Lord Herbert wrote on Jun 8
th, 2014 at 9:11pm:
Amadd wrote on Jun 8
th, 2014 at 2:56pm:
That all sounds very assuming to me.
It's all coming down to a decision any day now.
I think his goose is cooked.
I've always felt that the big entertainers must have something additional to their character and personality than the rest of us who prefer to hide in the crowd.
Audacity? Arrogance? Sociopathic personalities? Narcissistic personalities? Risk takers?
Well, they have more exposure and more people around them and more opportunities exist than to us mere humble peons. I think the word is 'temptation'. And as most are in this ivory tower, thinking they are like gods.
But, having said that, not just those in the entertainment industry, also in the other professions you will find many sleezes and sex addicts have gotten away with stuff for years.
And then, those that are that way inclined and not a famous tall poppy, I know of one guy that is a total sleeze and makes my skin crawl, for that reason, I do NOT go to a friend's birthday party anymore because his mate the letch is there.
And as Sherri said earlier, sometimes, it IS hard to talk about a situation that happened, because everyone knows and just accepts it and says "Oh yeah, M...he is a bit of a sleeze eh?"
This is what must be the case also, in the same situation as say Rolf, being like that, that people do know, and just shrug it off and accept it as their normal behaviour.
And it would be unnacceptable for me to go and say to our friend, that his mate is letching onto all his female friends, because I would be the bad sport coz they have been mates for 40 years?????
I found out another female friend that doesn't go anymore to the yearly event, has told me of her situation with the letch, and made me feel less alone with the dilemma, but......that doesn't make it right to accept it.
And then, here we are, women, grown up women, unable to tell the main guy what is happening.
Yeah, and ignorance is bliss?
I find it easier to just keep away and not associate with them any more, and I know, in my heart, that our friend V.. would be devastated if he knew the truth...he is respectable always to us.
It is a fearful thing to confront, and hence, why so many will not come forth in a huge situation, with a huge mega star, about something like that.
No one wants to be alone with it, and have no one believe them, all on their little own.