Kat wrote on May 14
th, 2022 at 1:41pm:
For those who think there are only two genders...
There are NOT.
There are only two SEXES. Gender, however, is a spectrum, a bit like the autism spectrum - and much of it is related to
societal expectations and influences. It ranges from the macho 'alpha male' stereotype at one end through to the 'helpless
dumb blonde' stereotype at the other end.
In-between are 'beta' and 'effeminate' males, crossdressers, 'tomboy' girls and women, asexual and non-binary people etc.
It is not required to start adding and/or removing body parts in order to be transgender. Some do, but many do not.
Gender is NOT tied rigidly to your sexuality either. One can be a trans woman but abhor the thought of sex with a male
while another may be a trans man but not want to have sex with women. Many find it difficult or impossible to form any
kind of meaningful relationships at all because of this. Trans women, especially, risk actual physical harm from men who
find their masculinity threatened should they find the trans girl attractive or if they think they're being 'conned into having sex with a bloke'.
The basic problem is that you people see gender as being like sex, as a light switch with MALE on one side and FEMALE on
the other, where-as gender is more like a light switch with a dimmer control, and you can be ANYWHERE between the two
poles.
This is not 'just my opinion' - it's that of most experts in the field. So if you want to slag of at anyone - slag them, not me.
First you needed 'experts' to tell you that marriage has been misunderstood for millennia. Now you need 'experts in the field' to tell you that what a woman is has been similarly misunderstood. Next - pre-schoolers who cannot smoke or drink or vote can reliably determine that they are in fact trans-sexual and their mother is not a total fruitcake but a supportive, affirming birthing unit.
Follow 'the science', all you deplorable, know-nuffin' far-right white supremacists!!! Oh, yes.
Well - no. It is a mental illness that should not be encouraged and treated as if it wasn't.