Phemanderac
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Is blame actually all that helpful? I mean honestly, have a look at the low brow standard of debate about managing radicalisation, terrorism and other anti social behaviours (including but not limited to) relationship violence, coward punches etc etc etc....
We invest far too much energy in looking to blame individuals (whether that be parents, whole of family, religious belief, institutions etc etc etc) rather than seek genuine and sustainable solutions.
I think it is very symptomatic of an idea I had sometime back, our species is only in its adolescence, hence we don't take responsibility - we look for blame, we do not manage risks but act on impulse and we cause untold hurt and damage.... On the upside, being in our adolescents, there is hope we can mature as a species, some of our "risk taking" pays off with positive dividends (the downside is we still don't manage all the risks) and we invest energy of ourselves into "stuff"...
Are parents to blame, from my perspective, clearly not, or rather not entirely.
This seems to me at least, to be a whole of society problem, yet, we invest our time and energy into exploiting differences in order to gain some non existent higher moral ground in order to crush those we "blame" into submission...
How is that working out so far?
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