. Yeah, ok darling, as long as you don't wake me up. :P

Ooooohhh  nasty nasty man. Clean up after you have... ?oooohh  not me fella. The only cleaning up I do is after myself. :)  And even then, only intermittently.  You all can clean up your own mess. Which means?  your place is a mess... without your woman around to do it for you.  :P :P

Emma wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 12:14am:

Ooooohhh  nasty nasty man. Clean up after you have... ?oooohh  not me fella. The only cleaning up I do is after myself. :)  And even then, only intermittently.  You all can clean up your own mess. Which means?  your place is a mess... without your woman around to do it for you.  :P :P

Not really, I clean up just fine when the wife is absent. I tend to do the chores at night though as there are better things to do while the sun is up. I'm telling you, my wife is seriously antsy when there is nothing for her to do. OCD? Not really  but there is a need to do something around the house. Nest pecking?  ;D

So.. you clean up when the wife is not around to do it.

Do you help with  household chores when she IS around? Of course you do. You're a good fella.. you do the dishes when she has cooked, or cook and she does the dishes ..like that?  Make the bed, while she does the washing.. like that eh?

Setanta wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 12:20am:

Emma wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 12:14am: Ooooohhh  nasty nasty man. Clean up after you have... ?oooohh  not me fella. The only cleaning up I do is after myself. :)  And even then, only intermittently.  You all can clean up your own mess. Which means?  your place is a mess... without your woman around to do it for you.  :P :P Not really, I clean up just fine when the wife is absent. I tend to do the chores at night though as there are better things to do while the sun is up. I'm telling you, my wife is seriously antsy when there is nothing for her to do. OCD? Not really  but there is a need to do something around the house. Nest pecking?  ;D

I can't wait for that to be taken out of context! ;D

Emma wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 12:36am:

So.. you clean up when the wife is not around to do it. Do you help with  household chores when she IS around?

Yes, but just enough that she lets me live here.

Setanta wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 12:38am:

Emma wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 12:36am: So.. you clean up when the wife is not around to do it. Do you help with  household chores when she IS around? Yes, but just enough that she lets me live here.

OK that sounds about right. :)

Emma wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 12:39am:

Setanta wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 12:38am: Emma wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 12:36am: So.. you clean up when the wife is not around to do it. Do you help with  household chores when she IS around? Yes, but just enough that she lets me live here. OK that sounds about right. :)

You don't want to take a mothers reason for being away from her. Where would Lisa be without her Vegetales? It's a woman thing.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FERWWIQ8HA

Hmm problem alert... vids aren't showing up , haven't seen the last couple posted on the forum.  Hmmmmmm  but is showing on the lists of posts below , when you are replying.
Hang on, and I'll post and see if the vid you posted is now on the main post.

Nope .. on the main topic nothing but a black box  of your vid posted. (no pun intended)  :)

OK  it went to grey box with an arrow.. click on arrow and the vid shows. Maybe it is just slow to pick up and display the vid posted.

Emma wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 12:55am:

Nope .. on the main topic nothing but a black box  of your vid posted. (no pun intended)  :)

No pun intended here either! ;)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nU1VfYYKMDk

I actually sing a local version I made up. Black Betty from Tabulam. http://www.gdaypubs.com.au/NSW/tabulam.html

Politically incorrect?

Come on Em, the threads is supposed to be about men. You've let me invert it.

WOW    just saw the pizza Box was empty.. my comment before  :) was unknowing of the cartoon vid.  I am at one with the universe.  :)

Like Black Betty.. so I 'm going to see that one now.. Politically incorrect???  No.

Emma wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 1:16am:

WOW    just saw the pizza Box was empty.. my comment before  :) was unknowing of the cartoon vid.  I am at one with the universe.  :) Like Black Betty.. so I 'm going to see that one now.. Politically incorrect???  No.

