Equitist wrote on Nov 18
th, 2011 at 6:09pm:
It sounds to me, Cods, as though the family you describe has a predisposition to ADD/ADHD - though the older generations would have gone undiagnosed and untreated...
If the 15 year old you mentioned has not been properly medicated and counseled, then there's every chance that he'll start self-medicating soon...
BTW, smoking cigarettes is a common pre-cursor to smoking pot...
well there goes your self appointed diagnosis.. wrong on every point..
my grandson is fantastic thank you..he now has a job after school.. and we couldnt be prouder...what I was talking about to gik... was how easy it would be for someone like him to fall by the wayside..
gik says it aint as bad as what everyone claims it is..
the older generation!! how do you know what caused their addictions?.. I am saying it is part of my grandsons genes..for all I know alcoholism may be even further back.. I dont ask.
but by todays standards they could all be heroin addicts instead of alcoholics...I am not sure which is worse to be honest..sitting there slurping down grog.. or shooting up..or sniffing
yes I can guarantee most pot smokers smoked cigarettes .. lets face it.. they say one cigarette and you are gone.. and cigarettes being very handy to get hold of...why wouldnt they??
the young man in jail.. my grandsons cousin is 31 I have a soft spot for this guy .. his dad left the family when he was 7 and he kind of went wild.. but anyway he cleaned himself up.. just unbelievable got a job got a car..then he fell in with the same crowd once again... and bang he is now serving time..hold up with a knife..the sad thing is we now think he is brain damaged...he is over weight before he was like annorexic.. they are doing nothing for him in prison..the place is riddled with drugs although he tells his mum he isnt going there..she visits twice a week..you can only go if immediate family. I cant tell you how distressing the whole thing is.. he will come out in a year and be sent b ack to where all the creeps are still.. I dont believe he will ever work and his poor mum works two jobs..and faces him coming home to live with her.. because where else can he go.
you have to live with the ripple affect to really understand the harm.
and to legalise something as dangerous as this isnt my idea of fixing a problem..one thing does lead to another.... not for everyone but an awful lot.and that should be enough