Gordon wrote on Jun 29
th, 2020 at 12:18pm:
aquascoot wrote on Jun 29
th, 2020 at 5:40am:
Grappler is correct that a woman is more likely to hit or slap or get up in the face of a man in a relationship then vice versa.
but its like my jack russell is more likely to snap at my doberman, so we have to rely on the doberman to exercise more self restraint.
women are 1/2 a standard deviation high in trait neuroticism.
they are more "easily upset".
you need that to raise infants.
dad might snore thru the baby crying at midnight but the mother has to be more "sensitive". its a biological thing.
so women have higher levels of anxiety and depression and are more likely to cry and start a fight in a relationship.
but men are 1/2 a standard deviation higher in trait aggression and trait disagreeableness.
thats why there are 10 men in jail for every woman.
thats not discrimination.
should we start arresting women 10 x more so we achieve equality
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of course not.
men are more aggressive.
the stats for this also play out in women being far more likely to ATTEMPT suicude (because they get upset more easily) but men being far more likely to SUCCEED with suicide despite lower numbers of attempts (because they are aggressive and use a more lethal violent force)
If a bloke walked into a pub and verbally abused patrons it wouldn't be long before somebody punched his head in.
Any fair minded person would conclude the assailant did the wrong thing but the victim contributed to the situation.
Just as I'm sure some women are totally the innocent party in DV situations, there would be varying degrees of where the woman has created a situation where the bloke lashing out was a likely outcome.
i dont think a guy should ever hit a woman but the usual scenario would not be
man comes home in foul mood and belts wife.
it would be man comes home and wife (fat janeen) starts shaming the guy (fat steve).
janeen resents the fact that steve is useless and just another child she has to look after.
she gets up in his face.
'your useless steve, why did i marry you, what have you done for me lately, you have a shiiit job, you are shiiit in bed, everything you do and everything you are spells loser"
and what can steve do to reply to that character assassination (much of which is true by the way).
he could get on the narrow road to success and bounce out of bed and create an awesome life.
but its a hell of a lot easier if you are a sad, pathetic, demotivated loser to just slap her .
domestic violecne occurs becasue men are not on their mission in life.
they dont have a north star
and so they get sucked into the petty bitchy nasty to and fro of emotional discontent
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