frenchyjen70 wrote on Jan 12
th, 2011 at 6:31am:
I laughed at her ridiclous excuse.
Does Duthie think that if you get an email then the contents that you receive do not belong to you?
I am sad and sorry that no one see this as a very damaging Melo.drama of the worst kind..over the weeks I have had a lot of sympathy for this girl/woman. I thought she had been treated abominably by a big bullying club.I didnt like for one minute the things they said and other on here said..I did in fact report one of the vilest on here. and havent had the pleasure of seeing that person since..
However I, for this girl am now in damage mode. the way she is going isnt the right way it will do her no favours..
just for a begining..
she announced on twitter she would be at the training field..ho hum
she mentioned where she was staying]hotel] on another forum.
she goes on Nova. according to someone a recognised bully station....she would have known exactly what to expect....sorry!
this lass is very very smart.. too smart I am thinking for her own good..
thanks to mellie I am getting all sorts of access to her web pages I would never ever search for..and I am seeing a very different lass I am afraid..
NO before anyone gets on their high horse I am not defending the clubs and I dont for one moment believe they shouldnt pay for their part in all this..
but now its turned into something else she is enjoying the attention she is even going out of her way to see that she gets the attention.. and the media as we can see is falling for it..
we on here.. those of us who only read the written words..
can only guess at what her little game is now..as thats what I see her doing, playing a game..
she gets put in a hotel..[whos paying for that?]for her own protection..[ can we guess from the media].. and then she announces her address on twitter of all things...then says she is asked to leave... AGAIN.. poor me??????.
she didnt sound in the least preturbed to me..
I can make heaps of excuses for this behaviour.. but its the same thing over and over...its a pattern
I have been through this type of behaviour. where they keep making the same mistakes because they know someone will pick them up..
we. us, who make those excuses enable these children to keep on misbehaving..
in my case it went on till she was 25 and now a single mother...my main dread now is she will get pregnant again..
I unwittingly enabled her to behave badly for years.. because I was her safety net no matter how bad she was....
and this lass I can see her following in these footsteps..except her life is being played out in the media at her own instructions..
she thinks shes tough she can handle anything....oh dear dont we all at 17.
I am over seeing what her life might have been....she played a part in the way its played out now.. I just think if she ever wants to turn it around for the better she had better change the way its going NOW... thats all