Grappler Truth Teller Feller wrote on Sep 12
th, 2015 at 10:23am:
What kind of message for reason and fair discussion of any disagreement does it send when women are told that unless their old man toes their line the State will bash him up?
Well when that actually is the case I will get back to you.
It is the case for the many - as a mountain of evidence will support. Do you not realise that all rights held by a man vanish the moment a complaint is made over 'DV' - regardless of circumstances, with 97-98% of 'complaints' over DV are over nothing of the sort? Vexatious complaints are par for the course and no 'defence' is permitted.
That is your perspective, which I suspect may have come from experience (either your own or someone close).
Of course, ALL law and systems are open to abuse, vexatious claims or manipulation. That is one of the flaws we need to be trying to address.
However, the same system has contingencies in place for redress too... You just need to use the system to seek your own justice.
Impossibly naive. The 'avenues for redress' are first a proper rendering of FACTS before a court of some GENUINE wrongdoing as the Law requires. This does not even begin to occur. Any subsequent appeal is treated with utter contempt by the courts. What is needed is that these matters not occur in the first place in the courts, and a balanced approach be taken to the entire issue - including the abolition of the feminist nonsense that anything a woman doesn't like or can't get in a relationship is somehow 'violence' against her - but not against a man in a similar situation.
I think the money associate with the "system" is a major issue for example. I think a lot of people simply give up because they cannot afford to defend themselves. Regardless of gender. This despite men still having the benefit of (generally) being higher earners...Some absolutely use that to their advantage.
Women's complaints are funded by government here, and men are slugged with court costs if they defend, and there is NO defence permitted. Qui Bono? Try it some time and see for yourself how any nut case can start such a case against you and there is no defence.
Yep, we agree there are flaws.
I think we disagree with the extent of said flaws and how the imbalance works. At the end of the day both genders can fall foul of the system.
The issue is that these (non) laws provide an illegal finding against a person guilty of no wrong,and are a clear indication to that person that HIS rights are open to violation at any time on any whim.
How could any reasonable person not see that this is an absolute precursor to INCREASED violence rather than diminished violence.