Gnads wrote on Nov 6
th, 2021 at 6:06am:
NorthOfNorth wrote on Nov 5
th, 2021 at 8:38am:
What is bizarre is how well Cleo herself has handled this.
19 days away from her family and no apparent sign of trauma?
Was she used to being left alone for long periods of time? Or babysat by so many people, she had no fear of strangers or being separated from her mother?
Good point
I know the feeling, being left with friends or extended family for weeks at a time to take domestic pressure off mum and dad while they'd adjust to a new home situation. I was very young but started to see the world in a more independent light away from my parents and siblings. When I turned 20, that feeling surfaced again, believe it or not, when I was conscripted, but it was out of my parents hands and the Army were the worst of all, it's how I learned not to trust overbearing authoritarian fecal scum
I dealt with it and forced myself to become even more independent, stoic and covertly rebellious. Mateship was non-existent in the military then, it was dog eat dog, the same as it was in civvy street, only worse because freedom was non existent. Freedom becomes the most important aspect of your life
IMO, Cleo, as young as she is, would have had similar feelings of independence and stoicism while being held, and as she grows older she will likely become strong mentally and very perceptive, as I did. She will have a heightened sense of imminent danger and an instinct to sense peculiar personality traits of strangers. A genuine smile from a new acquaintance will always reassure her of her faith in humanity, but always wary just the same