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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 40775 Gender:	Re: Fidelity Reply #45 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 11:43am What also bugs me is, what about that other person that is shagging a married person ? They are as much responsible.
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Reply #46 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:05pm

It is really down to the married person don't you think? I have heard from married men on the prowl.. their mantra is.. My wife doesn't understand me, we aren't even really together anymore. Lets ****, I'd feel so much happier.

I mean,, they play the pity game. The I'm unhappily married game.

If the person being importuned wants to believe that, then it happens. Only the married person needs to feel responsible, in that sort of situation, don't you think?

What do you think?

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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 40775 Gender:	Re: Fidelity Reply #47 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:13pm It takes 2 people to have an affair, is my aspect. Sure, maybe ......'my wife doesn't understand me, we aren't even really together anymore. Lets ****, I'd feel so much happier..........' that is a married man you are talking to.
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Reply #48 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:14pm

Emma wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:05pm:

It is really down to the married person don't you think? I have heard from married men on the prowl.. their mantra is.. My wife doesn't understand me, we aren't even really together anymore. Lets ****, I'd feel so much happier.

I mean,, they play the pity game. The I'm unhappily married game.

If the person being importuned wants to believe that, then it happens. Only the married person needs to feel responsible, in that sort of situation, don't you think?

What do you think?

Yes. If they are both married though...

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Emma Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 9853 OZ Gender:	Re: Fidelity Reply #49 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:27pm two cheaters cheating their spouses, in full knowledge of it. The excitement of the illicit.
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Setanta Gold Member Offline \/ Peace man! Posts: 16646 Northern NSW Gender:	Re: Fidelity Reply #50 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:35pm Emma wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:27pm: two cheaters cheating their spouses, in full knowledge of it. The excitement of the illicit. I had a girlfriend when I was a teen that contacted me on facefook, we talk every now and then, she's offered to fly over for a fling. Nope, no excitement of the illicit.
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Reply #51 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:43pm

Setanta wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:35pm:

Emma wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:27pm:

two cheaters cheating their spouses, in full knowledge of it.

The excitement of the illicit.

I had a girlfriend when I was a teen that contacted me on facefook, we talk every now and then, she's offered to fly over for a fling. Nope, no excitement of the illicit.

Ah.......but does Mrs Setanta know that you are in current communication with her and that she has offered the fling?

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Reply #52 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:46pm

Aussie wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:43pm:

Setanta wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:35pm:

Emma wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:27pm:

two cheaters cheating their spouses, in full knowledge of it.

The excitement of the illicit.

I had a girlfriend when I was a teen that contacted me on facefook, we talk every now and then, she's offered to fly over for a fling. Nope, no excitement of the illicit.

Ah.......but does Mrs Setanta know that you are in current communication with her and that she has offered the fling?

Certainly. She my best friend. Who else would tell first?

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Reply #53 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:54pm

Setanta wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:35pm:

Emma wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:27pm:

two cheaters cheating their spouses, in full knowledge of it.

The excitement of the illicit.

I had a girlfriend when I was a teen that contacted me on facefook, we talk every now and then, she's offered to fly over for a fling. Nope, no excitement of the illicit.

Because you are true. You believe in that, and are not a cheater.

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Reply #54 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 11:02pm

Setanta wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:46pm:

Aussie wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:43pm:

Setanta wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:35pm:

Emma wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:27pm:

two cheaters cheating their spouses, in full knowledge of it.

The excitement of the illicit.

I had a girlfriend when I was a teen that contacted me on facefook, we talk every now and then, she's offered to fly over for a fling. Nope, no excitement of the illicit.

Ah.......but does Mrs Setanta know that you are in current communication with her and that she has offered the fling?

Certainly. She my best friend. Who else would tell first?

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Reply #55 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 11:36pm

Aussie wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 11:02pm:

Setanta wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:46pm:

Aussie wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:43pm:

Setanta wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:35pm:

Emma wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 10:27pm:

two cheaters cheating their spouses, in full knowledge of it.

The excitement of the illicit.

I had a girlfriend when I was a teen that contacted me on facefook, we talk every now and then, she's offered to fly over for a fling. Nope, no excitement of the illicit.

Ah.......but does Mrs Setanta know that you are in current communication with her and that she has offered the fling?

Certainly. She my best friend. Who else would tell first?

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One of those wifey looks I have no idea how to describe. Not concerned, not angry, something else... Maybe, why are you telling me this?

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Aussie Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 38865 Gender:	Re: Fidelity Reply #56 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 11:39pm Maybe...........where are the scissors?
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Setanta Gold Member Offline \/ Peace man! Posts: 16646 Northern NSW Gender:	Re: Fidelity Reply #57 - Aug 14^th, 2016 at 11:45pm Aussie wrote on Aug 14^th, 2016 at 11:39pm: Maybe...........where are the scissors? She's not the Lorena Bobbitt type, she'd just walk.
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Emma Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 9853 OZ Gender:	Re: Fidelity Reply #58 - Aug 15^th, 2016 at 12:06am Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. You know that Setanta. Aussie? maybe not so much. But we live to learn a lesson everyday.
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Aussie Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 38865 Gender:	Re: Fidelity Reply #59 - Aug 15^th, 2016 at 12:10am Emma wrote on Aug 15^th, 2016 at 12:06am: Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. You know that Setanta. Aussie? maybe not so much. But we live to learn a lesson everyday. What would your reaction be to your partner remaining in contact with a former sexual partner who was urging for an encore?
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