SweetLambo wrote on Feb 28
th, 2015 at 4:41pm:
Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by
which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude
regarding an offense, lets go of negative emotions such as
vengefulness, with an increased ability to wish the offender
well.[1][2][3] Forgiveness is different from condoning
(failing to see the action as wrong and in need of
forgiveness), excusing (not holding the offender as
responsible for the action), pardoning (granted by a
representative of society, such as a judge), forgetting
(removing awareness of the offense from consciousness),
and reconciliation (restoration of a relationship).[1]
In certain contexts, forgiveness is a legal term for
absolving or giving up all claims on account of debt, loan,
obligation or other claims.[4][5]
As a psychological concept and virtue, the benefits of
forgiveness have been explored in religious thought, the
social sciences and medicine. Forgiveness may be
considered simply in terms of the person who forgives[6]
including forgiving themselves, in terms of the person
forgiven or in terms of the relationship between the
forgiver and the person forgiven. In most contexts,
forgiveness is granted without any expectation of
restorative justice, and without any response on the part
of the offender (for example, one may forgive a person
who is incommunicado or dead). In practical terms, it may
be necessary for the offender to offer some form of
acknowledgment, an apology, or even just ask for
forgiveness, in order for the wronged person to believe
himself able to forgive.[1]
Most world religions include teachings on the nature of
forgiveness, and many of these teachings provide an
underlying basis for many varying modern day traditions
and practices of forgiveness. Some religious doctrines or
philosophies place greater emphasis on the need for
humans to find some sort of divine forgiveness for their
own shortcomings, others place greater emphasis on the
need for humans to practice forgiveness of one another,
yet others make little or no distinction between human and
divine forgiveness.
many blessings
divine forgiveness yes
we are making progress
namaste
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