Sophia wrote on May 28
th, 2023 at 11:32am:
aquascoot wrote on May 28
th, 2023 at 11:26am:
MeisterEckhart wrote on May 28
th, 2023 at 10:43am:
aquascoot wrote on May 28
th, 2023 at 6:11am:
the superior man feels an urge to mentor the chode.
Feeling superior is founded on obtrusion, arrogance and contempt.
not at all.
as we climb the narrow road to success, we have an obligation to throw down ropes to try to help others haul themselves up.
unfortunately success barriers and limiting beliefs mean most will reject the assistance.
thats something the superior man cannot control.
but the act of mentoring is , in and of itself, helpful to the superior man .
emotional states are addictive
people who are sulking are getting a pay off from the sulking.
maybe when you were a child you were sulking and mum tried to give you a chocalate ice cream to snap you out of it.
many kids will toss the ice cream on the floor
people want to stay in the emotional state that feels familiar.
is it your mums fault if you are sulking and toss the ice cream back at her
not at all
her act is not driven by arrogance or contempt
it is driven by compassion.
its on YOU to change.
to grow up and stop being a scared and angry child
Maybe it’s the word “superior” that lends towards a feeling of inadequacy for others?
A different word in its place … let’s think of one…
Advanced?
Wiser?
Experienced?
Guru?
its a nod to a great book, all men should read
David Deida, “The Way of the Superior Man” honest book review.
Plot Summary
Masculine Essence. In a way, the Superior Man is someone who generates energy from the Masculine and sends that off into the world — his career, relationships, and purpose. It’s a call to action for men to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal and the sensitive and caring wimp ideal. The first is all spine and no heart. The second is all heart and no spine. David Deida's Superior Man is the fusing of those two characteristics into a single man.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Part One: A Man’s Way
1 Stop Hoping for a Completion of Anything in Life 2 Live With an Open Heart Even If It Hurts 3 Live As If Your Father Were Dead 4 Know Your Real Edge and Don’t Fake It 5 Always Hold To Your Deepest Realization 6 Never Change Your Mind Just to Please a Woman 7 Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship 8 Lean Just Beyond Your Edge 9 Do It for Love 10 Enjoy Your Friends’ Criticism 11 If You Don’t Know Your Purpose, Discover It, Now 12 Be Willing To Change Everything in Your Life 13 Don’t Use Your Family As an Excuse 14 Don’t Get Lost in Tasks and Duties 15 Stop Hoping for Your Woman to Get Easier
Part Two: Dealing with Women
16 Women Are Not Liars 17 Praise Her 18 Tolerating Her Leads to Resenting Her 19 Don’t Analyze Your Woman 20 Don’t Suggest That a Woman Fix Her Own Emotional Problem 21 Stay With Her Intensity––To a Point 22 Don’t Force the Feminine to Make Decisions
Part Three: Working with Polarity and Energy
23 Your Attraction to the Feminine Is Inevitable 24 Choose a Woman Who Is Your Complementary Opposite 25 Know What Is Important in Your Woman 26 You Will Often Want More Than One Woman 27 Young Women Offer You a Special Energy 28 Each Woman Has a “Temperature” That Can Heal or Irritate You
Part Four: What Women Really Want
29 Choose a Woman Who Chooses You 30 What She Wants Is Not What She Says 31 Her Complaint Is Content-Free 32 She Doesn’t Really Want to Be Number One 33 Your Excellent Track Record Is Meaningless to Her 34 She Wants to Relax in the Demonstration of Your Direction
Part Five: Your Dark Side
35 You Are Always Searching for Freedom 36 Own Your Darkest Desires 37 She Wants the “Killer” in You 38 She Needs Your Consciousness to Match Her Energy
Part Six: Feminine Attractiveness
39 The Feminine is Abundant 40 Allow Older Women Their Magic 41 Turn Your Lust Into Gifts 42 Never Allow Your Desire to Become Suppressed or Depolarized 43 Use Her Attractiveness as a Slingshot Through Appearance