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Question: SHould wife-smacking be allowed

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Re: wife beating in Islam
Reply #270 - Jul 29th, 2013 at 10:22pm
 
Baronvonrort wrote on Jul 29th, 2013 at 9:26pm:
True Colours wrote on Jul 28th, 2013 at 10:37pm:
The prophet issued a civil decree banning any physical discipline of wives at all. That is probably a first in world history. It was not a matter of religion, but rather from the prophet's own personal preference on how people should behave. The prophet was overruled by God Almighty,




So your god allows wife beating in this verse?

www.quran.com/4/34



This is my favourite verse-

www.quran.com/4/82





"Then do they not reflect upon the Qur'an? If it had been from [any] other than Allah , they would have found within it much contradiction."
www.quran.com/4/82




A YT outlining many contradictions in the Koran and Hadith.....

! ! ! Shocking ! ! ! Hidden PROOF that the QURAN is man made
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZhoAwQoddFM

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Re: wife beating in Islam
Reply #271 - Jul 29th, 2013 at 11:21pm
 
freediver wrote on Jul 29th, 2013 at 12:26pm:
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You are quite a dishonest fellow Freediver. I have checked the hadeeth in Saheeh Muslim. It literally says that the prophet's two father-in-laws - not his 'mates' - both poked their own daughters in the back of the neck. The term slapped is not actually used.


Another mistranslation?

Jibreel wrote on Oct 13th, 2010 at 6:45pm:
How about this one where Abu Bakr informs Muhammad he slapped Khadijah’s daughter, and he responds by laughing and allows the mother of believers to be hit by the companions?

[quote]Jabir b. 'Abdullah (Allah be pleased with them) reported: Abu Bakr (Allah be pleased with him) came and sought permission to see Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him). He found people sitting at his door and none amongst them had been granted permission, but it was granted to Abu Bakr and he went in. Then came 'Umar and he sought permission and it was granted to him, and he found Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) sitting sad and silent with his wives around him. He (Hadrat 'Umar) said: I would say something which would make the Holy Prophet (may peace be upon him) laugh, so he said: Messenger of Allah, I wish you had seen (the treatment meted out to) the daughter ofKhadija when you asked me some money, and I got up and slapped her on her neck. Allah's Messenger (mav peace be upon him) laughed and said: They are around me as you see, asking for extra money. Abu Bakr (Allah be pleased with him) then got up went to 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) and slapped her on the neck, and 'Umar stood up before Hafsa and slapped her saying: You ask Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) which he does not possess. They said: By Allah, we do not ask Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) for anything he does not possess. Then he withdrew from them for a month or for twenty-nine days. Then this verse was revealed to him:" Prophet: Say to thy wives... for a mighty reward" (xxxiii. 28). He then went first to 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) and said: I want to propound something to you, 'A'isha, but wish no hasty reply before you consult your parents. She said: Messenger of Allah, what is that? He (the Holy Prophet) recited to her the verse, whereupon she said: Is it about you that I should consult my parents, Messenger of Allah? Nay, I choose Allah, His Messenger, and the Last Abode; but I ask you not to tell any of your wives what I have said He replied: Not one of them will ask me without my informing her. God did not send me to be harsh, or cause harm, but He has sent me to teach and make things easy. (Sahih Muslim Book 009, Number 3506)


http://www.usc.edu/schools/college/crcc/engagement/resources/texts/muslim/hadith/muslim/009.smt.html#009.3506

And of course, I'm "full of it" and sahih narrations must be false when you don't like what they tell us.


The narration may be sahih/authentic. Doesn't mean the translation is.


freediver wrote on Jul 29th, 2013 at 12:26pm:
Perhaps you have the wrong book. Would you mind providing the "alternative" translation?


I would attach a scan from p.146 vol 3 from Saheeh Muslim - translated by the most famous Saudi English language publisher Darussalam, however, Ozpolitics is not letting me upload it.

freediver wrote on Jul 29th, 2013 at 12:26pm:
.... she left the house without your  permission

It has nothing to do with leaving the house with or without permission. THe Prophet's wives were free to come and go as they pleased.

As we can see from the hadeeth the Prophet was worried that an intruder had crept into his house in the middle of the night. Imagine how frightening it would be to see a dark figure go into your house in the dead of night.

The word used in the hadeeth is 'lahadanee' which does not connotate violence in the Arabic language.

