longweekend58 wrote on Feb 12
th, 2013 at 10:49am:
what I said is that she is - like - you - paying for her past mistakes in not buying her own home. When Im her age I will own my own home and probably downsize and take $300,000 in cash as the difference. I will live rent-free while she has to pay continually and has nothing. it has been just a lifetime of bad financial decision-making.
Past mistakes... past mistakes... "shoulda coulda woulda"... blah blah blah...
Firstly, I do not have the time or inclination to explain my life story to you or anyone else.
With that said... OK, Mr. Big Financial Advisor (lol)... let's have it... what advice do you have for me about being able to afford to buy my own home
RIGHT NOW. Not decades ago but
RIGHT NOW.
1. I'm 55 years of age with no other family here except my 83 year old aunt.
2. If I had a full time job with my present qualifications I would probably earn no more than $40,000-$45,000 per annum. Is that enough to get a home loan? Nah... didn't think so.
Mind you, I'm still laughing about what happened after I finished my last full time job at the end of 2006 (the place closed). I went to the bank to see them about something and while I was there I started discussing houses and house prices and the bank lady (who I'd only told 5 minutes earlier that I was out of work) said "Do you need a home loan? We can arrange one for you".
3. I have about $20,000 in savings and about $30,000 in superannuation so far.
4. I am taking care of my abovementioned elderly aunt and she has
NO INTENTIONS of
EVER moving house again. We've moved twice since 2005.
I'm starting to think that all this wonderful financial advice (lol) you've been giving people here over the years has mainly consisted of telling them what they should have done years ago and the mistakes that
you think they've made.
While you're pondering all that I'll just keep working on that time machine...