Grappler Deep State Feller wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:31am:




do the men usually take the children with them when they escape.??... like I said in my response there are all levels of abuse... refuges are usually for the worst and immediate removal..a safe haven for NOW...you do make a point though what about men...do they mainly go home to mum? do women stalk a man threatening death if they dont come back??...

it needs to be out there if we have an understanding of what is going on.. who knows mayb e we can prevent a lot of it happening...

if we sweep it under the carpet with silence...we wont change a thing...


fill us females in with what men have to endure...we need to know we can be just as bad if not worse..we have heard of awful things women do when it comes to children seeing their fathers I am appalled I might add at some of the stuff I have read....a lot of revenge it isnt good for sure....and a terrible example to set children...

there is no one size fits all with this ...but we need to all be on the same page...see it as Family not domestic..

stop covering it up....get the children to talk about it with their school teachers   make it a safe place for them to talk about whats going on at home.... it shouldnt need a visit from the police.. but people should know their kids are likely to talk to someone...it may make them think twice about their actions...

in my childhood "silence" was the abuse...I didnt know it then.. but it was like having a black cloud hanging over your heads..you dont want to remember your childhood...

Ex Dame Pansi wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:51am:



well done pansi.. but they are not the taxi company...thats what aussie is claiming he can get anyone to find out where they are even though hes already claimed he knows where they are....

very few people would have these addresses...as we have seen pansi in your neck of the woods Qld.. 3 women in one week murdered by their partners..

do dvos work.. no they dont....we have some very violent people out there who are hell bent on taking someones life...one of those women was also pregnant.. so two lives gone just like that.

Ex Dame Pansi wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:56am:




theres a shame thing added to all this isnt there??...but its the perp that needs outing not the victim..... no one should have to leave their home to get away from someone....the villain stays put..it isnt fair at all..

http://www.community.nsw.gov.au/docs_menu/parents_carers_and_families/domestic_a...

Domestic Violence Line

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, you can ring the Domestic Violence Line for help on 1800 656 463 (TTY 1800 671 442).

The Domestic Violence Line is a statewide free-call number and is available 24 hours, seven days a week.

Trained caseworkers

The Domestic Violence Line provides telephone counselling, information and referrals for women and same-sex partners who are experiencing or have experienced domestic violence.

Trained female caseworkers are sensitive to the needs of people who have experienced domestic violence.

Domestic Violence Line staff are aware of the special needs of Aboriginal women and women from other cultures, as well as those living in rural and remote areas.

Interpreters and TTY can be arranged where necessary to ensure that all people, regardless of their language or disability can use the service.

The service has an extensive list of contacts, people and services across NSW who can help.

Refuge referrals

The Domestic Violence Line makes referrals to women's refuges and explains what they are and what they do.

It also makes referrals to family support services, counselling, the police and courts, lawyers and hospitals. It helps with transport, emergency accommodation and other relevant support.

AVOs

Caseworkers can explain what an Apprehended Violence Order (AVO) is and how to obtain one. Police intervention can be arranged where appropriate and assistance can be provided to transport women and children to a safe place.

other support, information and counselling on domestic violence

If you are experiencing domestic violence, or know someone who is, there are many organisations who can help. Here are some useful links and helplines:

Rape Crisis Centre/Sexual Assault Hotline – 02 9819 6565 or 1800 424 017
1800RESPECT – A national Line which can support victims of trauma
Women’s Legal Services NSW – Domestic Violence Advocacy Service (DVAS) – 1800 810 784 or 02 8745 6999
Immigrant Women’s Speakout Association of NSW – 02 9635 8022
RSPCA Safe Pets Program – 02 9770 7555
The RSPCA Safe Beds for Pets program provides temporary housing for pets of people who are seeking refuge from domestic violence
Domestic violence at work – provides information and support to working women experiencing domestic violence on how to stay safe at work
Victims Access Line – 1800 633 063
Provides confidential support, referral and information for victims of crime
Another Closet – services and Information on violence in gay and lesbian relationships
Mensline – a 24 hour service for men which has counsellors who are trained in dealing with male victims of domestic violence
Women’s Domestic Violence Court Advocacy Program – 1300 888 529
The Women’s Domestic Violence Court Advocacy Services (WDVCASs) provide court support, advocacy, referrals and information. Some WDVCAS have specialist workers to help Aboriginal women, or women from culturally and linguistically diverse backgrounds.

Looks easy hey.

Call, talk....they will help you with next step planning.

Problem no 1.

Getting a call through in the 1st place.Expect to wait forever IF your call gets through.

This needs to change.

cods wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 10:03am:


Cods your posts are very interesting to read.

Thank you for them.

I havent heard of a crisis in accommodation anywhere to be honest lisa....

its the prevention of murder thats in crisis.. how does this keep happening over and over again..

the children babies that are murdered almost every week is beyond my comprehension...this is not just a GOVT problem... I always ask.. where are the extended families??..why are the never mentioned??..if a man laid a finger on my kids or my grandkids I would clean him up...he would have to put me in hospital..no way could I stand by whilst that was going on....so where is everybody?????....have we really sunk so low we dont notice black and blue...

Lisa Jones wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 10:19am:



WOW thats a first... thank you.... I am usually called nasty names for my posts...

I try to keep a serious thread on topic as some tend to track off.....and this topic is about a cancer in our community that is spreading..... we need to face it and deal with it heavily no more slaps on the wrist..

I am talking about the violent issues... not just people acting mean