Grappler Truth Teller Feller wrote on Oct 2
nd, 2015 at 8:46pm:
Johnsmith wrote on Oct 2
nd, 2015 at 5:06pm:
Ex Dame Pansi wrote on Oct 2
nd, 2015 at 2:42pm:
Aussie wrote on Oct 2
nd, 2015 at 1:01pm:
Ex Dame Pansi wrote on Oct 2
nd, 2015 at 12:51pm:
There is absolutely no reason why someone should smash the window of a car with a woman and child inside, except if they were accidentally locked in and needed rescuing or a medical emergency.
I doubt this was the case.
....or by way of just another
mere example of a possible relevant circumstance ~
she was attempting to kidnap his children.You know ~ how parents can behave if their off spring is in danger.
I'm pretty sure it's legal for one parent to leave the other and take the kids. The children's court will sort out custody matters at a later date, not a baseball bat on the day.
that is part of the problem ... the guy gets frustrated because it is legal for his kids to be taken away.
In my opinion the courts in custody battles are geared to far to the womans rights at expense of the mans. That is an act of violence in itself - why then complain when it generates a response?
The hurt alone of the 'abandoned father' is excruciating - I know, and when you add to that the devastation of the life he has struggled to build - why would you consider that a response is in any way abnormal, especially that over 85% of relationships are broken up by the woman involved, and primarily for not valid reason other than 'she doesn't feel validated any more' as a wife and mother.
All this that I state is the outcome of studies into divorce/breakup of marital relationships/families...
I do believe the courts have changed quite a bit grap..the reason women usually get the main custody...the ones I know of... have 50 50 custody...in my granddaughters case with her eldest boy the father has shown no interest until he is forced to pay child support..the mother doesnt force it anymore the court either gets it out of him or it doesnt.....
it is really up to the adults how it plays out.. soem women are bitter no doubt about that...
but bitter and spiteful is not what I call DV..they are two separate things...
yes parents ev en when they go their separate ways make life hell for each other and use the kids... what anyone can do about that I will never know...
I am sorry as I dont have a clue where you get your stats from that 85% of marriages break up due to the women???? how has someone worked this out I wonder???...
like it or not grap not everyone will tell the truth about their own behavior when it comes to broken relationships......if you have had a bitter experience thats sad.. but I am one of these people who believes it takes two to tango...
even ion a deadset violent relationship man against the women she has to accept some of the responsibility for sticking around....same if its the other way around...dont talk to me about "love' please..once that shine wears off and you are left with violence and or
abuse...love makes a quick exit...and fear takes over...
like I said if we all accepted our part in any conflict I am sure things would work out better especially for the kids involved....as it is we are greedy and narcissistic and as selfish as hell...I never went through a broken relationship so have no idea how tough it can be...but I still say it takes two to tango...and the old pay back never works in the long run...
I think the laws and the courts are changing...and so they should..but even you have to agree it isnt easy to tell who is the baddy and whos the goody whos lying and so forth....