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Reply #240 - Jul 23rd, 2013 at 5:37pm
 
polite_gandalf wrote on Jun 9th, 1970 at 12:10pm:


Refutation of the crap Gandalf posted.
www.wikiislam.net/wiki/Wife_Beating_in_Islam

Forget you mental gymnastics with the arabic language for a moment, what does Idriboohunna mean gandalf, does it mean beat them?

Assuming all the Quran translators are wrong (which they are not) why would they make 4:34 sound worse than it is by saying beat them?
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Reply #241 - Jul 23rd, 2013 at 6:07pm
 
shockresist wrote on Jul 23rd, 2013 at 5:26pm:
Baronvonrort wrote on Jul 22nd, 2013 at 8:53pm:
polite_gandalf wrote on Jul 22nd, 2013 at 2:26pm:
freediver wrote on Jul 22nd, 2013 at 12:54pm:
Gandalf, do you believe that Islamic doctrine forbids wife beating?


yes.


4:34 has allah telling you to hit the bitch. Smiley





Just like the bible I guess.

Its also unfortunate you refer to female as bitches.



Why not 'bitches'? Is that so much worse than "cat's meat"?

And argue as you might, but don't you find the differences between Islam and Christianity just a little skewed when it comes to the processes of divorce and infidelity?

The term 'stoned woman' has two entirely different connotations when comparing the two ideologies, don't you think?
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Reply #242 - Jul 23rd, 2013 at 6:27pm
 
Baronvonrort wrote on Jul 23rd, 2013 at 5:37pm:
Assuming all the Quran translators are wrong (which they are not)


I'm pretty sure it was you who was criticising the translations earlier for including the word "lightly" after the word beat/strike/scourge. Now you don't seem to have any problem with that. So does "strike lightly" sound like what your typical good ol' drunken wife beater would do?

Baronvonrort wrote on Jul 23rd, 2013 at 5:37pm:
what does Idriboohunna mean gandalf, does it mean beat them?


In a literal sense it means 'beat them'. Thats not in dispute. But what the two articles I posted argued is that its not meant in a physical sense. The evidence is that elsewhere in the quran the same root word is used in a non-physical sense:

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Allah Almighty used the word "daraba" in Noble Verse 14:24 "Seest thou not how Allah sets (daraba) forth a parable? -- A goodly Word Like a goodly tree, Whose root is firmly fixed, And its branches (reach) To the heavens".  "daraba" here meant "give an example".  If I say in Arabic "daraba laka mathal", it means "give you an example".

Allah Almighty also used the word "darabtum", which is derived from the word "daraba" in Noble Verse 4:94, which mean to "go abroad" in the sake of Allah Almighty:

"O ye who believe! When ye go abroad (darabtum) In the cause of Allah, Investigate carefully, And say not to anyone Who offers you a salutation: 'Thou art none of a Believer!' Coveting the perishable good Of this life: with Allah Are profits and spoils abundant.  Even thus were ye yourselves Before, till Allah conferred On you His favours: therefore Carefully investigate.  For Allah is well aware Of all that ye do.   (The Noble Quran, 4:94)"

So "daraba" literally means "beat", or "go abroad", or "give" but not in the sense to give something by hand, but rather to give or provide an example.
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Re: wife beating in Islam
Reply #243 - Jul 23rd, 2013 at 8:01pm
 
polite_gandalf wrote on Jul 23rd, 2013 at 6:27pm:
Baronvonrort wrote on Jul 23rd, 2013 at 5:37pm:
Assuming all the Quran translators are wrong (which they are not)


I'm pretty sure it was you who was criticising the translations earlier for including the word "lightly" after the word beat/strike/scourge. Now you don't seem to have any problem with that. So does "strike lightly" sound like what your typical good ol' drunken wife beater would do?

Baronvonrort wrote on Jul 23rd, 2013 at 5:37pm:
what does Idriboohunna mean gandalf, does it mean beat them?


In a literal sense it means 'beat them'. Thats not in dispute. But what the two articles I posted argued is that its not meant in a physical sense. The evidence is that elsewhere in the quran the same root word is used in a non-physical sense:

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Allah Almighty used the word "daraba" in Noble Verse 14:24 "Seest thou not how Allah sets (daraba) forth a parable? -- A goodly Word Like a goodly tree, Whose root is firmly fixed, And its branches (reach) To the heavens".  "daraba" here meant "give an example".  If I say in Arabic "daraba laka mathal", it means "give you an example".

Allah Almighty also used the word "darabtum", which is derived from the word "daraba" in Noble Verse 4:94, which mean to "go abroad" in the sake of Allah Almighty:

"O ye who believe! When ye go abroad (darabtum) In the cause of Allah, Investigate carefully, And say not to anyone Who offers you a salutation: 'Thou art none of a Believer!' Coveting the perishable good Of this life: with Allah Are profits and spoils abundant.  Even thus were ye yourselves Before, till Allah conferred On you His favours: therefore Carefully investigate.  For Allah is well aware Of all that ye do.   (The Noble Quran, 4:94)"

So "daraba" literally means "beat", or "go abroad", or "give" but not in the sense to give something by hand, but rather to give or provide an example.



