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Grappler Deep State Feller wrote on Jul 13 th, 2014 at 7:45pm: GA wrote on Jul 13 th, 2014 at 12:56pm: bogarde73 wrote on Jul 12 th, 2014 at 10:21am: Apparently there is a new funding process in place for various welfare institutions in NSW, by which larger organisations have successfully tendered for the provision of the services. The result, according to spokespersons for women's refuges, is that the community based organisations run by women may find it difficult to survive. The view has been expressed, and I find it a convincing one, that these "original" women's refuges are the most sought out by women fleeing domestic violence and that refuges provided by churches etc may be influenced by ideologies not appropriate to the circumstances.
I imagine such a reorganisation of funding follows a philosophy of efficiency. It seems to me though that efficiency has more than financial or accounting attributes, such as "fit for purpose". I don't particularly care if many refuges are run by lesbians or man-haters. All that matters imho is that the women and their children who turn to them feel safe in an environment where they are not put under pressures such as to seek family reunion, which it has been suggested could be the case where they are operated by major charities. It's being naive believing that most women go to these places because they feel unsafe, when instead they are there in many instances for mistakenly believing that the police were going to be on their side in the fight with their partner. That is the police had the power to pass judgement, declare the partner guilty, win the 'fight' for the women by TKO. As for kids, they should never be allowed into what are in effect indoctrination centers. Besides, unless we accept that the women generally should get the care of the children by default, we too are taking sides. As for not wanting families reunited, how outrageous is that? I mean, should a child not be kept with its family because it had received a smack at some time or another. We are talking about 'domestic' issues, not strangers assaulting each other after-all. "It's being naive believing that most women go to these places because they feel unsafe, when instead they are there in many instances for mistakenly believing that the police were going to be on their side in the fight with their partner. That is the police had the power to pass judgement, declare the partner guilty, win the 'fight' for the women by TKO."Yes that is the expectation and one reason why the current mode of 'domestic violence' law needs to be outlawed as it always should have been. Far too many men have been accused and abused under these 'laws' and there is a strong move and predilection to find guilt on accusation - totally anathema under Law. The primary reason women leave relationships is that they 'do not feel validated' in them. WOW! That's a reason to destroy your children's family? There is a serious fallacy in the 'primary caregiver' rort - that women somehow should be the sole possessors of children simply because they bore them and breasted them. Men have just as much right and in many case are and remain the 'primary caregiver' in fact since they continue to pay for their children etc and try - often desperately - to ensure their well-being and welfare even when they can be assaulted by the 'law' in seeking to do so. Disgusting all around. HERE! ( flings a rotting whale carcase in the ring to get your attention)... https://sites.google.com/site/grappleruniversitypublications/home/department-of-... Yes, I've read it, it's a great site you've set up there. But it does kind of look like somehow you're suggesting women might be in someway to blame for the situation, something that would be at odds with 50/50 ratio that exists between males and females. I mean, all things being equal, how does a disproportionate force arise? There should be no slant one way or the other, is what I'm saying. And should we really be dwelling so much on the 'problem', and instead start formulating a solution? To me there is only the one, and that's patriotism, as it has the potential to encompass all solutions, social, environmental, and economic, and is a counter to nationalism, at the same time, as I've pointed out before, allows an equal degree of recognition for males. To summarize, don't we really have a 'problem' because we've failed to implement a solution? And if we continue to fail, males, already partly redundant, will one day be completely eliminated. The idea isn't to punish anyone, but is instead to keep relationships together, for the benefit of the family as a whole, and in the long run for society too. These are things that once again the Americans are miles ahead of us on. But they are also at the same time fighting a losing battle, why, because Americans are dying, being replaced by the offspring of a new age. From the Wiki: Phyllis McAlpin Stewart Schlafly born August 15, 1924) is an American constitutional lawyer, conservative[2] activist, author, and founder of the Eagle Forum. She is known for her staunch social and political conservatism, her opposition to modern feminism and for her campaign against the proposed Equal Rights Amendment. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phyllis_Schlafly
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