Torpedo wrote on Apr 24
th, 2013 at 9:15pm:
And you decided to keep your kids in Public (either because you don't have the problems with location, or either because you preferred to save money rather than spending it on kids education, or whether you just can't afford an extra dollar for private education), but still get the 30% taxpayer's support?
It's not me. I don't have kids yet.
I'm looking back at my parents' approach to my education.
Torpedo wrote on Apr 24
th, 2013 at 9:50pm:
Again, not a single parent I personally know, who send their kids to non-public schools is rich, all take loans to pay for education. Why? because they want their kids to have future... omG
It's a tough financial road to go through and I just don't think it's the only way to give your kids a good education. The alternative is a kind of "intensive home-schooling" outside of school hours, where you do your own teaching. I am sure there are educational shops out there that sell books with exercises in them to teach you maths and literacy. .............. Well, that was around 18 years ago, it's software, not books now.
.................. Get your kids to stop watching those cartoons. Make them spend hours reading and doing maths problems. It doesn't matter if they get sleepy. You don't allow them to do anything else until the work is done. Who knows? They might be faking it. That's what my parents did. I hated it, but that was my education. My parents forced me to learn.
I think the shop where they bought the exercise books was Dominie and apparently it's still in business.
https://www.dominie.com.au/If the kids become resistant, you might offer lollies or pocket money as motivation, but not too much. My parents only paid me two dollars for five hours of doing maths problems, reading and studying phonics/phonetics (or whatever it was) at home. It was like working in a sweat-shop. You could also get the older kids to teach the younger kids so you don't have to deal with them all at once. Also, don't forget to work on your kids' handwriting. Sloppy and messy handwriting is not acceptable.
When they become teenagers, don't allow them to have boyfriends or girlfriends. No sex or dating. Keep their social life at a minimum. No partying. This is the price you have to pay for success and if it's not financially crippling debt (from private education), it's their social life that has to suffer. Teach your kids not to follow bad examples from bad friends. My dad would constantly remind me of what he considered "low class people," despite the fact that we weren't rich. You have to enforce your standards on your kids. Life may become dull, boring or not worth living, but you have to focus on the goal. That's the reward at the end.
If you're not going to send them to private schools, you have to become your kids' worst enemy. They will hate you for it, but it will be for their own good. You have to be like Sarah Connor. My mother reminded me of her.