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Reply #435 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:04pm

Aussie wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 5:49pm:

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who keeps taking it off topic.. you... its all about you and the fantasy world you live in.....you know sweet fanny adams about womens refuges...in fact they are not really called that anymore...its womens crisis accommodation....

Ya see, cods, this is where you come apart. Apart from basic stuff, you know nothing about me, including that I was very personally responsible for starting, setting up, and seeing into ongoing existence several Womens' Refuges.[high

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you seem more hell bent on telling everyone what power you have especially over female cab drivers..and what you claim you know..as fact

I have not made a single comment about female 'cab drivers.' What's up, cods?

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then..... HOUSTON we have a problem.. we need to talk about this problem.. not taxi drivers.

Indeed there is a problem, and there is nothing whatsoever new about it, and if you really want to help deal with the problem, can I suggest you cease posting stuff which attracts a need to self defend?

Do not believe anything this delusional online perpetrator states online.

You have been warned.

Re Aussie, he is, as you can see, very unwell.

Everyone who has read through this topic from day 1 can see Aussie's very agitated trolling of this topic, after closing down a similar topic in The Tavern for the same reason.

You will also see recurring attempts by Aussie in victim blaming, minimizing, trivializing and marginalizing DV issues.

Now...after 35 pages, he's suddenly remembered he has set up many women's refuges. Really guys..... Roll Eyes

The awkward reality however is this : He is a perpetrator, a failure, a liar and ....a cab driver.

And as such, he needs help. Lots of it.

Probably best to ignore, report, post over.

That way, we can all get on with the topic.

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Reply #436 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:07pm

mariacostel wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 12:44pm:

Lisa Jones wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:56am:

Grappler Deep State Feller wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:31am:

I think we need to carefully differentiate here between women genuinely escaping violence and women simply becoming homeless for any number of reasons. Often placing all of these in the same basket confuses the figures - as does adding children with women in all cases thus inflating the figures of violence when it does occur - and perhaps that is why there is this apparently rigid case management system.

Those deemed to be in a low level of danger are moved into alternative accommodation.

The housing system is clogged everywhere.

I note there is not a single men's refuge from violence.

There are. Very few though.

What would be the value of a SECRET refuge? You sound like you are describing ASIO safe houses. Most refuges are well known and have priority access to police.

Value? Safety.

It's protocol here in NSW.

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Reply #437 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:09pm

cods wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 6:54pm:

Aussie wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 6:40pm:

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If I wanted to know where they all were on the Sunshine Coast, I'd get a female mate to feign a need for a Refuge, and Bob would be my Uncle.

And what has that to do with female Cabbies, cods? Nothing?

Really, cods....you want a Thread to stay relevant, yet you make off topic posts which require a response. No-one gets a free hit.

yes thats right you dont have any mates do you...you think you are James bloody Bond... Grin

and women are waiting to do whatever you command...as if.....

shut up aussie..

this isnt your thread or relationships.. go fix that its deteriorating at a massive rate....its either abusing everyone or talking about gays...

it needs a real mod.

As most have now worked out, it needs to revert back to Agnes who originally initiated the Relationships forum.

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Reply #438 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:12pm

cods wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 5:35pm:

Aussie wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 5:17pm:

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well feel free to leave then you have made your usual nasty points..

My points are factual cods ~ facts. Nothing nasty about facts, is there? No-one gets a free hit cods.

I'll stay

~ and there is SFA you can do about it. Here I was ~ thinking you wanted to get this back on topic ~ but, nah, you want to take a swing. Okay. I can deal with that.

facts... lol

who keeps taking it off topic.. you... its all about you and the fantasy world you live in.....you know sweet fanny adams about womens refuges...in fact they are not really called that anymore...its womens crisis accommodation.

you seem more hell bent on telling everyone what power you have especially over female cab drivers..and what you claim you know..as fact

than ever giving a bit of thought to this crisis... you live in Qld for goodness sakes.. 3 women murdered in the same week and not one word about that and how it may be solved...

maybe you should try reading some of your own posts and or threads...where you carry on about people who go off topic....and about your version of abuse...

if 3 women are murdered in the same week because of domestic violence...

then..... HOUSTON we have a problem.. we need to talk about this problem.. not taxi drivers.

Yep. You've caught him out in yet another lie Cods.

And as such...expect revenge.

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Reply #439 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:12pm

Aussie wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 7:09pm:

cods wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 7:02pm:

Aussie wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 6:56pm:

Couple of things there. I, and not one Member of any of my Family, extended as much as you like ever, experienced domestic violence. Why did I miss out on this marvel. Was it sheer luck? I reckon not. I reckon it was all to do with having basic values and mixing with people who also had the same basic values.

"It did untold damage to the kids, and she still took him back

oh is this another aussie thread... Roll Eyes

you do realise some women are driven into the ground and have no self esteem enough to get out....thats why we are talking about this topic[or trying too]... and not the life and times of aussie..

I agree it has SFA to do with me personally. I have never been touched by it. How about you consider ....... why? Where do people get their lack of self esteem from?

I am the result of FAMILY violence, and therefore I trump you all, and yet I see no virtue in demonising and criminalising ONE component of 'family' to attain some mythical savage 'empowerment' of the other.