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freediver wrote on Jul 29th, 2013 at 12:26pm:
his six year old wife


She was not six years old. When she was six, she did not live with the prophet. In fact she had not yet migrated to Madina, nor did the Muslim graveyard mentioned in the hadeeth even exist when she was six.

The hadeeth mentions the Invasion of the Confederates in Madina in 627 as already having occurred. This makes her at least 15. Some scholars believe she may have even been older - around 25.
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Re: wife beating in Islam
Reply #272 - Jul 29th, 2013 at 11:58pm
 
Yadda wrote on Jul 29th, 2013 at 10:22pm:
A YT outlining many contradictions in the Koran and Hadith.....

! ! ! Shocking ! ! ! Hidden PROOF that the QURAN is man made
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZhoAwQoddFM




This video does not expose contradictions.

Take the first claim about the number of days for Creation.

6 days to finish Creation of the Earth.

2 days to create the Earth as just an unihabitable rock
+ anoher two days to terraform it (put mountains, seas, vegetation, etc.) = total of 4 days to finish off the Earth as habitable
2  days in creating the Heavens

= Grand total of 6 days



Let's look at the second so-called contradiction. It is not really a contradiction at all. The verses are talking about two different things. One verse is talking about how time is with God. The second talks about the distance between the Earth and God - although the video makes the mistake of putting 50,000 days, when the Quran actually says 50,000 years. Human beings have copied God in using years to measure vast distances. For example, the nearest star to Earth is thought to be 4 light years from Earth.



Third so-called contradiction is not a contradiction either. THe first verse is talking about people who die whilst worshipping other gods - they will not be forgiven. The second verse talks about the Israelites who worshipped other Gods, but then repented - they did not die whilst worshipping other gods, so were forgiven. It is a basic principle of Islam that anyone can be forgiven as long as they do not die whilst worshipping other gods.


..and so on, and so forth. None of which are real contradictions...unlike what we find in the Bible:



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Re: wife beating in Islam
Reply #273 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 9:33am
 
freediver wrote on Jul 29th, 2013 at 6:24pm:


There is no need to invent some kind of conspiracy to explain what is going on here Gandalf.


Err inventing? You mean like claiming Muhammad beat up a 6 year old? Like equating "pushing" to "beating"?

Excuse me if I find this lecture a bit rich right after you used this episode with Aisha as the sole proof that Muhammad beat up his wives.

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Reply #274 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 12:36pm
 
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The narration may be sahih/authentic. Doesn't mean the translation is.


Well is it?

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I would attach a scan from p.146 vol 3 from Saheeh Muslim - translated by the most famous Saudi English language publisher Darussalam, however, Ozpolitics is not letting me upload it.


You could always google it. I doubt you are the first to discuss it on the internet. Then other people could quote it too.

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It has nothing to do with leaving the house with or without permission.


Another mistranslation perhaps?

Muslim (4:2127) - Muhammad struck his favorite wife, Aisha, in the chest one evening when she left the house without his permission.  Aisha narrates, "He struck me on the chest which caused me pain."


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I doubt that woman is going to later suggest that the man struck her in the chest, causing her pain. You even attempted to describe it as Muhammed assaulting a home invader. You can't have it both ways. He did not have a friendly joke with someone he though was out to kill him. It makes it sound like you are making up excuses as you go with no regard for fact.

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She was not six years old. When she was six, she did not live with the prophet. In fact she had not yet migrated to Madina


So she lied about Marrying Muhammed when she was six? She lied about him striking her? She lied about the physical pain he caused her? She lied about the whole permission to leave the house thing? And all this from his "favourite" child bride?

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Err inventing? You mean like claiming Muhammad beat up a 6 year old? Like equating "pushing" to "beating"?


Here you go Gandalf:

Muslim (4:2127) - Muhammad struck his favorite wife, Aisha, in the chest one evening when she left the house without his permission.  Aisha narrates, "He struck me on the chest which caused me pain."

Does that sound like the leader of mankind to you? Or some bogan wife beater control freak?

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Excuse me if I find this lecture a bit rich right after you used this episode with Aisha as the sole proof that Muhammad beat up his wives.


Like I just said (and you conveniently left out fo your quote), I have given several examples to back up my case, as well as pointing out that your explanation fails the common sense test. You also admitted that the orthodox position backs up my case - were all those Muslims wrong? The only evidence you have given in favour of your "alternative" translation is that it is possible.

