Sparky wrote on Mar 15
th, 2014 at 2:59pm:
Karnal wrote on Mar 15
th, 2014 at 2:52pm:
freediver wrote on Mar 15
th, 2014 at 2:15pm:
Quote:There is a "disproportion" of 38 cases out of a total population of nearly 500 thousands. Call it a hunch.
So you used the term "statistically insignificant" while having no clue at all what it actually means?
Quote:You’re saying a total of 38 defacto marriages
Again Karnal, 38 is not the total.
Quote:I’m wondering - wondering - if underage marriages turn up in legal underage marriage-with-parental-consent numbers.
So am I - just as they turn up in the census data. I am just wondering why you are seeking more evidence of the same type that you disregard..
I’m seeking any evidence at all. So far, you’ve presented none.
If you didn’t already know, underage defacto relationships are completely different to child marriages. There is no commitment in a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship, particularly at 15 - 16.
Marriages between 16 to 18 with parental consent are a totally different category. And again, if there is an explosion of underage marriages in Australia, wouldn’t this be reflected in the category of legal marriages with parental consent?
If the Muselman is selling his daughter overseas for marriage in Australia, wouldn’t this show in the legal (16 - 18) marriage category also?
I’m not asking for an affirmative, I’m merely describing the criteria we’re discussing.
Again, underage marriage is illegal in Australia, so you will find no registered marriages under 16.
You also won’t find any immigrants coming in on the back of an underage bride, as it’s illegal.
You are, as always, placing too much emphasis on the actions of a 1400 year old prophet. People ALWAYS marry for social and economic reasons.
I’ll bet the overseas student in the only case we’ve got married for the visa - an ill-judged move. Her father, on the other hand, had other unknown motives. Financial? Religious? His daughter’s perceived interests?
It would be nice to see you stop flailing against Islam for once, and actually consider motives and interests.
You studied economics, no? Was that at the prestigious University of Balogney?
That’s the old boy’s alma mater.
So what's you opinion Karnal? Do you think there may be a problem with underage secret marriages amongst Australia's Islamic community?
You haven’t read many of my posts on this issue, have you, dear?
With absolutely no evidence, no. I don’t. I also don’t envisage a problem anytime soon, given one short reason:
It’s illegal.
Whatever Grand Muftis say or don’t say is ultimately irrelevant. People rarely listen to religious leaders. Muslims are no different. How many protested in Sydney when their religious and community leaders advised them to stay at home? How many turned up in gangs after the Cronulla riots despite community leaders (and their parents) begging them not to take revenge?
From what I can tell, imams do things like preside over weddings, funerals, Eid celebrations and barbecues. They give advice on religious issues and domestic life, but Muslims in Australia live in two worlds, which they weigh up when making decisions.
Imams do sometimes meet in councils, Sharia style, to consider and issue recommendations on divorce and child custody. If Muslims don’t like the "rulings", they take it to the Family Court. When it comes to the crunch, most Muslims, it seems, would rather face secular to Sharia law.
While mechanisms like the above do exist, imams in Australia have as much influence over their flocks as Catholic priests or Anglican ministers. This, at least, is what Muslims have told me. Most Muslims only attend mosques for festivals like Eid - if at all.
Islam is not a hierarchical, military style organization. Devout Muslims believe in applying the principles they learn in practice. Ultimately, it’s their call - not the Mufti’s.
As for following the example of their prophet like robots, it’s not going to happen. Arabs, whether they’re Muslims or Christians, are generally passionate, individualistic people. Iranians - even more so. In my experience, they don’t take too well to following orders.
Churches and mosques perform a community function, not a legal one. Most Arabs, like other Australians, don’t attend church or mosque at all. Iranians in general are far more secular - many got out of Iran for this very reason.
Anyway, I’m not a Muslim. The one Muslim we know says he knows of no Muslim child marriages at all. What say you, G?
Is this correct?