Here we come to the 'philosophical' interpretations of the words of the Prophet.

Herein lies the duplicity inherent in Islam. It's all open to interpretation and what you were taught, rather than a literal interpretation and the ability of forming your own opinion.

Christianity runs off minor disagreements - between interpretations about Christ's word and what they mean to society. The basic 10 rules are universal - Thou shalt not .....

And the penalties, suffered by the soul in our case, do not translate to the penalties suffered by our physical forms - as in your case.

Maybe it's just me, but I'd rather suffer the disapproval of my God when it comes to judgement - rather than the judgments of my fellow faithful with their varying interpretations.

When it comes to judgement, surely 'God' has the final word?
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Reply #244 - Jul 23rd, 2013 at 11:18pm
 
Should smacking children be banned in Australia?
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Reply #245 - Jul 23rd, 2013 at 11:23pm
 
True Colours wrote on Jul 23rd, 2013 at 11:18pm:
Should smacking children be banned in Australia?

Yes. But smacking adults should be legal.
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Reply #246 - Jul 23rd, 2013 at 11:52pm
 
freediver wrote on Jul 22nd, 2013 at 12:53pm:
...I would prefer children to fear getting run over than to fear a beating.


Seems fairly obvious that are not a parent or a schoolteacher. If you did you would realise that they are often impetuous and have little sense of the dangers of the world.

Your small child runs across the road without looking. What do you? A person could argue that if you do smack the child then you have been negligent


freediver wrote on Jul 22nd, 2013 at 12:53pm:
You cannot beat common sense into a child, only fear...


If fear of a beating saves a child's life, is it wrong?

Not every child will need it, but a smack at the right time could save a child's life.

I have worked as a schoolteacher, and I have seen many a child in want of discipline. If their parents gave them a smack occasionally it would make the job of teachers much easier, and schools in this country would be able to teach children instead of being paralysed by ill-discipline.

Since corporal punishment has been prohibited in schools, the behaviour of children become worse and worse.


In the UK they have realised that it was a mistake to curb corporal punishment:



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Michael Gove slackens rules on use of physical force in schools


Education secretary seeks to stem 'erosion of adult authority' by recruiting former male soldiers to the classroom



Ministers are scrapping a requirement for teachers to record instances when they use physical force, as part of a wider move to "restore adult authority" in the wake of the riots in England.

The education secretary, Michael Gove, said that he wanted greater numbers of men teaching, particularly in primary schools, so as to provide children with male authority figures who could display "both strength and sensitivity".

In a speech delivered at Durand academy, in Stockwell, south London, Gove said the regulations on the use of force inhibited teachers' judgment.

He said: "So let me be crystal clear, if any parent now hears a school say, 'sorry, we can't physically touch the students', then that school is wrong. Plain wrong. The rules of the game have changed."

Gove said men considering teaching were deterred by a fear of rules that made contact between adults and children "a legal minefield".

The government was planning to start a programme this autumn encouraging former members of the armed forces to take up teaching, specifically to ensure more male role models, Gove said.

In a speech that sought to address the causes of the riots in August, Gove began by making a moral distinction between what he called a "hard-working majority" and a "vicious, lawless, immoral minority". But he went on to examine what he said were the policy failures that lay behind the creation of the "educational underclass".

He said: "To investigate where the looters came from is not to make excuses because of background. It is to shine a light on failures that originated in poor policy, skewed priorities, and the deliberate undermining of legitimate authority."

Gove said he was haunted by the thought that, if circumstances had been different, he might have been a part of this underclass. The education secretary highlighted his own family background. "I was born to a single parent, never knew my biological father and spent my first few months in care.

"Thanks to the love of my adoptive mother and father, and the education I enjoyed, I was given amazing opportunities. So I know just how much the right parenting, the right values at home, and the right sort of school matter in determining a child's fate."

Gove said there had been a slow erosion of adult authority, subverted by a culture in which young people felt able to ignore civilised boundaries. "The only way to reverse this dissolution of legitimate authority is step-by-step to move the ratchet back in favour of teachers."

Gove also spoke of an "iron-clad link" between illiteracy, disruption, truancy, exclusion and crime.

More than 430,000 children were absent for 15% of school time, and more than a million pupils missed 10% of the academic year, he said.

He added that only a third of those students who missed between 10% and 20% of school got the "basic minimum" of five good GCSE passes.

The government is asking Charlie Taylor, a headteacher and Gove's adviser on behaviour, to look at improving "alternative provision" units for children with behavioural problems.

