codswal wrote on Jan 15
th, 2011 at 6:10pm:
gizmo_2655 wrote on Jan 15
th, 2011 at 4:49pm:
[quote author link=1293055724/2220#2227 date=1295073530]I still dont understand how they prove who the father was?????????.
besides that this looks as if commonsense has popped in and someone is acting like an adult..hurray for that.. of course this club could have handled it better.. but at least it looks like they are on the right road to avoid this sort of happening again...
does this still look like this lass will get money????.it seems to me character assassination is out thats for sure.
I wish her luck and I am sure the club can afford any councelling thats involved... but you can lead a horse to water.. but you cant make it drink! as the old saying goes.
They can't 'prove' paternity now...unless the coroner had the chance to do a DNA test on the fetuses after the miscarriage....which I don't think happened..
Not that it matters all that much...except for the 'record'.....there's still no requirement for child support or any 'financial' payments..
gizmo you are missing the point...two young men are involved to my knowledge neither has denied that fact.. one of them is innocent of fathering her twins... how can that be proven?.do they have to take her word for it??.. the policman is out on that score.
I am just thinking about the claims she can make that would warrant a payout to her..
the club handled this terrible I dont think there is much doubt on that score.
but these two young men who havent done anything wrong by LAW..we know.. should have to face some penalty and the one that was the father. [I know]..should payout more... otherwise the whole team are getting dragged through the mud.. and that doesnt seem right either. [/quote]
No I didn't 'miss' your point..Of the two guys, neither has 'actually' been identified as the father.., so WHY should either of them have to pay child support for children that do NOT, in fact. exist????
Had the child, or children, been born, that would be a whole other story...but since she didn't carry the pregnancy to term...the point is moot..
And the policeman DID in fact use his 'position of Authority' to extract sexual favours...which IS a crime..
And IF these "two young men who havent done anything wrong by LAW", then WHY should they be punished???