My mother stabbed me once and abandoned us all..our father neglected us nigh unto death (I nearly died of double pneumonia at 14, and NONE of We Four had shoes for school, books and even warm blankets and clothes for winter - my sister after myself and I between us had THE two highest IQs in our school - yet have struggled for a basic existence), and intermittently beat my brother (who eventually died as a result of his schizophrenia and paranoia derived from his upbringing) and I, while neglecting our two sisters to the point that they have no self esteem and no moral and social compasses, and no idea of what a REAL MAN was.

None of you can tell me about Family Violence and neglect and abuse.... and yet - I will say again - my children NEVER were beaten, neglected, abused, or left in any way without anything, and both earned scholarships to a private secondary college.

No person, in any situation or from any background, can justify abuse and neglect or violence towards family and their very own ... family is all we have.. and the best thing I ever did was to divorce mine......

That's the ending of my book about my childhood and upbringing.... and there was never one reason on this Earth for any of it....

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Lisa Jones Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 39047 Sydney Gender:	Re: ••• DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ••• Reply #440 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:15pm Agnes wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 5:42pm: latest stats- 31 women killed in 15 weeks- we sure do have a problem and it highlights some pretty ugly truths about men in this country- not all men, but too freaking many. 61 lost this year Agnes.
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Reply #445 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:38pm

Grappler Deep State Feller wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:12pm:

Aussie wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 7:09pm:

cods wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 7:02pm:

Aussie wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 6:56pm:

Couple of things there. I, and not one Member of any of my Family, extended as much as you like ever, experienced domestic violence. Why did I miss out on this marvel. Was it sheer luck? I reckon not. I reckon it was all to do with having basic values and mixing with people who also had the same basic values.

"It did untold damage to the kids, and she still took him back

oh is this another aussie thread... Roll Eyes

you do realise some women are driven into the ground and have no self esteem enough to get out....thats why we are talking about this topic[or trying too]... and not the life and times of aussie..

I agree it has SFA to do with me personally. I have never been touched by it. How about you consider ....... why? Where do people get their lack of self esteem from?

I am the result of FAMILY violence, and therefore I trump you all, and yet I see no virtue in demonising and criminalising ONE component of 'family' to attain some mythical savage 'empowerment' of the other.

My mother stabbed me once and abandoned us all..our father neglected us nigh unto death (I nearly died of double pneumonia at 14, and NONE of We Four had shoes for school, books and even warm blankets and clothes for winter - my sister after myself and I between us had THE two highest IQs in our school - yet have struggled for a basic existence), and intermittently beat my brother (who eventually died as a result of his schizophrenia and paranoia derived from his upbringing) and I, while neglecting our two sisters to the point that they have no self esteem and no moral and social compasses, and no idea of what a REAL MAN was.

None of you can tell me about Family Violence and neglect and abuse.... and yet - I will say again - my children NEVER were beaten, neglected, abused, or left in any way without anything, and both earned scholarships to a private secondary college.

No person, in any situation or from any background, can justify abuse and neglect or violence towards family and their very own ... family is all we have.. and the best thing I ever did was to divorce mine......

That's the ending of my book about my childhood and upbringing.... and there was never one reason on this Earth for any of it....

You've always been a gentleman IMO.

I'm sorry you suffered so terribly.

Thank you for sharing this with us.

It's a story of survival and victory.

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Johnsmith Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 4716 Gender:	Re: ••• DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ••• Reply #446 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:45pm Aussie wrote on Oct 4^th, 2015 at 8:49pm: Why ask me ~ unless you are beavering for personal information? what personal information you farkin simpleton, its a simple yes or no answer. Don't worry, your refusal to answer has already provided the answer I'm looking for.
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Reply #447 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 9:47pm

Annie Anthrax wrote on Oct 1^st, 2015 at 8:31pm:

How many men have died as a result of domestic violence this year? How many men live in terror of being killed at the hands of their female partners?

There is no moral excuse for violence in the family home. Victims of lethal domestic violence are overwhelmingly women and children. Making excuses to justify poor behaviour is pathetic in any situation, but blindingly so in this case.

I am blessed to be in an emotionally and physically safe relationship and I am incredinly grateful for that.

When I was younger, I was in a violent relationship. I went to hospital many times with head injuries from being kicked in the head with steel capped boots. I have a scar on by back from being stabbed. I spent 3 days locked in a cupboard.

None of the men here offering excuses for violence against women have a clue what theyre talking about. Nagging? LOL. I spent a year almost too afraid to breathe. Desktop warriors who havent a fresh idea between them.

None of the men here????

What men???

Just 1 man is doing this...Aussie!

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Lisa Jones Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 39047 Sydney Gender:	Re: ••• DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ••• Reply #448 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 10:00pm Keep meaning to post this up....
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Amadd Gold Member Offline Mo Posts: 6217	Re: ••• DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ••• Reply #449 - Oct 4^th, 2015 at 10:24pm Unfortunately, violence is a given in all societies. Without it, we can never be free. Domestically, I would say that violence is most often initiated by females. Some men have not enough self control and they retaliate.
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