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Reply #150 - Oct 1st, 2015 at 7:51pm
 
'domestic violence' is a created component of the artificial drive by government to cause a division between men and women and thus destroy the fundamental building block of our kind of society - the family.

It is an escalating issue for the simple reason that it is media driven, and has been based, by the same governments for their own ends, on a faulty premise in several ways.

One such way is the hijacking of the word 'violence' and its killing and then re-birth as an entirely different thing from what it was.

Another is the perpetuation of the myth that 'domestic violence' ONLY includes men v women.

These two factors have significantly contributed to the input into an equation of 'violence' as described in (1) above - by the simple expedients of simultaneously using the instruments of the State to attack men, thus generating a response, and by encouraging women to cry 'violence' at any time for any reason, thus creating the opportunity for the State to intervene violently, and thus escalating what is, in the very vast majority of situations, NOT violence at all into a generalised melee` of violence at whim, retaliatory violence, and State institutionalised violence.

In this never-ending descent into Hell there is no answer as long as government/State itself continues to promote and encourage violence between men and women.

As for the killings that are going on - the State views these as 'acceptable casualties' in what it deems to be a 'social revolution' - which is, rather, a 'bloody coup' by that State.

The first step in resolving this escalating equation of violence is to remove from the State any right to intervene without proper legal right.  The next step is to seek resolution via State violent intervention ONLY in matters of genuine violence.

Attacking and insulting mostly innocent men is a surefire way of guaranteeing retaliation in one way or another, as does attacking their home, hearth and family - which is precisely what the State is doing with this current 'domestic violence' regime.  Men are hard-wired that way - so the direct impact of an unwarranted intervention using violence by the State in ALL ordinary men - is one of first rejection, and then retaliation.

'domestic violence laws' have been designed to specifically create precisely that situation and precisely that response - so as to afford to the State the 'right' to attack that man, and through him, to attack all men equally, for the very clear purpose of subordinating men as the prime movers of any resistance to or revolt against overbearing State authority = despotism.

Once again - I predict that any draconian response to the current level of violence, by the imposition of draconian measures agaisnt men with no genuine attempt to resolve any outstanding issues between those involved - both allegedly mature adults - will result in an escalation of deaths.
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Reply #151 - Oct 1st, 2015 at 7:53pm
 
Johnsmith wrote on Oct 1st, 2015 at 7:14pm:
... wrote on Oct 1st, 2015 at 7:05pm:
mariacostel wrote on Oct 1st, 2015 at 6:33pm:
... wrote on Oct 1st, 2015 at 3:55pm:
Kytro wrote on Oct 1st, 2015 at 3:50pm:
It is possible to not respond violently to provocation, there are alternatives - you could simply leave the environment and until you are calmer.


Often the simplest course of action is the best.
And every time, the best course of action is the one that works. 

What is so bad about giving a slap on the cheek that it must be avoided at all costs?  I reckon you might have let the threat of violence become too powerful in your mind.  Told you it was powerful.


Are you truly that stupid? You have implied in other posts that you got screwed in a divorce.  To be fair, I see why that happened.


I implied no such thing.


Maria reads in pigeon English, you say one thing, she reads it as something else.


She has difficulty understanding the difference between 'merged' and 'abolished'.... she imagines that once a creek joins a river, the fish from the creek are no longer available in that river for catching...

Her view is that once the creek and all its contents joins that river, the water and fish etc of that creek cease to exist....

Bi-zarre!
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Reply #152 - Oct 1st, 2015 at 8:05pm
 
Grappler Truth Teller Feller wrote on Oct 1st, 2015 at 7:51pm:
'domestic violence' is a created component of the artificial drive by government to cause a division between men and women and thus destroy the fundamental building block of our kind of society - the family.

It is an escalating issue for the simple reason that it is media driven, and has been based, by the same governments for their own ends, on a faulty premise in several ways.

One such way is the hijacking of the word 'violence' and its killing and then re-birth as an entirely different thing from what it was.

