greggerypeccary wrote on May 3
rd, 2017 at 6:13pm:
Gnads wrote on May 3
rd, 2017 at 6:10pm:
greggerypeccary wrote on May 3
rd, 2017 at 6:07pm:
Aussie wrote on May 3
rd, 2017 at 5:58pm:
Quote:Yes.
However, I wasn't making excuses for him - I was merely suggesting one possible trigger that could make a guy go over the edge.
It's a not a nice thing to go through.
I agree, but to attack a woman with an axe in front of the kids????????
What sort of grub, let alone Husband/Father does that?
One who's been pushed over the edge.
Again, I make no excuses for this guy.
However, have your children taken away from you, and see if you remain a reasonable, rational person.
Well ferk me hooray
something I can agree with Peccar on.
Take children away from a mother, and society goes apeshit.
Take them away from a father, and hardly anyone gives a fvkk.
Fathers love their children every bit as much as mothers do.
Absolutely true. I would never, having watched him for years with my children, pretend that their father doesn't love them every bit as much as i do. From pregnancy on, even.
But what do we do about people who have clearly demonstrated that they are negative influences or even a danger to children?
If we are agreed, and we are, that restriction to children can push someone over the edge, how do we protect children from parents who have been restricted but clearly that restriction is as a result of that parents behaviour and potential for behaviours?
According to Alinta's link, the man in question was angered that day by being ignored by his children. One could argue that they ignored him due to parental alienation by the mother or that they were merely responding to how they felt about him without influence from the mother. The fact that there was a history of violence suggests that it is indeed possible the children had formed their own conclusions.
The only solution i can see is a rather pitiful one and that is supervised access.
But what to suggest when, as is plausible in this case, the children don't want to see the parent in question?