Phemanderac wrote on May 6
th, 2015 at 3:29pm:
Skewed data = piffle....
The bottom line is (or perhaps rather should be) using any form of violence to express yourself, get your way or blow off steam is inappropriate and, at least, in a socially integrated and civilised society has NO PLACE....
So, since we have an issue of increasing violence it would seem that we (that's right folks, men and women) need to either accept that we are neither socially integrated or civilised or come up with a few meaningful and effective solutions as recently as RIGHT NOW....
Since many would seemingly prefer to let themselves be bogged down in the age old men vs women thing, I suspect most would reasonably lean to the harsh reality that we are simply still a bunch of anti social barbarians.
one of my main WAR CRIES on this topic has always been stop the bloody blame game..whos the worst..
lets find the answer to stopping it...
but there is always the few that just wont stop the verbal bashing....
I agree with Rosie Batty.. who says the word DOMESTIC need to be replaced....
it means its an insular problem.. its
your problem
only you can fix it..
why on earth we think coppers can do anything I will never understand....its a revolving door as far as I am concerned.....and DVOs are pieces of paper that give women false security....
its bandaid laws that make us all think they are actually doing something towards preventing any more of it..
like it or not.. Mr Little killing himself and his two little boys is "DOMESTIC" VIOLENCE..
so many women have been killed because of "DOMESTIC" VIOLENCE.
a "mans" home is his castle.. to be protected at all times.. what goes on behind closed doors....is for them to sort out..
for a long time there has been shame over us about a marriage not working....we picked the wrong person...for a lot of people .. they were warned b y family not to marry that person....so when things go wrong they dont want to hear the old.. "I told you so"reaction they presume they will get if they tell...
so they DONT talk about it.. they hope they can mend the broken fence without anyone knowing....
to bad about the kids...who mostly think whats happening is normal..I thought my childhood was the norm ours was mental abuse .. which can be a whole lot worse because its so hard to explain what it does to you...
lets find answers....