Lisa Jones wrote on Aug 10
th, 2022 at 8:47am:
Carl D wrote on Aug 10
th, 2022 at 8:10am:
SadKangaroo wrote on Aug 9
th, 2022 at 3:00pm:
But in modern Australia the concept of mateship is dead, if it ever existed and COVID has shown me that the vast majority of people are selfish front bottoms not worthy of my generosity or even compassion.
Exactly - I believe our society has been like that for a long, long time now but it has taken the Covid pandemic to make it obvious.
aquascoot wrote on Aug 9
th, 2022 at 4:15pm:
such narcissisitic people are indeed "front bottoms" (whatever that means)
That's the forum's word censor - I don't what word SK actually typed but I can imagine.
Mateship? What's that? Remind us all...
We look after our own, and our own is who is here in this country. It doesn't matter your age, race or gender, you're one of us.
I used to think country folk were racist until I was living in a rural town for a short time and while they say some of the most incredibly racist things I've heard (until joining this forum), they were the first there when the new Vietnamese family moved in to help them when their shop burned down. I would always try to do the right thing, but after witnessing this, and taking part where I could help, the locals treated the imports like their own, without hesitation, the moment they needed help. Even one of the most stoic, walls up no emotions on display farmer we there, hugging the father of the family and crying with him when they were going through what was left of the building.
Turns out they're really not that racist, they just say racist things. They recognise humanity and its people like that, racist language and jokes aside, that formed my understanding of what mateship was.
But that was 20 years ago.
My wife and our eldest hopped on the buses to Brisbane twice after the floods to help clean up.
They won't be the last floods, but I'm done with things like the mud army.
As things start to get more difficult in the economy, rates increase and belts need tightening, I'd already gone through our budget and identified the things that I can cut out.
But now, with my new found realisation about the rest of your cu
nts
, I've decided that the multiple streaming services we have are more important than the monthly contribution to breast cancer research and the one for Alzheimer's. Someone else can do it.
Why should I go without netflix?
The next time my neighbour's husband who should really be in a home goes walkabout, I'm not going to join the search, might as well just stay home and watch some Iron Chef.
Or Gladys down the street, widowed and in her 90's, bitch can mow her own lawn and take her bins out and in herself, I've got my own things to worry about. And if her Woolies delivery isn't on time and she runs out of toilet paper or tissues, she can call her son in Victoria, not my problem.
Trolleys? No need to return those, just push them into someone else's car when I'm done.
Doing a tip run and got spare space in my tray or trailer, no need to check if my neighbours have anything they need to get rid of.
Provide free accommodation to homeless pets after the bushfires when their families are barely able to find a roof over their head, let alone a pet-friendly one? Nahhhhhh, not my problem.
Storm or flood damage on your place? I'll crack a beer and watch you struggle to close your garage door or board up your windows.
There is no point in modern Australia pretending mateship is a thing anymore and trying to be a part of it.
Too many people have their hands out, wanting assistance when they need help but will never ever help those in return.
"Oh sorry I've got a bad back", "Oh I don't have time, sorry" blah blah blah
And they're usually the ones who will tell others to pull themselves up by their bootstraps yet cry the loudest when they need help.
Be it something simple like wearing a mask when they're being begged to by authorities so they don't have to mandate it, or lending a hand in a time of crisis.
They have found a way to push their selfishness to such an extreme that it's destroyed what was left of mateship in this country.
It's been replaced with "Fu
ck
you, I've got mine" and "People I think I'm better than are getting a level playing field, I deserve more!".
And it went out of fashion a very long time ago unfortunately. That's why frail elderly men/women are fair game on the internet and even in their own homes. Not just on the street. Little kids are also vulnerable. That's why I can't stand listening to the news nowadays.