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COME January, thousands of teenage mothers will have to do finish Year 12, go to TAFE or lose their welfare payments.
Young mums in NSW suburbs Bankstown, Wyong and Shellharbour will be among the first in Australia forced to take part in a federal government trial of 10 disadvantaged areas that will strip them of their benefits if they don't finish Year 12.
About 11,000 teenage parents receive a parenting payment worth up to $641 a fortnight and 90 per cent of them have not completed Year 12.
Under the government's welfare crackdown, teenage parents will be required to attend six-monthly interviews with Centrelink once their baby is six months old and, on the child's first birthday, will have to have a plan for completion of school.
Tessa Cave was in Year 11 when she learned she was pregnant to a fellow student.
He wanted nothing to do with the pregnancy and when the ridicule became too much, Ms Cave quit school.
Now she receives a parenting payment but because she lives in another suburb, Lane Cove, with her mother, will escape the government's trial, passed in parliament last week.
Son Zavier is almost two, but although the 19-year-old never went back to school, she is studying nursing at TAFE.
"Abortion and adoption were never options for me," Ms Cave said.
"My mum had a hereditary condition where she wasn't actually able to have children, but I was a miracle child. And I don't think I would have been able to cope with knowing that someone else had my baby."
After giving birth, Tessa Cave suffered from post-natal depression and her younger brother copped flak from his mates, which only added to her distress. "He burst into tears one night, saying it wasn't his decision to have a baby but he was being punished for it," she said.
While Ms Cave loves being a mum, she said her life has changed in "a million ways" she never expected and urged young girls to wait to start a family.
"I wish sometimes I could just be a young girl and not a young mum,'' she said.
Last week, Ms Cave graduated from Raise Foundation's Bump, a not-for-profit mentoring program for young often teenage mothers.
"I wish I could go out and party with my friends and not have to worry about waking up at 6am with my baby,'' she said. "I lost friends because I was pregnant. I lost friends after I gave birth, I can't just spend the time... Don't have a baby. Go out and live your life, get a job, have a career, find someone you really love, spend your life having fun and settle down with someone you really want to be with and then, only then, start a family.''
Raise Foundation founder and director Vicki Condon said the government's trial will only succeed if funding is granted to not-for-profit organisations like hers to help young parents find work or enrol in study.
The program will begin next year in 10 locations across Australia including Bankstown, Wyong and Shellharbour for 4000 teen parents aged under 19 with a youngest child less than six years old.
"We totally agree with the need for young mums to get back to work, but the girls need a lot of help to do that,'' Ms Condon said.
Read more: http://www.news.com.au/top-stories/teen-mothers-told-take-your-hsc-go-to-tafe-or-lose-your-welfare-payment/story-e6frfkp9-1226207358219#ixzz1ewFaOiWv
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