Quote:I would be astounded if someone as articulate and well read as you has no insight into the issues of cyber bullying that are quite significant in our modern world.
As far as I am concerned, they only apply when it is linked to someone's real identity - eg high school kids trashing each other's facebook pages. People may feel just as upset about their OzPolitic ID being dumped on. They can get over it.
Quote:It is concerning that you do not consider this.
Just because I disagree with you does not mean I haven't considered it. That is the only way online politics forums can function. The mods are not here to babysit.
Quote:This site clearly has advertising, now I realise that might be a free service you offer to the businesses advertising, however, I suspect it might also afford the board some income.
Not enough to pay someone to moderate.
Quote:Further, it is your site, you want me to give you money to fix an issue that I raise on your feedback board, and you don't see how that might be an issue
You see it as an issue. You want it fixed. That is how you can make it happen. The offer is open to anyone else who cares that much.
Quote:Tell ya what, I will give you ten bucks, you give me the site and I will show you how easy it is to fix.
No thanks.
Quote:b) The status quo seems to be altogether happy with a rule set up that punishes and blames victims rather than address perpetrators.
The rules don't recognise victimhood status. A big part of the problem mods face is people claiming victimhood status and thinking this gives them some kind of right to break the rules. If you see a breach of the rules, report it. You will not be punished for this.
Quote:Of course, all that stuff about a "democracy" is smoke and mirrors then.
This site is so popular because it works.
Quote:As to hardening up, the problem is, when people do harden up and "bite back" as it were, they then have the rules applied. What you are quite diligently setting up then is a cyber bully haven where only the victims get punished.
That doesn't make any sense. Biting back is a sign of weakness. Harden up = get over it and move on.
Quote:I say to you quite simply, the place needs rules, the rules do not need to be rocket science and they need to be behaviour focussed and not necessarily content (in all instances) focussed. Finally, the rules do need to be monitored, enforced and reviewed from time to time.
Have you discovered the rules yet? Or do you just like stating the obvious?
Quote:Make people feel safe and they will debate robustly, leave them feeling unsafe and they will cop abuse (which is not robust, nor is it debate) until they snap. IF they contact moderators, it somehow becomes "known" in select instances and the victim is further harassed.
It becomes known because the people announce that they have dobbed someone in.
Quote:Tell me that isn't how it works and I will tell you that you lie.
It works like this. If you see a breach, report it. Then get over it. If you bite back, you will get banned also, and rightly so. I am not here to babysit your bitchfests and I have no interest in figuring out who started it. If you cannot control yourself, you do not belong here.
Quote:No, you are either dead wrong or deliberately lying.
I speak from experience over many sites and forums. The worst thing you can do is announce people's suspensions.
Quote:The minute mods spot the new thread they nuke and boot any and all who participate in it if that is absolutely necessary.
There are several problems with this. 1) mods do not spot it straight away (we are not babysitters) 2) People simply have the same bitchfest in more subtle ways 3. it just moves the discussion about bans to where you cannot moderate it, but the bitching stays here.
If someone wants to discuss their ban in public, they are welcome to.
Quote:Oh, and news flash, judging from the past few weeks stuff at least, it is not only happening in other threads, it also is happening in another forum. Now what is the common link there?
It is happening across half a dozen or so websites run by different people. I do not control the internet, just my tiny patch of it. I cannot make you safe and it would be misleading for me to make any claims otherwise.
Quote:So, you ask a question and without waiting for an answer, decide on the answer and proclaim "dumb idea"....
I cannot imagine any interpretation of your suggestion that is not stupid. But please, enlighten me.
Quote:No such thing as borderline if your rules are well articulated and put in place for the right purpose.
There is always borderline and there is always a dedicated group of drama queens devoted to seeking it out. I can only imagine that your claim stems from no genuine experience modding online forums.