Phemanderac wrote on Nov 10
th, 2015 at 6:48am:
aquascoot wrote on Nov 10
th, 2015 at 6:41am:
i believe in affirmations.
as long as you affirm the truth
Trouble is, there is clearly no single truth...
So, who is the arbiter of truth?
Lots of people "work hard" and, the harsh reality is, most for not much return - yet you're not convinced that they're held back.
I am going to a funeral tomorrow for an old school friend who did nothing but work hard. Caring and providing for her children - she never gathered much in the way of wealth, but her kids are thriving young adults - she died far too young...
Gee and the real kicker now, her employers are looking for two people to employ now because she worked two jobs to make ends meet.
There is one of the side benefits of "hard work" that you seem ignorant to.
I truly hope one day that your waffle generator of inspirational quotes meets the real world one day, only not too harshly...
There are more ways to measure success than money.
i'd be willing to bet that she didnt complain very much and that she had a giving and contributing mentality.
So , when she affirms that she was successful , she is affirming the truth.
But what i dont see as true is this widespread belief amongst the poor that successful people dont want others to succeed. Excuse me , but this is frankly BS.
Most successful people want everyone to be successful.
Most black caviars dont run around all day kicking the asses of the slower horses.
But it is very disappointing when you are successful , and you genuinely try to help people get a leg up and they fail (again due to laziness usually) and then they rationalise it (as humans always do) and call the guy who tried to help them a prick.
Ask any successful person and i'll bet they have stories of family, friends, neighbours or randoms that they tried to help , who squandered the opportunity and turned it all around and bit the hand that fed them
again, this is just human nature at work.
It leads to successful people shutting down eventually and not really bothering.
if we look at someone like, say, a twiggy forrest , who really has put a lot of effort into helping aboriginals get a leg up, i'll bet that there are numerous cases of people who dropped out (through laziness) and then rationalised it as
twiggy is a prick
he used me
he wanted to keep me down
cry baby story.
result...a lose /lose.
i'll bet if twiggy got 1000 veitnamese boat arrivals and gave them high paying jobs and scholarships there would be a very different reaction.
people with entrenched success barriers are "lost".
you can see it in their eyes.
i could try to help many extreme lefties but , in the end, it would come to nought .
If i found someone like your friend who worked twice as hard i would reward her with lurks and perks that were way above and beyond.
successful people love helping others be successful and have a great sense of social justice. I'll bet thats where twiggy is coming from too. from a higher place, from a place of contribution
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you are too cynical pharm