St George of the Garden wrote on Jan 24
th, 2015 at 11:23am:
Andrei.Hicks wrote on Jan 24
th, 2015 at 10:57am:
St George of the Garden wrote on Jan 24
th, 2015 at 10:28am:
Transparency and accountability are missing.
I searched on “Idiot” here when banned (4 days!) for saying Armpit was an idiot. Personally, I don’t think the word “idiot” deserves a ban. I got 690 pages of hits on the word idiot! Did each use result in a suspension? Bet they didn’t, and there goes consistency.
Longy was abusive for a whole freaking day, had to drag my family into it—*I* got a ban, not Longy!
Stop fussing over small words, concentrate on viler or more violent language and usages and consistency and clarity are improved. That just leaves accountability.
Any ban message should say briefly what offence is being published and how long the ban is for. If the YABB software allows this then that should always be done.
JohnS got banned for months and doesn’t know why—that is not right! You email FD and never get a reply.
You'll find George that you'll find more to do with your rants and calling other members a bitch was more likely a cause of your exit than idiot.
The lady in question earned that tag. But Longy was alright, calling me a blithering idiot and much worse, dragging my Mum into his abusive rants that was OK? Or was it my 6-7 PMs reporting Longy’s personal abuse that caused you to ban me. Four days was it?
If AA didn’t ban me when I told her that, why did you have to do it?
A couple of things stand out here...
Firstly, Andrei, I think it far more credible to either say it for what it is, i.e. George you were banned for..... Rather than what it "might" have been for. As such, either exercise integrity and tell it like it is, or, as per the idea that "no discussion will be entered into..." do not engage. You are kind of having an each way bet with that comment and, presumably, you know EXACTLY what the ban was for.
Secondly, George, NO ONE ever "earns" being verbally abused, yep even you. That is not a defense or justification for you choosing to make an abusive post. Otherwise, Longy may well (and, based on your comment here with some justification) merely deflect his comments back to you saying you "earned" them.... Would that be apt?
Bottom line, abuse is either an appropriate way to respond or it is not. I understand that concept is particularly muddy on this particular forum, but, none the less, that is how this stuff works. If you justify, excuse or dismiss your own verbal abuse, then others will respond in kind.