Oh no... What have I done. ;D

Excellent vid,  haven't seen that one before...
Bamalam

Emma wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 1:23am:

Excellent vid,  haven't seen that one before... Bamalam

Tabulam

Setanta wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 1:19am:

Emma wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 1:16am: WOW    just saw the pizza Box was empty.. my comment before  :) was unknowing of the cartoon vid.  I am at one with the universe.  :) Like Black Betty.. so I 'm going to see that one now.. Politically incorrect???  No. Oh no... What have I done. ;D

   
Nothing I wouldn't I am sure .Nice little place Tabulam.

the forum just can't keep up with us Setanta.   :)

Emma wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 1:26am:

Setanta wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 1:19am: Emma wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 1:16am: WOW    just saw the pizza Box was empty.. my comment before  :) was unknowing of the cartoon vid.  I am at one with the universe.  :) Like Black Betty.. so I 'm going to see that one now.. Politically incorrect???  No. Oh no... What have I done. ;D     Nothing I wouldn't I am sure .Nice little place Tabulam.

It is. A nice place for Bet to have child.

Edit: It's friggin' cold though in winter.

and it's not like there are a lot of members logged on (xcuse the pun)  :)

Setanta wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 1:31am:

Emma wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 1:26am: Setanta wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 1:19am: Emma wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 1:16am: WOW    just saw the pizza Box was empty.. my comment before  :) was unknowing of the cartoon vid.  I am at one with the universe.  :) Like Black Betty.. so I 'm going to see that one now.. Politically incorrect???  No. Oh no... What have I done. ;D     Nothing I wouldn't I am sure .Nice little place Tabulam. It is. A nice place for Bet to have child. Edit: It's friggin' cold though in winter.

Nothing like a good wood fire.  :)

Emma wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 1:34am:

and it's not like there are a lot of members logged on (xcuse the pun)  :)

Are you implying there is a sense of intimacy tonight!? How dare you! I should get Herb to spank you for the suggestion!

I'm going to bed, have a good night Em, look after yourself. No implications meant. ;D

who? me?

I do love a good wood fire tho.  Mine is banking down now. :)

sleep tight... nighty nights.

Interesting little interaction between sentana and emma there.

Sentana is vibing well and keeping it light.
this is a good start.

Now if emma was a hot girl ( :D :D :D), the thing to do (and the thing most guys f*ck up on) is to pull away, throw in some criticism, poke fun at her.

Why?

because most hot girls are just constantly hit on by needy men , supplicating to them...needy men who want their attention. they are numb to complements.

And a hot girl, gets her "identity " from her "hotness".
So if you have vibed for a bit , throw in a line like

"ease up on the fries there chubby"
or tell her "youre dismissed"
or just leave, walk away.

A hot girl more then any other girl lives off validation.

Remove that validation, pull the rug out from under her and she will chase.
you see, she's sick of "being chased".
they all want what they cant have and hot women can be crazy insecure.

There is a high probability that the more of an assh*ole you are, the more she will develop a need for an outcome.to get your validation.

It is the reason hot women nearly always end up with loser douche bags.

the loser douche bag understands this game and there is another advantage for the hot girl....she isnt going to attract a guy who is going to get all needy and clingy.

The paradox of the game

aquascoot wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 7:59am:

Interesting little interaction between sentana and emma there. Sentana is vibing well and keeping it light. this is a good start. Now if emma was a hot girl ( :D :D :D), the thing to do (and the thing most guys f*ck up on) is to pull away, throw in some criticism, poke fun at her. Why? because most hot girls are just constantly hit on by needy men , supplicating to them...needy men who want their attention. they are numb to complements. And a hot girl, gets her "identity " from her "hotness". So if you have vibed for a bit , throw in a line like "ease up on the fries there chubby" or tell her "youre dismissed" or just leave, walk away. A hot girl more then any other girl lives off validation. Remove that validation, pull the rug out from under her and she will chase. you see, she's sick of "being chased". they all want what they cant have and hot women can be crazy insecure. There is a high probability that the more of an assh*ole you are, the more she will develop a need for an outcome.to get your validation. It is the reason hot women nearly always end up with loser douche bags. the loser douche bag understands this game and there is another advantage for the hot girl....she isnt going to attract a guy who is going to get all needy and clingy. The paradox of the game

   Sweeping generalisations Aqua..

aquascoot wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 7:59am:

