mariacostel wrote on Oct 3^rd, 2015 at 8:57am:



Cods has some good views there..... very smart and down-to-earth.

mariacostel wrote on Oct 3^rd, 2015 at 10:59am:



You are getting quite nasty, maria.....I've a good mind to let your wife know next time I see her at the bus stop.

cods wrote on Oct 3^rd, 2015 at 7:44am:


It's a very complex issue, cods, and involves the 'entitlement mentality' of many, who in this day and age of alleged social enlightenment, have been told from the cradle that they have virtually unmitigated rights and privileges.  Then when the dream doesn't turn out, they blame others when really - no blame is to be adhered to anyone since we live in a very complex society, and not everyone can prosper mightily in it for many reasons.

Look at our current government of private school kids - what the hell would they know about running a country?  But while ever this kind with their contacts, and all others like them such as Julia Gillard, get into the driver's seat, nobody else can get in - and we've seen the results from that so far, on both 'sides' of politics here.

Government here is just a new edition of 'jobs for the boys/girls' - not anything new, open, free and equal at all in any way.   The Labor Party put their mates up there, the Liberal etc do the same - and so far in this century not one has shown a spark of genuine ability.

In relationships - people often have the totally wrong idea, and assume that, as you said, the relationship imposes a duty on the other party to make it what the first person wants - and when you get that from both sides, it's doomed to failure.

The other person is NOT there to fulfill your dreams for you or to fix your lacks from your childhood or whatever - they are there to work for the better good of the partnership, and quite simply, are not able to satisfy your every need or whim.  People have to accept that and take a serious look at what they DO have rather than what they think they don't have in a relationship.

How The Shaitan did this turn into yet another discussion of paedophiles?

All this side-tracking nonsense obscures the issues we are trying to address here - FAMILY violence, as Rose Batty herself USED to call it before the PC mob got hold of her and told her that the current handling of 'domestic violence' is and always has been 'male v female' ONLY - which is precisely the biggest problem with the whole thing.

While ever you give 50% of a dispute a free hand and persecute the other 50% over any whim or tizz - you are generating violence within a relationship.  Pure and simple - and in this regard the fools who are running the show need a total revamp of their current approach.

Ambushing Rose Batty in that way will NOT change things any way but for the worse, since a continuation of bashing men on whim will only result in an escalation of violence, since it IS itself violence writ large.

Ex Dame Pansi wrote on Oct 3^rd, 2015 at 11:20am:



getting? have you been asleep the last few weeks?

mariacostel wrote on Oct 3^rd, 2015 at 10:59am:
  Man or woman I will be reporting your nasty posts, starting now.
 
And "peados" should be locked away forever, or face death penalty.

Ex Dame Pansi wrote on Oct 3^rd, 2015 at 2:08pm:


Actually, Maria sounds typically Christian

Grappler Truth Teller Feller wrote on Oct 3^rd, 2015 at 11:32am:



my thoughts exactly but some prefer talking about themselves...longy is now making this out that our differences are new this goes back about 4 years if not more..but as happens with another of this bullying type... he tries to change things to protect him/herself..'


havent you noticed he even denies being longweekend...

anyway get back to the topic and how we can over come it..stop blaming one genda...it isnt a female thing or a male thing.. unfortunately the stats do show women receive more of the violence.. but that does not tell us about the children involved...we cant ignore this anymore... and I think it need to be talked about in the schools.. there is a lot of shame attached to this for kids as well...