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Reply #15 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 3:42am
 
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If suffrage, the right to participate, as equals, in public affairs was not feminism (understood as the political and social movement for political and social emancipation, ie equality), then what the hell is??


There you go, you heard it here first Soren. Feminism is 'over' equal, or equality ++, or uber-equality  Grin



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Reply #16 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 5:57am
 
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True but society is set up to protect the kids that are born to any union married or not..so thats not surprising is it..


Are you saying that without kids then all deals are off?
Yes of course the kids should be looked after, but the very important and ancient responsibility that women once had of choosing a partner that will be there for the long haul becomes not so important when they can get themselves knocked up by any fleet footed bozo and have the law chase them up for cash. As a second, third or fourth thought, they might then find their "Mr. Responsible" who will then be burdened with their lack of responsibility for the rest of his life through no mistake of his own.

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I would like you to expand on the 'economically driven crap 'when you have a mo' amadd.. I need to know further your thoughts there.


Basically, you get more bang for your buck by making men the workhorses. That's what they're built for and that's what they do best.
Under the guise of "women's rights and fairness", it's been possible to force men to work their asses off for a non-existent family. How many women would be stupid enough to do that?

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Its obvious you are protective of the rights of men and all men should be aware and protective of same..women are protective of their rights as well ,but as we are the 'weaker sex', we have to talk a lot to be heard, hence we use the media to get our message across and in doing so inflict our 'cause' upon even those who dont want it/are not interested, thereby alienating pp who might otherwise not rail against feminism if not provoked/sickened by it.


I'm also being protective of women's right to be women. I doubt if it was some amazing leap in evolution that women have come to "talk a lot to be heard". They've always talked a lot, but now it's a male created law that we must listen.
What was the ultimate objective of that "cause" again? I missed it the first time, but I have a sneaking suspicion that the goal has been achieved, so you can give up the ear-bashing now  Tongue. - insert Cartman: You must respect my authority!!i













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Reply #17 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 10:49am
 
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Female suffrage should not be likened to feminism. It was not feminism.


What Soren said. The right to vote for women was fought for and secured by the feminist movement.
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Reply #18 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 1:20pm
 
Soren wrote on Jan 12th, 2010 at 10:25pm:
Sappho wrote on Jan 12th, 2010 at 9:45pm:
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The female vote only came a few years after male suffrage was won and decades before aboriginal suffrage here in Australia.

Prior to male suffrage, only the landed males could vote.

Female suffrage should not be likened to feminism. It was not feminism.  




That is eyewateringly stupid. Even from a sapphic lady...

If suffrage, the right to participate, as equals, in public affairs was not feminism (understood as the political and social movement for political and social emancipation, ie equality), then what the hell is??


It was the very same movement that motivated the landless men to seek voting rights those few years prior.

Wiki says... "In most countries, full universal suffrage - with the inclusion of women - followed universal male suffrage by about ten to twenty years. A notable exception is France, where women could not vote until 1944."

It was about the right to vote Soren. Feminism is about the rights of women and not just suffrage.

Feminism was born after WWII as the women, having discovered the freedoms men took for granted, refused to give them up. This then grew into the huge movement that fought for equality for women as it became in the late 50s, 60s and 70s.


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Reply #19 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 1:29pm
 
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Feminism is about the rights of women and not just suffrage.


30,000 women signed the petition to be allowed to vote in federal elections. That petition was organised by feminists.

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Feminism was born after WWII as the women, having discovered the freedoms men took for granted, refused to give them up. This then grew into the huge movement that fought for equality for women as it became in the late 50s, 60s and 70s.


That's incorrect. The first wave of feminism started in the 18th century. Virginia Woolf (a notable feminist) was dead before you say the movement began.

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Reply #20 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 1:53pm
 
Actually, there are notable women throughout history and not just from the 18th century wanting for the rights than men had... I do not doubt that pre-history has such women also. Therefore, according to your rationale... feminism has been a thriving movement since end of matriarchy.
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Reply #21 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 1:55pm
 
Oh yeah... and Woolf is from the 19th century.
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Reply #22 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 2:04pm
 
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Actually, there are notable women throughout history and not just from the 18th century wanting for the rights than men had


I'm talking about the feminist movement, not a few notable women looking for equality.

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Oh yeah... and Woolf is from the 19th century.


I didn't say Woolf was from the 18th century - I said that she was dead before the end of WW2, which is when you stated that feminism began. Do you deny Woolf was a feminist?

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Reply #23 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 2:17pm
 
I think that Woolf has been recast as a feminist by the feminist movement... which by your reckoning is the second wave... but that her lack of interest in class divisions shows her not to be a feminist.
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Reply #24 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 2:35pm
 
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her lack of interest in class divisions shows her not to be a feminist.


Since when does an interest in class division determine whether someone is a feminist?

And to clarify on the 18th century feminism, Wollstonecraft wrote A Vindication of the Rights of Woman, one of the first books of feminist philosophy, in 1792.
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Reply #25 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 3:34pm
 
Annie Anthrax wrote on Jan 13th, 2010 at 2:35pm:
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her lack of interest in class divisions shows her not to be a feminist.


Since when does an interest in class division determine whether someone is a feminist?


Since the so-called second wave feminist movement that crossed all class divisions.
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Reply #26 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 3:50pm
 
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Reply #27 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 7:07pm
 
Sappho wrote on Jan 13th, 2010 at 3:34pm:
Annie Anthrax wrote on Jan 13th, 2010 at 2:35pm:
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her lack of interest in class divisions shows her not to be a feminist.


Since when does an interest in class division determine whether someone is a feminist?


Since the so-called second wave feminist movement that crossed all class divisions.


Another aspect of Feminism that is often forgotten is that it is not about equality except as a consequence of the philosophy. Were it only about equality... then it would not be called feminism.

Indeed, Feminism is the philosophy of masculine oppression of the feminine.
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Reply #28 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 8:54pm
 
Sappho wrote on Jan 13th, 2010 at 7:07pm:
Indeed, Feminism is the philosophy of masculine oppression of the feminine.

Antithetical philosophy, don't you mean?
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Reply #29 - Jan 13th, 2010 at 9:33pm
 
NorthOfNorth wrote on Jan 13th, 2010 at 8:54pm:
Sappho wrote on Jan 13th, 2010 at 7:07pm:
Indeed, Feminism is the philosophy of masculine oppression of the feminine.

Antithetical philosophy, don't you mean?


Thesis, antithesis, synthesis... it's all philosophy. Where you stipulate, I did not. I am happy with merely claiming it a philosophy of the masculine oppression of the feminine.

I'm curious though. Are you suggesting that feminine is the antithesis of masculine?
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