Interesting little interaction between sentana and emma there. Sentana is vibing well and keeping it light. this is a good start. Now if emma was a hot girl ( :D :D :D), the thing to do (and the thing most guys f*ck up on) is to pull away, throw in some criticism, poke fun at her. Why? because most hot girls are just constantly hit on by needy men , supplicating to them...needy men who want their attention. they are numb to complements. And a hot girl, gets her "identity " from her "hotness". So if you have vibed for a bit , throw in a line like "ease up on the fries there chubby" or tell her "youre dismissed" or just leave, walk away. A hot girl more then any other girl lives off validation. Remove that validation, pull the rug out from under her and she will chase. you see, she's sick of "being chased". they all want what they cant have and hot women can be crazy insecure.

It's actually a very rare event to witness but I saw this happen several times when I was living in Vietnam.

While the average western male's attention is usually drawn to the ridiculously hot, intelligent, educated strong minded Vietnamese women, western women find themselves a bit, well, unloved.

Western women who are self assured take a bit of a confidence hit with the sudden lack of male attention but deal with it and bury themselves in learning new skills and hobbies.

Any females who skated through life using their looks as their main weapon suddenly find themselves disarmed and can't adjust had considerable issues.

I witnessed some total meltdowns and for me it was a watershed moment in my understanding of gender relations.

Agnes wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 8:27am:

aquascoot wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 7:59am: Interesting little interaction between sentana and emma there. Sentana is vibing well and keeping it light. this is a good start. Now if emma was a hot girl ( :D :D :D), the thing to do (and the thing most guys f*ck up on) is to pull away, throw in some criticism, poke fun at her. Why? because most hot girls are just constantly hit on by needy men , supplicating to them...needy men who want their attention. they are numb to complements. And a hot girl, gets her "identity " from her "hotness". So if you have vibed for a bit , throw in a line like "ease up on the fries there chubby" or tell her "youre dismissed" or just leave, walk away. A hot girl more then any other girl lives off validation. Remove that validation, pull the rug out from under her and she will chase. you see, she's sick of "being chased". they all want what they cant have and hot women can be crazy insecure. There is a high probability that the more of an assh*ole you are, the more she will develop a need for an outcome.to get your validation. It is the reason hot women nearly always end up with loser douche bags. the loser douche bag understands this game and there is another advantage for the hot girl....she isnt going to attract a guy who is going to get all needy and clingy. The paradox of the game    Sweeping generalisations Aqua..

Oh for sure,
but i think its smart to provoke the "group think" narrative.
people get into relationships and these cause them a LOT of pain.
But they dont try to think deeply about relationships.
They just accept the social narrative, which is , by the obvious failure rate, not perfect.

The hollywood rom com is a classic example.
Its just plain wrong.

And men are sold a lie as well.
get a good job, work hard, buy a good car and a good watch and "impress' the girl.
This is all logical stuff and logic does not work.

No man ever sat on a couch and presented a "logical" business plan to a woman on why they should hook up.
Women are emotional creatures.

Look at the range of emotions in a Rom Com.
Does a rom com have the story of a guy who went to law school, got a nice house, courted a girl and then they get married and go to brunch together and are in bliss?  of course not. women like the drama, they like the uncertainty, will i get him ,wont i get him...

the little girl with the flower pulling petals..he loves me, he loves me not.

Any guy who doesnt understand how to man up and play a bit of push pull but still be a bit of a dominator..

chicks will lose attraction for him. its in the DNA.
this is the problem with men....they want to be the girls "girlfriend" and not a MAN.  she already has girlfriends. she doesnt get turned on by her girlfriends (well i have a secret theory she does..but that a story for another day ) ;)

aquascoot wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 8:45am:

