he was rescued as a baby but that didnt prevent them ruining his life.
http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-02-12/bobby-veen-one-of-australias-longest-serving-prisoner/7115350

This situation is not new, and we are in the midst of putting up with someone that was adopted as a little boy so he could have a better life that where he came from (he is of Indian origin), my daughter decided to bond with him a couple of years ago (she was 30 he is in his mid 40's).
He has tattoos all over, no car, debts, has been on drugs for the last 10 years or so, said he aged his adoptive parents (they adopted 3 kids all up), and I don't for the life of me, understand why these adopted kids with a good chance and education at life, don't wake up to themselves with such a good life they could have had!!
Daughter thinks she can help him, but he has lived with us for the last 2 years, much to my annoyance, does nothing around the house, leaves drity dishes in the sink for me to wash, and daughter is a taxi driver for him everywhere. Smokes and leaves ciggi buts everywhere, leaves lights on, leaves doors unlocked. I have to remind him to turn off lights, lock doors, (really, why should I be telling a 40 something year old this???)

He got caught with ice and a glass pipe on 1st January, the police called me to alert me about it, (as if I know anything about ice or whatever!)...
I think the cop was annoyed with me for having him in our care at our residence, like as if we are being done wrong by.
Did I really need this, trying to just mind my own business, I am not his mother I told the cop, he has his adoptive parents not so far away from where we were having that conversation. I was warned to take care and be aware by that cop, about behavioural changes when someone goes on ice.

To be honest, I am fed up with all these problems and the dramas.
He is manipulative and seems to have sucked in the daughter with great sympathy. She has put him on the straight and narrow path with a job he loves and the people like him. Time to let go.
Waiting for her to wake up and move on.

Sorry, had to have a rant 

Sophia wrote on Feb 13^th, 2016 at 1:33pm:





Druggies only have one use for other people and that is to use them for a means to an end to get more drugs, that is it, there is nothing else, if you have a druggie in your life cut them loose NOW otherwise they will take you down with them, a druggies family is drugs, a druggies only one true love is drugs, a druggies whole existence is drugs, there is no other purpose to their life except to do more drugs and they view their whole environment as just a means to get drugs. 

Sophia wrote on Feb 13^th, 2016 at 1:33pm:


good rant.

GordyL wrote on Feb 13^th, 2016 at 2:02pm:


Gordy Loser never misses an opportunity for a racist hate rant.

This man was not rescued at all but trafficked and perverted by closet poms.

Sophia wrote on Feb 13^th, 2016 at 1:33pm:


You don't have to mind your own business in your own home.

You have to tell him all this shyte because he is a drug fecked moron.

And your daughter hasn't put him on the straight and narrow whilst he is still freeloading in your home.

All she does is enable him to use her & you.

Tell her to tell him to ferk off .... or they can both hit the long shoe.

You don't need that shyte & your daughter shouldn't expect you to cop it.

innocentbystander. wrote on Feb 13^th, 2016 at 1:54pm:



in life there is always the right way to do something and the easy way.

the easy way to feel good is to take drugs .

the right way is to construct an awesome life.

the second way takes a lot longer and you have to say "is it worth it"?

the easy way to get big muscles is to take steroids
the right  way is to go to the gym

the easy way to get stimulation is to eat a pizza and some sprite
the right way is to climb a mountain.

the right way always involves self discipline, persistence, working really hard, never quiting and seeing the journey from the frame of

Not "what am i getting out of this "
But "what am i becoming by doing this"

Its why lefties hate my self help philosophy so much.
Because its dammed hard work  .

How to stop your kids using drugs?
Be a good leader and embody the principles of the "noble rightard"