Phemanderac wrote on Nov 5
th, 2015 at 6:31am:
DV is not just some vacuous he said v she said issue.
As to what happens to children when DV comes to town, both Women and Men end up under the microscope...
It seem fairly evident here that not many (if any at all) have even the smallest grasp on how "child protection" works (at least in NSW). Not that it works well all of the time, however, what is actually quite telling is that as a society we need a child protection authority.
Kids exposed to any form of relationships violence, whose safety has been compromised are the responsibility of both parents - failure to protect children from risk of harm means that both parents behaviours are closely looked at.
I realise of course that once emotions are running high, it seems that some adults are unable to think beyond their own egos. That is also not gender specific.
Yep, the system is flawed, however, if individuals demonstrated a capacity to make better decisions the system would not actually be all that necessary.
this is at the heart of it and modern society and modern government make this "living inside your own ego much worse"
the political system is all about "me,me,me'
hockey was right to point out the age of entitlement.
one can see the whining and selfish demands of the leaners on this forum.
they cannot see beyond their own pain.
they are totally trapped in their heads.
the chode mentality of seeking stimulation and seeking validation as a source of happiness.
the endless pokies stimulation, the gaming stimulation, the facebook stimulation has seen most people living totally in the egoic paradym.
if we asked most people to sit down in a chair in an empty room with no phone or tv for 3 hours they would burst into tears after 15 minutes.
such is their level of low consciousness.
this is becoming even worse for the toddlers of today.
they are fed a totally egoic paradym. they are to be put on a pedestal, fussed over, they are to be given ribbons for coming last, they are not allowed to form queues at day care, for fear the ones at the back will lose ego status, they are playing with phones and apps at 2 when they should be climbing trees and eating dirt.
2 things and 2 things only can break people out of this selfishness and from a 'take' mentality to a 'contribution' mentality.
1 self help which gets rid of negative neurosis and encourages people to really try to improve and gain a sense of contribution
2 the various religious ideologies which ALL have a basic theme of it is better to give then to recieve.
The secular leftard intellectuals have nothing but misery to inflict on an increasingly self centred and directionless chode bunch of mediocre scrubs.
they have no larger vision. they have no expectations on people to live life to the full. its all about "me, me, me' , victimhood, jealousy , hatred of success and domestic violence and lashing out is the consequence of such poorly disciplined and low consciousness thinking.
the leftard intellectuals have reduced man from the mentality that bulit the great cathederals and took great pride in their reverence to a society that is living at a level of consciousness barely above that of an animal