Is this what you are reduced to? Making the same accusation against me, then leaving out the direct response I post to your accusation so you can make the exact same accusation again? Have you abandoned all pretext of honesty?
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Re: wife beating in Islam
Reply #275 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 1:52pm
 
freediver wrote on Jul 30th, 2013 at 12:36pm:
Here you go Gandalf:

Muslim (4:2127) - Muhammad struck his favorite wife, Aisha, in the chest one evening when she left the house without his permission.  Aisha narrates, "He struck me on the chest which caused me pain."

Does that sound like the leader of mankind to you? Or some bogan wife beater control freak?


The word is 'lahada' which means "push" not "strike". Puts a slightly different spin on it wouldn't you say?

The thing is FD, if it was some bogan wife beater control freak being described, I would expect to see narrations like:

he stormed into the room, breath reeking with alcohol, grabbed me by the hair and smacked me around the face, then concluded with a haymaker to the gut. I then got on my knees and thanked God that he treated me so well that night.

And then I would expect to see the same sort of account repeated over and over and over again - so as to suggest a pattern of behaviour. A single incident in which his wife was "pushed" by a husband who was in a state of panic over her wellbeing and safety, does not even remotely reflect such a pattern of behaviour.

Funny how this same apparently abused woman stated on another occasion:

"Allaah's Messenger (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam) never hit anything with his hand ever, except when fighting in the path of Allaah. Nor did he ever hit a servant or a woman."

Common sense indicates that there is a clear distinction being made between the aggressive "hit" and non-aggressive "push".
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Reply #276 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 6:40pm
 
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The word is 'lahada' which means "push" not "strike". Puts a slightly different spin on it wouldn't you say?


No

He pushed his wife in the chest, causing her pain, because she left the house without his permission.
He struck his wife in the chest, causing her pain, because she left the house without his permission.

What difference do you see? Kind gentleman vs bogan wife beater control freak?

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And then I would expect to see the same sort of account repeated over and over and over again - so as to suggest a pattern of behaviour.


Like all the other references to wife beating?

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Funny how this same apparently abused woman stated on another occasion:


Yes, that appears to contradict the claim about no contradictions. Does it use the same arabic word for hit?

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Common sense indicates that there is a clear distinction being made between the aggressive "hit" and non-aggressive "push".


Are you a lawyer by any chance?

Common sense indicates that he hurt his wife. Physically. Because she left the house without his permission. Bogan wife beater control freak.
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Reply #277 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 7:00pm
 

freediver wrote on Jul 30th, 2013 at 6:40pm:
Like all the other references to wife beating?


Oh do tell FD. Tell me *ALL* the references to Muhammad the wife beater. This should be good.
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Reply #278 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 7:07pm
 
Here are some I prepared earlier:

http://www.ozpolitic.com/forum/YaBB.pl?num=1287305391/195

I have been listing them for you on a regular basis in this thread ever since. I think the closest you came to addressing them was to say that you had not read those particular hadiths.
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Reply #279 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 7:30pm
 
Try again FD. This time, see if you can find references to Muhammad the wife beater
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Reply #280 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 8:37pm
 
Do you want me to find references in the Koran to Mo being a bogan as well? How about a rapist, womaniser, thief, pedophile and warmonger? How clearly does it need to be spelled out for you?
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Reply #281 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 8:45pm
 
freediver wrote on Jul 30th, 2013 at 12:36pm:
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I would attach a scan from p.146 vol 3 from Saheeh Muslim - translated by the most famous Saudi English language publisher Darussalam, however, Ozpolitics is not letting me upload it.


You could always google it. I doubt you are the first to discuss it on the internet. Then other people could quote it too.


Why should I waste time trying to google something that may not be on the web when I have the book right here in front of me?

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It has nothing to do with leaving the house with or without permission.


Another mistranslation perhaps?

Read the whole hadeeth it doesn't mention permission. It only says that prophet shoved his wife after he had mistaken her for an intruder in the dead of night.


freediver wrote on Jul 30th, 2013 at 12:36pm:


That is not what I said at all. He was telling her off for sneaking around at night. People have been killed in similar circumstances. I have seen quite a few cases of people killing family members that they have mistaken for intruders.



freediver wrote on Jul 30th, 2013 at 12:36pm:
[quote]She was not six years old. When she was six, she did not live with the prophet. In fact she had not yet migrated to Madina


So she lied about Marrying Muhammed when she was six?