Another is the perpetuation of the myth that 'domestic violence' ONLY includes men v women.

These two factors have significantly contributed to the input into an equation of 'violence' as described in (1) above - by the simple expedients of simultaneously using the instruments of the State to attack men, thus generating a response, and by encouraging women to cry 'violence' at any time for any reason, thus creating the opportunity for the State to intervene violently, and thus escalating what is, in the very vast majority of situations, NOT violence at all into a generalised melee` of violence at whim, retaliatory violence, and State institutionalised violence.

In this never-ending descent into Hell there is no answer as long as government/State itself continues to promote and encourage violence between men and women.

As for the killings that are going on - the State views these as 'acceptable casualties' in what it deems to be a 'social revolution' - which is, rather, a 'bloody coup' by that State.

The first step in resolving this escalating equation of violence is to remove from the State any right to intervene without proper legal right.  The next step is to seek resolution via State violent intervention ONLY in matters of genuine violence.

Attacking and insulting mostly innocent men is a surefire way of guaranteeing retaliation in one way or another, as does attacking their home, hearth and family - which is precisely what the State is doing with this current 'domestic violence' regime.  Men are hard-wired that way - so the direct impact of an unwarranted intervention using violence by the State in ALL ordinary men - is one of first rejection, and then retaliation.

'domestic violence laws' have been designed to specifically create precisely that situation and precisely that response - so as to afford to the State the 'right' to attack that man, and through him, to attack all men equally, for the very clear purpose of subordinating men as the prime movers of any resistance to or revolt against overbearing State authority = despotism.

Once again - I predict that any draconian response to the current level of violence, by the imposition of draconian measures agaisnt men with no genuine attempt to resolve any outstanding issues between those involved - both allegedly mature adults - will result in an escalation of deaths.


Okay, hard to argue with the basic theme which I think is that there ought be no specific legislation finely tuned on 'domestic violence.'  If so, I agree with you.

General Law as exists does deal with it.  And, by way of confirmation of what I think your point is:

We get that situation where the spouse rings 000 and  complains that the partner has just *done whatever.*  Hero White Knight coppers arrive, establish who made the call and IMMEDIATELY the other spouse is the baddie and will be dragged off, and will be made the subject of a AVO, kept away from his Home, spouse, kids, and bed.
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Reply #153 - Oct 1st, 2015 at 8:31pm
 
How many men have died as a result of domestic violence this year? How many men live in terror of being killed at the hands of their female partners?

There is no moral excuse for violence in the family home. Victims of lethal domestic violence are overwhelmingly women and children. Making excuses to justify poor behaviour is pathetic in any situation, but blindingly so in this case.

I am blessed to be in an emotionally and physically safe relationship and I am incredinly grateful for that.

When I was younger, I was in a violent relationship.  I went to hospital many times with head injuries from being kicked in the head with steel capped boots. I have a scar on by back from being stabbed. I spent 3 days locked in a cupboard.

None of the men here offering excuses for violence against women have a clue what theyre talking about. Nagging? LOL. I spent a year almost too afraid to breathe. Desktop warriors who havent a fresh idea between them.
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Reply #154 - Oct 1st, 2015 at 8:39pm
 
Pretty much, Aussie - except that I view it as a calculated State initiative to render unto itself greater power and control over the populace.

It was always illegal under Law (as opposed to law and legislation) to allow a court to impose an act of violence called an 'order' on someone not guilty of any genuine offence, and it is inevitable that many will retaliate in some way.

The State needs to step back from this and remove this currently one-sided sanction that creates a response as well as an environment in which any accusation can be made, and then turned into a conflict against the accused.

For an allegedly civil matter - domestic violence legislation is distinctly uncivil in many ways and treats people as criminals without reason.

A good step would be to remove the word 'violence' from this current self-created 'right' of government to impose sanction without an offence having been committed, and then use that unlawfully created sanction as the reason to create someone into a criminal.