Agnes wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 8:27am: aquascoot wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 7:59am: Interesting little interaction between sentana and emma there. Sentana is vibing well and keeping it light. this is a good start. Now if emma was a hot girl ( :D :D :D), the thing to do (and the thing most guys f*ck up on) is to pull away, throw in some criticism, poke fun at her. Why? because most hot girls are just constantly hit on by needy men , supplicating to them...needy men who want their attention. they are numb to complements. And a hot girl, gets her "identity " from her "hotness". So if you have vibed for a bit , throw in a line like "ease up on the fries there chubby" or tell her "youre dismissed" or just leave, walk away. A hot girl more then any other girl lives off validation. Remove that validation, pull the rug out from under her and she will chase. you see, she's sick of "being chased". they all want what they cant have and hot women can be crazy insecure. There is a high probability that the more of an assh*ole you are, the more she will develop a need for an outcome.to get your validation. It is the reason hot women nearly always end up with loser douche bags. the loser douche bag understands this game and there is another advantage for the hot girl....she isnt going to attract a guy who is going to get all needy and clingy. The paradox of the game    Sweeping generalisations Aqua.. Oh for sure, but i think its smart to provoke the "group think" narrative. people get into relationships and these cause them a LOT of pain. But they dont try to think deeply about relationships. They just accept the social narrative, which is , by the obvious failure rate, not perfect. The hollywood rom com is a classic example. Its just plain wrong. And men are sold a lie as well. get a good job, work hard, buy a good car and a good watch and "impress' the girl. This is all logical stuff and logic does not work. No man ever sat on a couch and presented a "logical" business plan to a woman on why they should hook up. Women are emotional creatures. Look at the range of emotions in a Rom Com. Does a rom com have the story of a guy who went to law school, got a nice house, courted a girl and then they get married and go to brunch together and are in bliss?  of course not. women like the drama, they like the uncertainty, will i get him ,wont i get him... the little girl with the flower pulling petals..he loves me, he loves me not. Any guy who doesnt understand how to man up and play a bit of push pull but still be a bit of a dominator.. chicks will lose attraction for him. its in the DNA. this is the problem with men....they want to be the girls "girlfriend" and not a MAN.  she already has girlfriends. she doesnt get turned on by her girlfriends (well i have a secret theory she does..but that a story for another day ) ;)

  My boy is only 20, good looking but understands this already- he is very self assured and confident in the main- girls go up to him and give him their number lol- its a bit disconcerting for me because he is young and doesn't know what do do with the attention - quite funny- a "lone wolf type"girls have described him- he understands hot girls- I think it is inherent that he instinctively understands them, but many men don't have a clue- and understanding females is a mine field and can be intimidating-

Agnes wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 8:59am:

aquascoot wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 8:45am: Agnes wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 8:27am: aquascoot wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 7:59am: Interesting little interaction between sentana and emma there. Sentana is vibing well and keeping it light. this is a good start. Now if emma was a hot girl ( :D :D :D), the thing to do (and the thing most guys f*ck up on) is to pull away, throw in some criticism, poke fun at her. Why? because most hot girls are just constantly hit on by needy men , supplicating to them...needy men who want their attention. they are numb to complements. And a hot girl, gets her "identity " from her "hotness". So if you have vibed for a bit , throw in a line like "ease up on the fries there chubby" or tell her "youre dismissed" or just leave, walk away. A hot girl more then any other girl lives off validation. Remove that validation, pull the rug out from under her and she will chase. you see, she's sick of "being chased". they all want what they cant have and hot women can be crazy insecure. There is a high probability that the more of an assh*ole you are, the more she will develop a need for an outcome.to get your validation. It is the reason hot women nearly always end up with loser douche bags. the loser douche bag understands this game and there is another advantage for the hot girl....she isnt going to attract a guy who is going to get all needy and clingy. The paradox of the game    Sweeping generalisations Aqua.. Oh for sure, but i think its smart to provoke the "group think" narrative. people get into relationships and these cause them a LOT of pain. But they dont try to think deeply about relationships. They just accept the social narrative, which is , by the obvious failure rate, not perfect. The hollywood rom com is a classic example. Its just plain wrong. And men are sold a lie as well. get a good job, work hard, buy a good car and a good watch and "impress' the girl. This is all logical stuff and logic does not work. No man ever sat on a couch and presented a "logical" business plan to a woman on why they should hook up. Women are emotional creatures. Look at the range of emotions in a Rom Com. Does a rom com have the story of a guy who went to law school, got a nice house, courted a girl and then they get married and go to brunch together and are in bliss?  of course not. women like the drama, they like the uncertainty, will i get him ,wont i get him... the little girl with the flower pulling petals..he loves me, he loves me not. Any guy who doesnt understand how to man up and play a bit of push pull but still be a bit of a dominator.. chicks will lose attraction for him. its in the DNA. this is the problem with men....they want to be the girls "girlfriend" and not a MAN.  she already has girlfriends. she doesnt get turned on by her girlfriends (well i have a secret theory she does..but that a story for another day ) ;)   My boy is only 20, good looking but understands this already- he is very self assured and confident in the main- girls go up to him and give him their number lol- its a bit disconcerting for me because he is young and doesn't know what do do with the attention - quite funny- a "lone wolf type"girls have described him- he understands hot girls- I think it is inherent that he instinctively understands them, but many men don't have a clue- and understanding females is a mine field and can be intimidating-

