John Smith wrote on Mar 8
th, 2024 at 12:40pm:
...Again, you morons just make it up as you go . You have no idea if there were any signs the marriage was in trouble before she got pregnant to her last child. So stop pretending you have a clue.
Lots of women lose their sex drive when pregnant, they get moodie, and some dirt bag husbands go looking elsewhere. A large number of break ups occur after a pregnancy.
The fact remains no one has enough information about this women's situation and idiots making it up to suit their agenda don't help anyone, let alone themselves.
Well, to start with John, I'm by no means a "moron", as you appear to
suggest. You don't know me, you've never met me, and you have zero
knowledge of my educational qualifications, or my work history, or even
my worldly experiences assimilated over decades.
It's a very presumptuous opinion, and ultimately worthless. Sorry.
And yes, of course I acknowledge that "lots of women lose their sex drive
when pregnant, and get moody". It's known as postpartum depression.
But in the case of this woman, you (or I) don't really know. It'd be extremely
unlikely to be pervasive after two years—from when her last child was born.
Quote:New research shows that a fifth of couples break up in the first year
after the baby is born and the most common reason is a diminishing
sex life, constant arguing and lack of communication.
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https://www.motherhooddiaries.com/relationship-breakdown-after-baby/And—unlike you do so often here—I never just "make it up as I go".
I invariably carry out my due diligence, and list a reference that supports
the claims I'm making. Which you should've done when you posted
"a large number" of break ups occur after a pregnancy. Tsk, tsk.