Hence my theme of the 'created criminal'.

It is fairly called entrapment.
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Reply #155 - Oct 1st, 2015 at 8:45pm
 
Annie Anthrax wrote on Oct 1st, 2015 at 8:31pm:
How many men have died as a result of domestic violence this year? How many men live in terror of being killed at the hands of their female partners?


I don't know.  Do you?

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There is no moral excuse for violence in the family home. Victims of lethal domestic violence are overwhelmingly women and children. Making excuses to justify poor behaviour is pathetic in any situation, but blindingly so in this case.


I disagree if that is a broad brush which I reckon it is.  The victim may well have been the male who finally lost it.

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I am blessed to be in an emotionally and physically safe relationship and I am incredinly grateful for that.


Great.  Most people are.

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When I was younger, I was in a violent relationship.  I went to hospital many times with head injuries from being kicked in the head with steel capped boots. I have a scar on by back from being stabbed. I spent 3 days locked in a cupboard.


Amazing.  Why?

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None of the men here offering excuses for violence against women have a clue what theyre talking about. Nagging? LOL. I spent a year almost too afraid to breathe. Desktop warriors who havent a fresh idea between them.


I know what I am talking about as it happened day in and day out over years of professional involvement.  I've seen far worse than you can comprehend, and I acknowledge what you say is toward the extreme end.  I'm not going to press you about details, as I know already what your answers will be.
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Reply #156 - Oct 1st, 2015 at 8:50pm
 
Grappler Truth Teller Feller wrote on Oct 1st, 2015 at 8:39pm:
Pretty much, Aussie - except that I view it as a calculated State initiative to render unto itself greater power and control over the populace.

It was always illegal under Law (as opposed to law and legislation) to allow a court to impose an act of violence called an 'order' on someone not guilty of any genuine offence, and it is inevitable that many will retaliate in some way.

The State needs to step back from this and remove this currently one-sided sanction that creates a response as well as an environment in which any accusation can be made, and then turned into a conflict against the accused.

For an allegedly civil matter - domestic violence legislation is distinctly uncivil in many ways and treats people as criminals without reason.

A good step would be to remove the word 'violence' from this current self-created 'right' of government to impose sanction without an offence having been committed, and then use that unlawfully created sanction as the reason to create someone into a criminal.

Hence my theme of the 'created criminal'.

It is fairly called entrapment.


I understand exactly what you are referring to, and you are spot on.  Perhaps you can simplify your point i.e. as it happens in practical terms.   I reckon people will be amazed how easy it is for one spouse to manipulate the AVO legislation to dishonestly impact on their spouse.
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Reply #157 - Oct 1st, 2015 at 10:47pm
 
Annie - with all due respect - there is no justification in any way whatsoever for offering to the State the opportunity to apply the very real direct violence inherent in using its power against people who have done no wrong through the exercise of its law-making privileges.

We are not, never have been, and never will be - in my country - a Stalinist type state in which people have no real rights or in which those rights may be abrogated at the whim of another person without proper reason.

IF 'domestic violence' was restricted to GENUINE violence and was not exploited by the same State as an opportunity to wrest from a law-abiding populace its legally owned firearms - and was not then pounced upon by the lunatic feminist fringe as a brilliant opportunity to push the 'rights' of women over the rights of men in their own homes - we would not now be facing this current and accelerating disaster.

Blame the government for this disaster - both for feeding this shark frenzy of lunatic feminism - and for using the avenue of legislation as its back-door way of stealing private property.

A person may NOT be subject to the sanction of the court without the commission of an offence - and there endeth the lesson.
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Reply #158 - Oct 1st, 2015 at 10:50pm
 
.. oh - and you cannot include children with women - lest you run the very serious hazard of bringing in the facts that children are seven time more likely to suffer abuse, neglect and even murder at the hands of their mother, with or without the assistance of the 'new lion' in the pride, who kills offspring of another  abandoned 'lion'.