Agnes,

women like "non needy ' men.
if they see a guy with a lot of girls giving him attention, it does 2 things.

it 'social proofs ' the guy...other chicks like him , so i feel attraction (this is obvious from the way women respond to fashion).

and if he has lots of girls, he wont be a needy clingy stalker guy and he will probably just be carefree and fun and i can have fun with this guy.

as i said, the rich get rich and the poor get poorer. and this is true of nearly everything in life and the reason why you MUST draw happiness from within.

A hot girl , will attract many men who just want her validation. they NEED it to feel good about themselves. This is value LEECHING and it is repulsive to the girl.
In fact value leeching or asking "whats in it for me" is repulsive in

realtionships
families
by employees towards their bosses
by citizens towards the government.

Being needy and concerned only with having your needs met is a repulsive way to live.

its all practice for the big show

EVERYTHING.

my daughter got a job at maccas at 15.
i said. make sure you do a kick a*ss job. smile, be super enthusiastic, be a source of energy, see yourself as the sun, spraying out good clean enthusiasm to everyone....and of course, the guys at maccas all want to date her, she gets practice to move up to the next level.

I try to teach this stuff to the loser left in the political forum.
i tell them to embrace work for the dole
to love the journey
to practice enthusiasm.

but they just hate on me.

their loss.

once you bring a non neediness and a positive passion to everything you do, people will want to be around you and help you. then you just cut those who are value leeching off you and you have your "positive ecosystem of good emotions"

Bingo, youre a winner...easier then falling off a log  ;)

well this has been verrrry interrrresssting.. :)


aquascoot wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 9:33am:

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One thing I actually agree with that you have said, over all your posts, high-lighted above..

Your problem , as a male, is your self-satisfaction, verbosity and pontification. Its a turn OFF to be made to feel stupid, and you always preach.  Yawn.

the problem with men...

we need women

John Smith wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 9:13pm:

the problem with men... we need women

look...

if they didn't have vagina's they'd be stacked 10 high at the tip like old cars..

we all know that... its not rocket surgery... i





.  ;D

President Elect, The Mechanic wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 9:17pm:

John Smith wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 9:13pm: the problem with men... we need women look... if they didn't have vagina's they'd be stacked 10 high at the tip like old cars.. we all know that... its not rocket surgery... i .  ;D

I'm all about there personality , you should be ashamed of yourself mechanic

He should be, but he isn't and won't be, because ?? his brain is in his d..k..  Yeah that's right his donkey. He'd even do one of them if he had nothing else to do. ::)

I guess you all agree then, given the lack of replies. ;D

Emma wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 10:55pm:

I guess you all agree then, given the lack of replies. ;D

Fix me a sandwich whilst I think of one

Bite me.

The bigger they are the harder they fall.  ;D

Emma wrote on Aug 22^nd, 2016 at 11:12pm:

The bigger they are the harder they fall.  ;D

Yeah, I know, I dropped my Subway the other day, the mess it made!

Setanta wrote on Aug 23^rd, 2016 at 6:15am:

Emma wrote on Aug 22nd, 2016 at 11:12pm: The bigger they are the harder they fall.  ;D Yeah, I know, I dropped my Subway the other day, the mess it made!

Clicks fingers, take care of that for setanta thanks emma