cods wrote on Jun 1
st, 2014 at 12:25pm:
Amadd wrote on Jun 1
st, 2014 at 11:37am:
Quote:thats an odd outlook I must say... it isnt our nature to parade...as you call it.. and not sure in which way you are referring .. I presume provocative....... who are you to presume thats what they are doing.. maybe it was your dirty mind...and wishful thinking...for that matter...
..and the planet you live on is??
Ok my statement came out a little wrong, but only just a little.
Of course some girls parade themselves when they become physically developed.
...anyway... A young man goes into a confessional booth and says to the priest. "Father, a little over a week ago I had sexual relations with a 16yr old girl".
The priest says " Well that's the age of legal consent, why are you telling me?" The young man relies "I'm tellin' everybody!"
in YOUR opinion.. I am telling you most girls are slightly embarrassed about their development..
the thought of going out with mum to buy a bra is not welcome.. and for any thought that M EN are looking at them I can promise you its not the case only in rare cases..you are wrong..so you must be on the wrong planet..
your JOKE as it is.. is not funny.. did he mention STD or spreading it...
sorry matey I can see very well where you are coming from...blame the female she was dressed in something I lusted after...
is this the sort of behavior you will/would expect from your 16 yr old son??..
you think its great that men like Rolf touch and feel because....
well she was dressed in something I wanted to touch..
Cods knows how the young developing girls think and feel, she being young once, as myself, and having either teen daughters or grand-daughters, we know their minds, whereas anyone (particlarly male) would look from the outside of that mind, and only see some bared flesh and developed bosums.
Tell me that aint so
With all the phallus symbols on tv and sexuality heightened, is it any wonder we are still so backward going forward to be more comfortable in our skins?
It's almost as if none have ever seen a girl in bikinis before, never ceases to surprise me, but then again, some one once said, that
a man never stops looking until he is dead....so okay, but we are discussing RH here, and he went further than what eye candy there was.
He knew this girl, (friend of family) and I bet he kept the friendship up with her parents with an agenda in mind.
Soon as she was 18, he was in her pants.
Him in his mid 50's.
So the message is, you can't even trust someone famous that you considered a friend?
Howz this for a scenario.....my hubby and another male, friends with Steve, were at Steve's place looking at something mechanical on the internet, in walks his 3rd daughter, wearing a little t shirt, and bikini underwear, she is 17, and kissed her dad goodnight with the 2 older males sitting with him nearby.
Now, how would most here feel about that?
I will tell you how it was here, my hubby felt embarrased and quickly looked away, Steve didn't seem to worry, seems to be very accepting, and trusts his mates to not think or do the wrong thing, knowing they are a loving and close family.
My thoughts were, I felt embarrassed for the fellas feeling embarrassed
, and I asked the hubby what Steve's reaction was....he told me he just kissed her on the cheek (goodnight possum) and went back to focussing on the internet.
No big deal really eh?
So the only trouble would be, if say, one of the fellas in that room, decides to take it meaning something else, to fantacize maybe the way RH did, and to eventuate it into something, you know, fkucing her.
But in this case, that didn't happen, at all.
And therein lay the difference of trust.
RH betrayed the trust of that family that he was friends with.
I'd have kicked my daughters butt if she was walking around dressed like that in front of other males...
But as most males know, thinking back to a Seinfeld episode... you don't get busted taking a peek like George did..