Personally FD, I don't think you're ever going to find a happy medium. Trying to please too many people too much of the time will only backfire on you.
There's nothing worse than a sterile society, and a sterile chatroom comes a close second.
There will always be different people come and go, and tempers will get frayed from time to time...but it's all part of the fun isn't it?
As well, it takes a bit of time to get to know different posters and the language that they use.
To me, if BO calls me a hypocrite and a moron, then I revel in it ..I find it funny (becauase he is one himself
). However, if somebody like Mantra used the same terminology, I would take it in an entirely different context.
That being said, I've seen BO and RSF on Cracker scaring off new posters because they immediately go for the throat. It also took me a little time to realise that they were the village idiots.
Before Cracker was destroyed by it's operators, the politics room was in a schemozzle because of tit-for-tat complaints and deletions. The deletions themselves were at least as destructive, or more destructive than what people were complaining about in the first place.
I probably won't bother posting in weasel's room again because he has stated to me in no uncertain terms that,
"I'm the king of the mountain, and you must be subservient to me".The only response that I could be bothered giving to this attitude atm is,
"f@#k off weasel"... If I speak from the heart that is.
The question is, do you want a board where people speak their mind (at the time of posting) or do you want a sterilised chatroom..like nazis....or religious people?