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Grendel Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 28080 Gender:	Re: Love without contact Reply #45 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 1:26pm you think easel should start walking in the rain and snow??????
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mozzaok Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 6741 Melbourne Gender:	Re: Love without contact Reply #46 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 1:45pm I think someone needs sexing up. Nothing like getting down to some basic mechanics to sort out the reality from the fantasy. Anyone remember the Lady Di joke about "Your little Pinky"???
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NorthOfNorth Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 17258 Gender:	Re: Love without contact Reply #47 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 1:46pm Grendel wrote on Oct 25^th, 2008 at 1:26pm: you think easel should start walking in the rain and snow?????? well... when there's nowhere to go and if he's feeling like a part of him is dying and he's looking for the answer in her eyes...
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easel Gold Member Offline Posts: 3120	Re: Love without contact Reply #48 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 1:57pm Maybe it wasn't love, but she would always goofy smile at me and buy me chocolates for no reason then turn up at work on her day off, have me paged, then do the goofy smile, eyes light up and not be capable of a decent conversation, so she would give me more chocolates. I assumed she was in love.
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Grendel Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 28080 Gender:	Re: Love without contact Reply #49 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 2:12pm Certainly sounds like she was interested in you. Did you reciprocate? And of course nothing developed... BTW not everyone in love has had sex, some abstain. After all... love is NOT sex.
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Reply #50 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 3:16pm

You are right love is not sex, otherwise best mates would be having sex all the time, parents and children, you know. Love does not have to be a sexual thing. I think you know it is love when the sexual desire is not for yourself, but rather to get the object of your affection to experience the feelings you yourself would usually chase.

It was a very strange situation. I don't know what popped it back in to my head after all this time.

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NorthOfNorth Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 17258 Gender:	Re: Love without contact Reply #51 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 3:21pm There's no aphrodisiac like loneliness, Youth truth beauty fame boredom and a bottle of pills
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Gaybriel Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 1191	Re: Love without contact Reply #52 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 4:01pm Grendel wrote on Oct 25^th, 2008 at 11:44am: well gaybriel you have a habit of jumping in and not reading everything don't you... and I wouldn't believe everything mantra says. no I don't - you just seem to think I do
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Reply #53 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 4:03pm

easel wrote on Oct 25^th, 2008 at 3:16pm:

You are right love is not sex, otherwise best mates would be having sex all the time, parents and children, you know. Love does not have to be a sexual thing. I think you know it is love when the sexual desire is not for yourself, but rather to get the object of your affection to experience the feelings you yourself would usually chase.

too true

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Reply #54 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 4:51pm

I'm generalising here, but I think overall males would have to be more romantic than females. Of course there are plenty of women who do make "googly eyes" at the object of their affection and are romantic, but basically females are more focussed on the practical side of the relationship.

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I think you know it is love when the sexual desire is not for yourself, but rather to get the object of your affection to experience the feelings you yourself would usually chase.

Sorry - I don't get it Easel. It sounds as though you are trying to get the object of your affection to meet your will.

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Neferti Gold Member Offline Posts: 7965 Canberra Gender:	Re: Love without contact Reply #55 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 5:54pm mantra wrote on Oct 25^th, 2008 at 4:51pm: I'm generalising here, but I think overall males would have to be more romantic than females. Males romantic? You lack experience with the male population I think Mantra.
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mantra Gold Member Offline ozpolitic.com Posts: 10750 Gender:	Re: Love without contact Reply #56 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 6:18pm Quote: Males romantic? You lack experience with the male population I think Mantra. That has been my personal experience with most males I've known neferti although I will admit I haven't had the same vast experience with the general male population you've had. It would be interesting to hear some male views on this?
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Aussie Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 38677 Gender:	Re: Love without contact Reply #57 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 7:33pm LOL.....Helian.
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NorthOfNorth Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 17258 Gender:	Re: Love without contact Reply #58 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 7:50pm Aussie wrote on Oct 25^th, 2008 at 7:33pm: LOL.....Helian. Thank God! I was starting to wonder if anyone was getting it.
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easel Gold Member Offline Posts: 3120	Re: Love without contact Reply #59 - Oct 25^th, 2008 at 8:04pm The musical? I got it. I am romantic. At least I think so. It really depends on the girl though, some girls you know wouldn't appreciate it, others love it and can't get enough.
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