Kytro wrote on Jun 6
th, 2014 at 3:04pm:
... wrote on Jun 6
th, 2014 at 2:11pm:
Meh. You can complain about our nature all you like - you'll just be forever disappointed.
There are plenty of things we do as society that are not in line with biological motivations.
In any case, the sexual promiscuity being bad thing seems more a social construct than a biological imperative.
Women themselves are actually more critical of promiscuity than men.
This actually reminds me why that may be so, with my gen anyway....when I was a very early developed teen with boobs I didn't want, and particularly more bustier than most, and all the attention I (they) got
.....damned hated all the attention, the more I tried to walk hunch back with arms crossed, the more I wore baggy tops to hide myself, the more I seemed to attract all sorts of unwanted attention.
From all ages of males.
I looked about 16 at age 14.
Funny thing is, by the time I was 19, I looked only 15
Most guys were suprised I had my drivers licence!
Now I am talking about the way times were back in the 1960's and early 70's....big revolutionary stuff happening, music, long hair, mini skirts, flower power, make love not war, free love, burn the bra, rebelliousness against the oldies and the establishment, consciencious objectors, etc etc.
It was a time when new attitude with freedom and fashion and music exploded....so much for me being shy with unwanted attention
When my daughter was 14 with her friend, and they wanted to go to parties and I would drive them, looking at their dress code would astound me....lovely and curvy etc...but I was glad my daughter was more hippy and covered up more than her friend....I wasn't worried for them the way they dressed with clingy clothes to accentuate their beautiful curves, I was more worried about the unwanted attention it may get......does this make sense?