Aussie wrote on Nov 11
th, 2015 at 4:54pm:
Quote:shes a proud lady like myself has been alone for a long time has always been independent until moving in with son and his missus she is old school
and in my opinion entitled to do with her own money what she choose..
this is not estate money she and her husband had a business.. she worked as hard as he did....
I am saying this is what I think anyone should be ENTITLED TO DO.. we know all about the law and rules and so forth... but they will always outwit you... and when you are gone... thats it...
I am just saying it isnt right.. you do not have to agree with me....
And I am offering you/her a simple solution which meets all her needs and keeps the grubs at bay, but you are hell bent on ignoring it, just to continue stating the bleeding obvious. Be part of the solution cods, not part of the problem!
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shaking head...
AUSSIE I KNOW ALL THAT you are telling me nothing I dont know already
dont you think a lady of her means has done all the enquiries..???? why do you treat everyone like they are stupid...
there are all sorts of laws on gifting and duration....if she gifts the the money and dies the next day... it takes on a whole different accent...
she also likes her independence even though they live in the same house ..which she has by receiving her own money into her bank account from stocks and shares....as well as cash in the bank...it isnt that sim ple.. and the govt will be there with bells on...
I am not ignoring your advice I am just saying it isnt fool proof and why should she give her money over to her son and daughter in law?????
..... we dont know who will go first...personally I think her son is swinging the lead... but I say nothing.. she hands him over money all the time and he spends it.. on the pair of them they go overseas about 4 times a year...but hes all shes got and I can understand that but she still want her own money doing what its always done looking after her without her having to ask anyone or an swer to anyone....if she didnt have the greedy sneaks in the back ground life for her would be rosy...
does that help explain things.
all I am saying is people should be able to make a will and that be that unless hardship can be proved..
why should a strange judge be the one to dish your money out...the way he sees fit?????
thats all I am saying..