Taylor will be asked to work with Lord Harris of Peckham, who sponsors academies, to speed up the ability of those entities to create provision for excluded and disruptive pupils.

Brian Lightman, general secretary of the Association of School and College Leaders, welcomed Gove's statement concerning the use of force against pupils.

He said: "ASCL is delighted that the secretary of state has responded to our advice with the wise decision not to proceed with these regulations. The requirement would have imposed yet another bureaucratic burden that did nothing to improve discipline or safeguard children.

"The use of physical restraint is thankfully required very rarely in schools. On occasions where it is needed, detailed guidance exists and staff fully understand the need to follow it to the letter. Schools already keep records of breaches of discipline."

http://www.guardian.co.uk/politics/2011/sep/01/michael-gove-physical-force-schools
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Re: wife beating in Islam
Reply #247 - Jul 24th, 2013 at 12:32pm
 
polite_gandalf wrote on Jul 23rd, 2013 at 11:16am:
Lionel Edriess wrote on Jul 22nd, 2013 at 7:54pm:
Check your own kitchen for dirt before you have the temerity to criticise mine.


temerity? Wow thats rich, right after you sarcastically asked if muslim wife beaters were confined to a "tiny minority".

Domestic violence is an epidemic in most of the non-muslim world, mostly because of alcohol - which islam forbids incidentally. Of course I wouldn't stoop to your level and imply that it occurs in a majority of marriages - but there is little doubt that it is at least as big a problem - if not worse - than in the islamic world.

freediver wrote on Jul 22nd, 2013 at 8:19pm:
How do you explain all the "good quality" sources (or whatever it is you call it) that specifically permit and endorse wife beating? Is the story about Muhammed forbidding wife beating, then changing his mind when the women got all upitty a fake?


Refutation of 'daraba' = beat:

http://www.islamawareness.net/Wife/beating1.html

http://imedaindia.ning.com/profiles/blogs/verse-4-34-the-meaning-of-the-word-dar...

freediver wrote on Jul 22nd, 2013 at 8:19pm:
The stats appear to show that the reality of wife beating reflects that.


Oh really FD?? Which stats?


Gandalf those links seem to have trouble with getting to the point. Given the difficulty the authors obviously have with the English language and making a point in general, you can't expect people to take that more seriously than all the authoritative sources from within Islam that say Islam permits wife beating.

Are you suggesting that Muslims have mistranslated the word for a millenia? How do you make sense of the story of Muhammed forbidding wife beating, then changing his mind when the women got all upitty? What else do you think Muhammed attempted to forbid? How do you make sense of the specific descriptions of wife beating, such as Muhammed's favourite wife describing the physical pain he caused her, or Muhammed's mates slapping her on the neck for being to annoying and everyone having a good laugh?
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Reply #248 - Jul 24th, 2013 at 1:21pm
 
freediver wrote on Jul 24th, 2013 at 12:32pm:
you can't expect people to take that more seriously than all the authoritative sources from within Islam that say Islam permits wife beating.


That interpretation is more widespread than you might think.

From wikipedia, if you prefer:

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The word iḍribūhunna comes from the root ḍaraba (Arabic: ضرب). The word has been used many times in the Quran to mean: to hit, to travel the earth, to set up, to condemn and to give examples. Thus scholars interpret iḍribūhunna differently. Whereas many interpret it to mean "to strike", others hold that the term means "to separate".[34] Such an action is to be administered only if neither the husband nor the wife are willing to divorce.[39] In the context of this verse, iḍribūhunna has also been interpreted to mean "go to bed with them",[40] the Arabic root word "daraba" being taken from the prosaic example "the stud-camel covered the she-camel".[41]


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The 2007 translation The Sublime Quran by Laleh Bakhtiar translates iḍribūhunna not as 'beat them' but as 'go away from them'. The introduction to her translation discusses the linguistic and shari‘ah reasons in Arabic for understanding this verb in context. The Prophet never beat his wives, and his example from the Sunnah informs the interpretation of this verse. This interpretation is supported by the fact that some other verses, such as 4:101 which contains word darabtum (derivation from daraba), demonstrate also the interpretation of Arabic word daraba to have meaning 'going' or 'moving'.[54]

The world-renowned and well-respected Islamic scholar Shaykh-ul-Islam Dr. Tahir-ul-Qadri has given the same translation in his translation of the Quran "Irfan-ul-Quran" ("(...)and (if they still do not improve) turn away from them, striking a temporary parting.(...)").[17]

This translation is further supported by the fact that the word "darabtum" is used in the same Surah (4:94), which means to "go abroad" in the sake of Allah and which is derived from the same root word ("daraba") as "idribuhunna" in 4:34.[55]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/An-Nisa,_34#Admonishing_and_separation_in_bed

Clearly there is a significant body of Islamic opinion that disputes the "conventional" view of 4:34.