In many cultures, getting married does mean cohabitation. Marriage is seen as a contract which can be fulfilled at a later date.

At any rate, Aisha could not possibly have been six at the time , because the events described in the hadeeth did not occur until many years later. She didn't even live in Madina when she was six. The verse in the Quran mentioned in the hadeeth was not revealed yet when she was six. The graveyard mention in the hadeeth did not yet exist when she was six.





freediver wrote on Jul 30th, 2013 at 12:36pm:
She lied about him striking her?

The word 'strike' is not mentioned in the original Arabic wording of the hadeeth.


freediver wrote on Jul 30th, 2013 at 12:36pm:
She lied about the whole permission to leave the house thing?

Permission to leave the house is not mentioned in the hadeeth.

freediver wrote on Jul 30th, 2013 at 12:36pm:
And all this from his "favourite" child bride?

As I have said previously, Aisha would have had to have been at least 15 at the time - and 15 was considered adult by all contemporary standards.

The prophet's 'favourite' wife was Khadija - she was 15 years his senior. She passed away at about 62 years of age when the pagans starved the Muslims during the blockades in Mecca. At that time she was the prophet's only wife and he was about 47.


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Narrated Aisha: "I did not feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet as much as I did of Khadija though I did not see her, but the Prophet used to mention her very often, and when ever he slaughtered a sheep, he would cut its parts and send them to the women friends of Khadija. When I sometimes said to him, "(You treat Khadija in such a way) as if there is no woman on earth except Khadija," he would say, "Khadija was such-and-such, and from her I had children."
[Bukhari]


Of the 11 women that the prophet married in his lifetime, Aisha was the only virgin, the rest were widows or divorcees.



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Reply #282 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 9:14pm
 
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Why should I waste time trying to google something that may not be on the web when I have the book right here in front of me?


Because it is easier than typing it out again. You aren't just doing this to convince yourself are you?

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Read the whole hadeeth it doesn't mention permission.


Except of course for this bit:

Muslim (4:2127) - Muhammad struck his favorite wife, Aisha, in the chest one evening when she left the house without his permission.  Aisha narrates, "He struck me on the chest which caused me pain."

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It only says that prophet shoved his wife after he had mistaken her for an intruder in the dead of night.


No TC. This is what it says:

Muslim (4:2127) - Muhammad struck his favorite wife, Aisha, in the chest one evening when she left the house without his permission.  Aisha narrates, "He struck me on the chest which caused me pain."

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In many cultures, getting married does mean cohabitation.


Ah. Another mistranslation. It should have said betrothed?

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Marriage is seen as a contract which can be fulfilled at a later date.


Like selling a camel? Or a goat?

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The word 'strike' is not mentioned in the original Arabic wording of the hadeeth.


Are you suggesting that the original hadith is not in English?

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As I have said previously, Aisha would have had to have been at least 15 at the time - and 15 was considered adult by all contemporary standards.


At the time of the beating? Or the time of her marriage? Or betrothal?

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The prophet's 'favourite' wife was Khadija - she was 15 years his senior.


Everything I have seen says Aisha was his favourite wife.

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Of the 11 women that the prophet married in his lifetime, Aisha was the only virgin, the rest were widows or divorcees.


Perhaps that is what they meant by favourite. Another mistranslation perhaps? Virgin and favourite are the same word in Arabic? After all, it is God's language, no?

Can you explain why Muslims kept such a detailed record of which of Mo's wives were virgins, but not of whether he permitted wife beating? (ignoring of course all the times he permitted wife beating)
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Reply #283 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 9:35pm
 
freediver wrote on Jul 30th, 2013 at 8:37pm:
Do you want me to find references in the Koran to Mo being a bogan as well? How about a rapist, womaniser, thief, pedophile and warmonger? How clearly does it need to be spelled out for you?


just as I thought - the entire case against Muhammad himself, physically beating up his own wives - built on a single anecdote where he didn't even do any beating.

You mob are a complete joke.
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Reply #284 - Jul 30th, 2013 at 10:02pm
 
Muslim (4:2127) - Muhammad struck his favorite wife, Aisha, in the chest one evening when she left the house without his permission.  Aisha narrates, "He struck me on the chest which caused me pain."
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