More girls are molested by their 'step-father' than by their birth father, as one example.
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Reply #159 - Oct 2nd, 2015 at 5:35am
 
Domestic violence in the Sydney area is a phenomenon mostly confined to the Pacific Islanders, the Aborigines, and Muslim Arabs.

The threat of retributional violence from the males in these communities is so very much a real potential that very few of their abused women dare contact the police to bring the law down upon their menfolk.

This 'diversity' and 'difference' in cultural viewpoint from that of our own Western social values is part of the much-vaunted 'enrichment' that comes with Multiculturalism and non-discriminatory immigration policy.

To paraphrase Donald Horne of 'The Lucky Country' - "Why source the British for immigration any more than aboriginal people from Third World patriarchal societies where the womenfolk 'know their place if they know what's good for them' ?"

And then the feminist hypocritical socialist bitches have said nothing. They all 'went to ground' rather than be seen to criticise any people other than white, heterosexual, capitalist, Christian males.

The name of the 'closets' in which many of our Third World ethnic women are under permanent threat of physical violence - (should they momentarily fail to bend-the-knee to the husband) - are variously called 'Multiculturalism', 'Cultural Diversity', 'Difference', 'Tradition' - all of which we Westerners are repeatedly being told by our politicians are cause for 'celebration' for bringing improvement to our own values. 
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Reply #160 - Oct 2nd, 2015 at 6:58am
 

Domestic violence in the Sydney area is a phenomenon mostly confined to the Pacific Islanders, the Aborigines, and Muslim Arabs.



That's a myth Herbie, Domestic violence has no race barriers.
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Reply #161 - Oct 2nd, 2015 at 7:43am
 

It's uncontrolled anger. You don't hit someone unless you are angry.

Controlled anger would probably see you going down the shed, for a drive, even to the pub and returning when you've cooled down.

Uncontrolled anger would see you lashing out without putting any thought into it.

For instance, road rage, king hitting someone on the street, mass shootings etc

A person that's in total control of their mind would obviously think it through and come up with a better option than physical abuse.
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Reply #162 - Oct 2nd, 2015 at 7:45am
 
Ex Dame Pansi wrote on Oct 2nd, 2015 at 6:58am:
Domestic violence in the Sydney area is a phenomenon mostly confined to the Pacific Islanders, the Aborigines, and Muslim Arabs.



That's a myth Herbie, Domestic violence has no race barriers.


That is true, but some races do feature more frequently. Recently a group of Church Leaders went to the Solomon Islands to speak to men there to explain to them why DV is wrong. The disturbing aspect was that they had to EXPLAIN why it was wrong. However, there are a few men here who sound like they could attend the same lectures.
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Reply #163 - Oct 2nd, 2015 at 8:27am
 
Lord Herbert wrote on Oct 2nd, 2015 at 5:35am:
Domestic violence in the Sydney area is a phenomenon mostly confined to the Pacific Islanders, the Aborigines, and Muslim Arabs.



what a load of rubbish .... are you taking creative writing lessons from Maria?
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Reply #164 - Oct 2nd, 2015 at 9:07am
 
Aussie wrote on Oct 1st, 2015 at 6:40pm:
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You are making way too many excuses for violence. Provocation may be extreme, but hitting your wife is never the answer. But you seem to think there is a case for it sometimes.


So do I and so does the Law.  A lippy/mouthy provocative spouse (of whatever gender) might well, and lawfully, cop a smack in the ear, or an open palm to the neck (????), a punch and anything short of grievous bodily harm, and, of course, death (in which case, a murder charge is reduced to manslaughter.)


I doubt that many of those cases are won with a provocation defence. You don't get to legally smack someone over the ear simply because they made you personally angry. If you have violent tendencies, you don't get leeway.

Notably it's only Queensland that allow provocation as a defence to common assault.

Frankly the defence should be removed altogether as a defence of the crime, and should be part of mitigating circumstances for sentencing - which should include acquiring the skills of self-restraint.
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