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Reply #249 - Jul 25th, 2013 at 9:30pm
 
I am having trouble understanding why there would be any confusion as to the real meaning. Arabic is not a dead language. It has been in constant use by Muslims since Muhammed's time. The meaning of the word in that particular passage would have been passed down over generations, as well as the passage itself. How can it be an issue of translation, when you could just ask Arab Muslims what it means? Was there some period in history where Muslims never enquired about the legality of wife beating so the real meaning was lost?

It also makes no sense at all in the context - ie the examples I have mentioned in the last few posts.

It sounds to me like an example of Muslims hearing only what they want to hear, and knowing only what they heard.
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Reply #250 - Jul 25th, 2013 at 10:06pm
 
The fact is that Islam is the only religion that ever banned or put restrictions on hitting a wife.
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Reply #251 - Jul 25th, 2013 at 10:16pm
 
True Colours wrote on Jul 25th, 2013 at 10:06pm:
The fact is that Islam is the only religion that ever banned or put restrictions on hitting a wife.



Sounds very similar to that quirk [and the reason] that in the Inuit language there are something like 24 words that describe snow.

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Reply #252 - Jul 25th, 2013 at 10:37pm
 
freediver wrote on Jul 25th, 2013 at 9:30pm:
I am having trouble understanding why there would be any confusion as to the real meaning.


I have no idea why you wouldn't be able to understand this. The source I quoted just said that there are at least 3 different meanings of daraba that are used in the quran. One of these is something similar to "go away" or "separate". This interpretation makes perfect sense when talking about how to deal with marital problems.
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Reply #253 - Jul 26th, 2013 at 8:27am
 
True Colours wrote on Jul 25th, 2013 at 10:06pm:
The fact is that Islam is the only religion that ever banned or put restrictions on hitting a wife.


For how long? Two days? And ever since then it has been a barrier to preventing domestic violence. Islam is in fact the only religion that specifically sanctions wife beating. Muhammed is the only religious leader to have demonstrated wife beating first hand to his followers.

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freediver wrote on Jul 25th, 2013 at 9:30pm:
I am having trouble understanding why there would be any confusion as to the real meaning.


I have no idea why you wouldn't be able to understand this. The source I quoted just said that there are at least 3 different meanings of daraba that are used in the quran. One of these is something similar to "go away" or "separate". This interpretation makes perfect sense when talking about how to deal with marital problems.


I just explained to you why it makes no sense Gandalf. Your only argument in favour of an alternative translation is that it is "linguistically possible" and that it is what you want it to say about wife beating. But is that what Islam is really about - hearing only what you want to hear? On the other hand, the arguments against the alternative translation are that it makes no sense at all, either in the context of what is written or in the historical context of how the meaning was passed on. I have raised these points about half a dozen times so far and you have steadfastly ignored them. Do you not understand what I am asking?

Are you suggesting that Muslims have mistranslated the word for a millenia? How do you make sense of the story of Muhammed forbidding wife beating, then changing his mind when the women got all upitty? What else do you think Muhammed attempted to forbid? How do you make sense of the specific descriptions of wife beating, such as Muhammed's favourite wife describing the physical pain he caused her, or Muhammed's mates slapping her on the neck for being to annoying and everyone having a good laugh?
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Reply #254 - Jul 26th, 2013 at 8:50am
 
freediver wrote on Jul 26th, 2013 at 8:27am:
I just explained to you why it makes no sense Gandalf. Your only argument in favour of an alternative translation is that it is "linguistically possible"


FD, you spent a whole paragraph pointing out the unlikelihood that linguistically anyone could be confused about interpreting the arabic language ("I am having trouble understanding why there would be any confusion as to the real meaning"). Your argument was linguistic - thus I gave you a linguistic response.

freediver wrote on Jul 26th, 2013 at 8:27am:
On the other hand, the arguments against the alternative translation are that it makes no sense at all, either in the context of what is written or in the historical context of how the meaning was passed on.

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There you go again. I just finished explaining that the alternative translation makes perfect sense. Explain to me, if you can, how "separate/remove yourself (from your wife temporarily)" doesn't make sense in the context of trying to resolve a marriage conflict?

freediver wrote on Jul 26th, 2013 at 8:27am:
Are you suggesting that Muslims have mistranslated the word for a millenia?


Have they? I just gave you a significant body of opinion that diverges from what you assume is the "orthodox" view. The wiki page makes it very clear that there is little consensus amongst scholars about what it means.I accept that many muslims take it at face value - not because they are sadistic wife haters, but because in the context of the verse, it is definitely not  giving carte blanche for wife beating - only after 3 separate steps had been performed. Most muslims who believe it in a literal sense would rightfully see such a circumstance in which it was allowed, so remote if not impossible, that it is almost irrelevant.
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